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-51683-43732Bad Date: Someone who offers to pay for sex but is abusive or violent when you are with them. This includes: Beating, kidnapping, or robbingBeing verbally disrespectful or abusiveRefusing to wear a condomWho is this sheet for? Anyone involved in trading sex or sexual stuff (like sensual massage or dancing) for money, gifts, drugs, or survival needs. Last Updated:June 2019Boston Bad Date SheetRefusing to payForcing any sex acts not agreed toRape, or other acts of violenceBad Date: Someone who offers to pay for sex but is abusive or violent when you are with them. This includes: Beating, kidnapping, or robbingBeing verbally disrespectful or abusiveRefusing to wear a condomWho is this sheet for? Anyone involved in trading sex or sexual stuff (like sensual massage or dancing) for money, gifts, drugs, or survival needs. Last Updated:June 2019Boston Bad Date SheetRefusing to payForcing any sex acts not agreed toRape, or other acts of violenceDateLocationBad DateVehicleDetailsJuly 4th,2019*New Report*Reoccurring PerpetratorWomen was picked up in Dorchester on Blue Hill Ave.Short Muscular Man around 36 years of age seemed to be Cape Verdean or Spanish due to accent. Date had short curly black hair with a thin beard and brown eyes.Newish White Honda Accord. Very clean inside, Not sure if its two or four door.Women reported that the date brought her to a downstairs apartment on Blue Hill Ave. The date reported that he’ll be right back and when he came back he brought a butcher knife with him stating that other girls have stolen from him and he later apologized for bringing the knife in.May 19,2019*New Report*Women was picked up near Fire Station on Mass Ave.Thin Black male appeared to be in his early 20’s w/ short black faded hair and glassesUndescribed VehicleWoman got in car and try to negotiate price. The male reported that he wanted vaginal, oral, and anal for $20.00.She refused and jump out of car to get away from him and he then chased her and threaten to kill her. It was reported that he stated he gotten out of jail two days prior and didn’t want to shoot. He forced her to perform oral sex and then raped her vaginally and anally.May 8, 2019*New Report*StreetOlder Latino male w/ grey hair, glasses and a goatee. Reported that he goes by the nickname “Big Chino”Dark green or Black SUVWoman got into the SUV after negotiated price and sex act. Women provided oral sex and the date was unable to orgasm. At the time she reported she wanted to leave but he drove her somewhere in Dorchester and would not let her. He drove her to buy drugs and held her in the car. He then stopped in the parking lot where he made her preform oral again. Women reported that he was very rough. He slapped her and push her face into his groin.May 2019*New Report*Special AlertSouth End / Planet StorageViolence / Attack by several menn/aReports that five young black men between the ages of 18-21 jumping homeless drug users and beating them up – targeting both women and men.April 21,2019*New Report*Woman met man walking near smoke shop on Mass AveLatino tall and thin male Appeared to be in his early 50’s with black and gray hair. With glasses, goatee and goes by the name “Mafia”On FootDate approached woman at the bus stop and offered crack, heroin and $60.00 for a date. The man took client to a house the was being redone (construction site) in Dorchester that he reported that he worked at. Once there he began acting strangely and insisted that she remove all her clothing. He became erratic and aggressive. Woman was able to escape from building without her clothing.March 2019*New Report*White Young MaleWhite Van extremely dirty inside and described as a wreck.Woman reported that the Date picks you up and requested oral sex. While in van negotiating pay the date states that he’ll pay after. Woman reported that she argued with man and he pulled out a gun and stated that no matter what you’re not getting paid and forced her to do oral sex.Reoccurring Perpetrator March 2019*New Report*Woman was greeted by another female on South Hampton Street2 PREPERTRATORS Hispanic female with scar on her nose working with Black Male with black hair.On Foot Woman reported that a Hispanic woman approached her on South Hampton Street and asked if she would like to go back to her house to get a shower and rest. Woman went with the other woman not knowing the address but realized e was a distance from South Hampton. Once at apt woman reported that she went into the shower where a man walked in took her clothes and raped her. Woman stated after the attack woman ran out of building.March 2019*New Report*Picked up at U-Haul on Mass Ave around 8:00pBi-racial male in his mid 30’s.Nerdy looking with a clean cut fade. Light brown hair and brown eyes.New white 4-door Camry like MercedesWoman reported the date picked her up and brought her to Dudley area/ Orchard Gardens Projects. Man negotiated price and what he wanted. Woman reported he seemed like he had dealt with other dates before. The man then demanded to have anal sex which was not agreed with by woman. The woman than stated she left the car after he was getting aggressive and the man continued to follow her. The woman reported she was scared so she started to yell rape and the man got out of his car and punch her 3x in the face. The man continued to kick her while she was on the ground.Reoccurring Perpetrator reported March 13th, 2019Mass Ave and Dot AveWhite male, 5'10, approximate 50 years old. Short and frizzy brown hair, toothy smileWhite 4-door Toyota Tacoma, partial plate ***886. New looking and cleanMan becomes violent and abusive when denied; doesn't want to use condoms, cheap ($20), drives in circles in the area. Uses lewd and explicit language, asks 'ya got nice/big tits?'February 23rd, 2019Chinatown T-stop, Harrison Ave Middle-aged white male, large gray beard, wore workingman clothesWhite van, older looking with rust on the edgesMan turned very quickly on woman once she was in the car. Man held a gun to her head as she provided oral sex and then was extremely violent. He repeatedly kicked her into the passenger side door until she jumped out. January, 2019Originally met at the Tent, pick up at U-Haul by Mass Ave at 9:50 AM, drove to a parallel streetBlack male with light skin, approx. 31. Chunky, about 5’5 with short hair. Nickname of ‘Pimpin’Black car, new or almost new, leather brown interior. Initial contact was made when he introduced her to his puppy. He gave her heroin and she started to perform oral sex. He pushed her off and said she was stalling. He stole her bag and she jumped out of the car. Man said that the next time he saw her he would rape and kill her. Woman frequently sees the man around the Mass Ave areaNovember 15th, 2018Mass Ave by Fire StationBlack male, early 20s, 5’6 and stocky. Beefy build. On footWoman met man on Mass Ave, wanted to walk somewhere nearby but guy was bugging out and paranoid. Man tried to pull woman into alley, she got scared and ran. Man chased woman all the way to gas station saying ‘$50 for a blow job’ but woman refused. Man continued to follow her the rest of the night. November 12th, 20185-6pmOriginally met around Mass Ave area 1 year ago, actual date happened in AllstonWhite male, thin, approx.. 6’1 with gray shaved hair. Man had gray goateeOn footMan brought $50 of dope to her, proceeded to beat her all over her body saying “Ask me to stop, ask me not to rape you”. Man forced unprotected anal sex and told woman “If you tell anyone I’m a woman beater I’ll force you to blow me in front of everybody”.November 11th, 20182:30pmPick up next to UHaul, drove to truck parking lotBlack male, late 20s with long skinny braids. Man was tall and thin, wore glasses and had a goatee. Old looking, dark gray 4-door car. Man wanted oral sex but refused to pay beforehand. Woman tried to escape but he held her in the car and gave her $20. Woman performed oral sex. Man then demanded anal sex and made her say ‘No, stop don’t rape me’ while he was forcing anal sex. Man wanted to take woman to a hotel, she refused and he threatened her with a box cutter. He took back the $20 and searched her for more money. When he didn’t find any he told her to get out and run.October 01.2018Women was walking near an alley on Mass Ave and South End around 2:30amBlack Male tall and thin in his late thirties. Women reported the man was wearing a Scali-cap with stubble facial hair. On FootThe women reported to a resource that the approached her and asked if she wanted to smoke a blunt. The women reported that the male didn’t feel comfortable doing on the street, so they cut into an alley where the man became very abusive and forced himself on her. *Second Hand Report*Sept 2018Woman was picked up on Friday around 1:30am on Mass Ave then drove to Pompeii St.Black Male in his mid-forty’s beefy body type with black short hair and brown eyes. It was reported that the woman was picked up in a black SUV with black leather interior licensed plate w/ the letters HRL”””” The Woman was picked up then had a knife help to her throat and was told to not make noise or resist and he wouldn’t hurt. *Second Hand report*Sept 22nd,2018Picked up in his drive way across from Saint Francis. Hispanic heavy set male late 30’s with bald head and tattoos. Man appeared to have a jail made tattoo across his chest. Women believe the man was paranoid schizophrenic who smoked Newport 100’s who cleaned obsessively. White four door car. Women reported that car was not registered or insured. Before getting into the car the man stated, “hey Hun hold on my alarms around the car, so they can’t kill me.” Women reported they had taken drugs and talked for a few hours about people trying to kill him. Women reported that if she talked loudly it would make him upset because it reminded him of his mother. Women feel asleep in car woke up with tampon on the dash and man reported to her “you don’t remember?” Women got scared and waited for the man to fall asleep, so she could leave.Sept.9th, 2018 Mass Ave @ U-HaulBlack Male appeared to be in his 50’s with black dreads and beard with side burns and brown eyes. Man was on foot when he approached the women. Women reported that the man came out of no where and kicked the women in the ribs and legs four times. Women reported that state police drove by and arrested the man.Sept.4th,2018Picked up on Dot Ave near Speedway around 3:00amStocky Male with average height and wavy short hair that appeared to be mixed maybe white and Spanish in his late 30’s w/ a beard.Grey/Silver 4-door car w/ a dent on the rear passenger door. Car was cluttered when women got in.Women asked for money upfront the man got argumentative but agreed to pay her half and the other half when she was done. The man requested no condom and women refused to proceed even after the man offered more money. The man put condom on and got rough with the women. The women asked him to go easy and the man started to become rougher and started hitting girl. Women got scared and jumped out of the car.August 2018Picked up in Mattapan on River Street around 11:00pmThin black male appeared to be in his 40’s. Bald head and stubble facial hair.Old navy 4-door car.Car only had 2 seats. Back was filled with trash and scrap metalWoman was picked up in Mattapan. Driver of car asked if she got high and if she was working. Once in the car, he held her at knife point and would not let her out of the car. After driving in circles for a while, the woman was able to jump out of the car.August 2018Trans AlertPicked up in Bay Village around 10:30pmHispanic muscular male appeared to be in his 50’s brown hair but going bald.Old 4-door brown car Woman was picked up in Bay Village where to be known for Drag Queens. When picked up, women didn’t tell the driver. The driver drove to Waltham where he found out she was trans and kicked women out of car and left her on the side of the road.WANT TO REPORT A BAD DATE?Your reports of Bad Dates can warn others.0-19177000Ask the person who gave you this sheet where you can report a Bad Date. OR you can email us at:HarmReductionBoston@6 Ways to Protect Yourself?Wear shoes that you can run in.?Wear clothing that doesn’t have to be removed for sex. ?Ask a buddy to switch off with you: One of you can be a date while the other is a lookout. If no friend is around, you can still yell out that you’ll be back in a few. This way, your client thinks that someone is expecting you back soon. ?Be careful with jewelry. Wear small earrings, clip-ons, or no earrings at all. Don’t wear anything around your neck that could be used to strangle you, like necklaces.?Using female condoms gives you more control. You can put one in before leaving the house and working. You can use a female condom up to six hours after inserting it. This is a good option for dealing with men who are resistant to using a regular male condom.?Brush your teeth, douche, or use enemas AFTER work, if at all, NOT before or between clients. Tiny cuts or scrapes caused by the douche, enema, or toothbrush make you more vulnerable to disease.Resources:PAATHS: Access to Treatment services and other referrals. 617-635-4500Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP): Cambridge. 617-651-2517. Sex worker hotline: 877-776-2004 (Select 1)SafeLink: Get connected to an emergency shelter. 877-785-2020Boston Area Rape Crisis Center: Free, confidential 24/7 Hotline: 800-841-8371AHOPE: harm reduction supplies, safer sex supplies, HIV/Hep C/STI testing and referrals. PEP and PrEP referrals and Narcan 617-534-3976 ................
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