FEARS INVENTORY PROMPT SHEET

FEARS INVENTORY PROMPT SHEET

"Fear not, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed. I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will uphold you with My victorious right hand." Isaiah 41:10

Here is a list of fears that may be helpful in this inventory. Feel free to add to this list.

Fear of God Fear of People Fear of Crowds Fear of Men Fear of Women Fear of Loneliness Fear of Rejection Fear of Abandonment Fear of Intimacy Fear of Authority Fear of Parents Fear of Disapproval Fear of Self Expression Fear of Police Fear of Doctors Fear of Physical Pain Fear of Diseases Fear of Germs Fear of Losing a Spouse Fear of Losing a Child Fear of Losing a Parent Fear of Animals Fear of Insects Fear of Jail Fear of Unemployment Fear of Creditors Fear of Being Found Out

Fear of Drowning Fear of Relapse Fear of Insanity Fear of Crying Fear of Poverty Fear of Races Fear of the Unknown Fear of Sex Fear of Heights Fear of Confrontation Fear of Sobriety Fear of Hospitals Fear of Responsibility Fear of Getting Old Fear of Hurting Others Fear of Violence Fear of Writing Inventory Fear of Being Alive Fear of Government Fear of Gossip Fear of Death Fear of Change Fear of Failure Fear of Insecurity Fear of Success Fear of Leaving Home

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DECEPTIVE THINKING INVENTORY PROMPT SHEET

"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--His good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2

Here are some common lies you may have believed. Use these to help you in your deceptive thinking inventory. Please feel free to add any others you may have.

DECEPTIVE THOUGHTS AND LIES I am worthless.

I am so bad I cannot be forgiven.

I am unworthy to be loved.

I am hopeless. I cannot change.

Everything in my life is someone else's fault.

It's all my fault.

I didn't deserve to have

done to me.

God could not love me. I am too bad.

I must provide everything for myself.

I must protect the people in my life from hurt or pain.

No one really understands the things I have been through.

I can never forgive the person for the wrongs they did to me.

God let me down. He should have protected me from all the bad things in my life.

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SEXUAL ACTIVITY INVENTORY PROMPT SHEET

"Haven't you yet learned that your body is the home of the Holy Spirit God gave you, and that He lives within you? Your own body does not belong to you. For God has bought you with a great price. So use every part of your body to give glory back to God, because He owns it." 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

Consider the following areas as you complete your sexual activity inventory. Feel free to add any other areas you may have participated in.

How have I misused my sexuality?

? Abusive acts toward others ? Promiscuity ? Pre-marital affairs ? Extra-marital affairs ? Pornography ? Self sex ? Lust ? Phone sex ? Cyber sex ? Prostitution ? Fantasizing ? Homosexual relationships ? Couple swapping ? Satanic Ritual Abuse

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POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS AND ACTIONS INVENTORY PROMPT SHEET

"So don't get tired of doing what is good. Don't get discouraged and give up, for we will reap a harvest of blessing at the appropriate time." Galatians 6:9

In the process of doing your moral inventory, it is important to keep a good balance between the positive things you have done and the negative things you have done. These sheets are provided for you to use to record the positive relationships you have had in life and the positive actions you have take in life. Don't let the negative overwhelm you, but keep your inventory balanced! As you work these pages, consider some of the following areas.

RELATIONSHIPS

Mother

Grandparents

Father

Grandchildren

Sisters

Extended family

Brothers

School friends

Husband

Life long friends

Wife

Children

Employers Employees Co-workers Pastors Counselors

ACTIONS Community service projects Helping neighbors Caring for elderly or ill relatives or friends Showing kindness to others Expressing compassion for others Being a faithful employee Stepping out of your comfort zone to help someone else in need

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GUILT AND SHAME INVENTORY PROMPT SHEET

"Point out anything in me that makes You sad, and lead me along the path of everlasting life." Psalm 139:24

"But if we confess our sins to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong." 1 John 1:9

Here are some items to consider as you work the Guilt and Shame Inventory.

GUILT: Are you carrying guilt in any of the following areas?

PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS INTEGRITY

Have I engaged in any of these Have I been dishonest in my

behaviors?

thinking or my actions?

jealousy

stolen

seeking revenge

lied

critical

exaggerated to look good

gossipy

false humility

holding a grudge

dishonest in dealings

self pity

broken promises

RELATIONSHIP TO GOD

ATTITUDES

Have I let any of these things interfere Have I harbored a wrong

with doing God's will?

attitude?

ambition

anger

pleasures

complaining

job

ingratitude

money

sarcasm

friendships

pride

personal goals

fear

anxiety

avoiding responsibility

laziness

SHAME: What causes me to feel shame?

? Actions I have taken?

? Actions others have taken toward me?

? Incorrect attitudes or perceptions picked up from someone else?

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Action Section

This section does not need to be completed until you share your moral inventory with your sponsor. However, you may add items to the forms in this section any time you become aware of issues you need to address. The Action section will be completed with the assistance of your sponsor as you work Steps 6 through 9.

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