Characteristics of Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
CHARACTERISTICS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
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Each partner feels whole without the other. ¡°I am whole. You are whole.
We enjoy being together. We work well together.¡±
Each partner feels responsible for his or her own well©\being and happiness
and doesn¡¯t depend on the other partner to provide it.
Each partner feels responsible for his or her own self©\esteem. ¡°I feel good
about myself no matter what anyone else thinks.¡±
A balance between togetherness (we) and separateness (I). ¡°I understand
and appreciate the difference between ¡®you¡¯, ¡®me¡¯, and ¡®we¡¯. The world is
large and you are a part of it.
An ability to establish and appreciate relationships with other people. ¡°I
enjoy other friendships.¡±
A trust and understanding that other people and other friendships do not
take away from the relationship.
An ability to communicate effectively. Being open, honest, assertive,
accurate, and clear. Being willing to listen.
An opportunity for support and growth for each person and for the couple.
¡°Our growth as individuals and as a couple enriches our relationship.¡±
Commitment: ¡°I will stay with you. I am willing to put my time, effort, and
energy into this relationship.¡±
A willingness to be honest. ¡°I think we have a problem.¡±
The ability to accept the other as he/she is. ¡°I am curious to discover who
you are.¡±
A willingness to negotiate differences and fight fairly.
Each partner has established healthy boundaries. ¡°I know what is mine,
what is yours, and what I am willing to share.¡±
A willingness to recognize when the relationship is changing.
College of Saint Benedict & Saint John¡¯s University
CHARACTERISTICS OF UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
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One or both partners feel incomplete without the other. ¡°With you, I am
complete. You are my other half. At last, I found you.¡±
One or both partners rely on the other for their happiness and well©\being.
One or both partners rely on the other for self©\esteem. The way I feel about
me is directly related to the way you feel about me.
Levels of togetherness (we) and separateness (I) are out of balance. ¡°We
must do everything together. My world revolves around you and I feel lonely
if you¡¯re not near.¡±
An inability to establish and appreciate relationships with other people. ¡°I
only want to be with you.¡±
A lack of trust for other relationships the other person has. Fear that other
relationships threaten the relationship between the partners.
An inability to communicate effectively. Game©\playing, beating around the
bush, being unwilling to listen.
Lack of opportunity for individual and relationship growth. ¡°Let¡¯s always stay
the same.¡±
Controlling the other person through decisions, threats, or manipulation. ¡°If
you leave me, I¡¯ll hurt myself.¡±
Attachment or addiction. ¡°I am stuck with you. I need to be with you. I can¡¯t
make it without you.¡±
Denial. ¡°What problem? I don¡¯t notice anything wrong.¡±
Expectations that one partner can change the other to meet his or her wants
or needs.
An inability or lack of interest in negotiating differences and fighting fairly.
Limits and boundaries are poorly established and defined. ¡°I¡¯ll deny my own
needs in order to meet your needs.¡±
The illusion the relationship will stay the same forever.
College of Saint Benedict & Saint John¡¯s University
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