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Transpersonal Hypnotherapy - Classroom_230_Video_26Fri, 11/20 9:52AM ? 2:11:00SUMMARY KEYWORDSteachings, river, point, day, moving, surrender, feel, kayak, put, realize, heart, higher self, hypnotherapy, walk, harmonious, letting, decision, learn, talk, life00:02Okay, almost graduated hypnotherapist and welcome back. Let's go into the training manual. And let's cover two pages that we haven't done yet page 36 surrendering and letting go. And page 37 making decisions. This is actually some of the most valuable information because it comes up in a majority of hypnotic programming sessions that I do. When I was just supervising yesterday those guys were doing ht 108 you might remember way back when excuse me column a column B hypnotic programming, very unique style that we use here in the school. And one of the women was talking about a sense of personal responsibility said, I run a very large company and I feel really good Holly's typing to be sure everything is in all technical things are working. Okay. Just want to be sure you're hearing me okay and whatnot. She said, you know, run a very large company and have staff and have employees and have payroll. And she said in when if anything is wrong, you know, I'm the one is responsible. Like, I can totally relate to what that's like if there's a problem with the school. No matter who made the mistake. Matthew Brownstein is the one who's responsible according to the Department of Education, even if I had nothing to do with it, you know, I started the company. I'm the Director of the School. If there's we have classes happening right now in our externship locations, like right now, any problem that occurs and anything that get reported to the state, if that ever happened. It's my responsibility. So I said to her, I understand where you're coming from. However, I like you to look at the word responsible. And ask yourself, what part of the mind is this come from? Is this spirit? Or is it ego? And we looked at some of her other beliefs? failure? Is this concept made up by God? Or is this a human construct?02:09And as you know, we probably would agree with failure is a human construct things like worthless because we're looking at our, you know, core beliefs. Is this something you made up? Or is this created by God? I made up that one too. And bad is that God's creation or your make belief? It's my make believe, and kept doing that with a whole bunch of different belief systems. So just think about it. I'm lovable. Are you unlovable? Is that something God created? Or is that something you made up? Now, if you look at a whole list of negative beliefs and emotions, one thing you know about these that's important to what we're getting into right now is, you know, these are not coming from spirit, because they're painful. We have been talking about beliefs and emotions yesterday with the group, you know, helping them to understand that concept better. And I was actually saying that when a negative belief arises, the emotion is right there with it. So if you say I'm unlovable, it's like sadness immediately, there is like this continuum that we talked about in the order of manifestation. If I say, I am stupid, I'm incompetent, I'm not capable, is automatically a fear response that goes with it, the two aren't separate. So when we look at the word, anything that's from the ego that goes on that column, a list, it's painful. And when you look at the word irresponsible, I said, like, Where's that, to God tell you, you're responsible. And just like, feels more like the ego column. My experience, and what I really hold to and work with my clients is there. It's another way to live life where you can be fully engaged in the human experience. So here's some of the lines, you might like these for programming, if you haven't heard them before, to use for your clients, because I use this all the time. So one is release attachment to outcome. I said, you know, if you make yourself responsible for your children, for your finances, for your business, for anything you're doing, there's a burden that goes with that. I think about Christ for a moment. Christ said, it came down here, he probably knew his mission to some degree, you know, some of us can tap into that thing. Christ probably had some sense that he was coming down here for a pretty big purpose. And then there's actually a time in the New Testament where you read where he says, my burden is light. Like, he knew what was gonna happen to him and he knew what he was taking on and he said, my burden is light. I how that's what this is all about. How can you live life with purpose and meaning? And dharmic, you're doing your Dharma and yet realizing I'm not the Dewar. That's the real secret of this teaching. I'm not the doer. But the program you can put in is I release all attachment outcomes, that helps to let go of this huge burden of personal responsibility. And the other major quote I'd encourage you to use here is I put my whole heart into whatever is in front of me, I put my whole heart into it ever is in front of me, without attachment to the outcome. So whatever God put me for you, whatever life could be for you. So you have a child, you put your whole heart into that child, you provide for that child, you love that child, you care for that child, you make the child laugh. And yet, you let go of the whole human silly notion of responsible, you do what you would say a responsible parent would do, yet you let go of the word. And the feeling that goes with it, which is a negative feeling of responsible, he would say, Oh, well, then you would be neglectful. Not if you're living from spirit, when you live from spirit, your whole heart is engaged in what you're being of service to, whether it's a company or a project, or a family member, a child or a class, your whole heart is invested in the project. Yet, you're not the Dewar, you are being led by the divine. Yet you are not claiming to be the author of the play. You're an actor in the play. And it's more like a marionette, like the divine is moving you, you're honored to be part of the experience. And this takes away the feeling of07:00the dread. That comes from concern for outcomes. So as we're moving through the incarnational cycles, I think at some time, we start to get very caught up and forget that their source, we forget that there is the divine, we forget that something else is moving us. And we start taking on this huge responsibility almost to the point of like Atlas with the world on his shoulders like you do you really does the universe really need you to do that. Does the universe really need you to be so worried, so neurotic and so afraid? And so on guard and so hyper vigilant? So what we're looking at in this page, surrendering and letting go, is we'll start with the Sanskrit term here for Agha, go ahead, Becca.07:57If you've never heard these type of teachings, by the way, you'll be very grateful. I think at the end to have this and I use this all the time with my clients we just used to yesterday. And I talked to you about a lot of the negative belief words that you hear that go along with this and then the positive words we can reprogram in Can you repeat the second wording? Sure. I could use say I now. And now put my whole heart into it ever is in front of me. So whatever it is, like this morning, I wake up like oh my God, I've been teaching non stop for about two. Okay. This is what the universe put before me. So I'm going to come in and teach. And now that I'm here you see I'm putting my whole heart into this. Even though Yeah, the body or some part of the being would rather be in bed. The point is, I am no, my daughter, she wakes me up at like six o'clock this morning. I'm like, Oh my god, I need another hour of sleep. But ABC, ABC, ABC. And then I look and I see your beautiful little face and I say okay, she's gonna get all of my attention all of my heart. So no attachment to outcome. Just put your whole heart into what's in front of you. Did you get that Becca, that quote that concept? says you will be remarkably successful because now that you say like, people usually hear these teachings and I think the world will fall apart like I was saying like Atlas has to hold the whole world together to make it all work. You think when you hear this stuff because your ego is so attached to being the Dewar, your world will fall apart if you don't keep it all together if you if you surrender and let go. If you truly did that, but everything would fall apart. The truth is most people are not doing this. There is the mystery and finding our new little story. The book by Richard Bach allusions Some of you may know about if we may have been through this before. In fact, you may have been through this process of me trying to find the book. And I've been able to find it since we moved. But hang on a sec. I can definitely tell you the story is I read this many times, but attrition very nicely. Now, this is what happened last time. Okay. I will tell you the story. To help you understand what we're talking about Richard Bach, in his book illusions, writes about how once there were a lot of little beings who had cleaned to the bottom of a river and that the whole job, but these little guys did was they just clung to the rocks in the bottom of a river. And they would never dare let go. And so one day, one of them said, If I just sit here holding on for my whole existence, I mean, I'm going to die of boredom, like what's the point of this? And so the other Klinger said, If you let go that current that you worship that you think you're going to surrender to, it's going to bash you against the rock, so you're going to die quicker than you would have boredom. And the one decided not to listen, he did them not. And he did let go. And at once was bashed and tumble upon the rocks. But he cling again, held on again. And they said, See, he said, I know. But something aside is telling me I can't just keep staying down here at this level and holding on in this way. And so he did practice letting go again. And then when he did the current lifted him up, and took him off. And he raised was raised to heights that he never could have experienced before. All the while the creatures downstream looked up and said, Look, the Messiah is come. And he said, I'm no more Messiah than you, the river delights to lift us up and set us free if we only dare let go. And yet they couldn't buy into what he was saying. And so when he had long since passed, they were left making legends of a Messiah. That's how the beginning of the book, Richard Bach begins. And so what part of what we're getting into in this page are metaphors you could offer your clients when they're caught up in some other negative words. So you'll hear I threw him away. We just had him yesterday in this room, but I recycled them the notes of this one student and you know, I think it'd be okay to share his student um, but the words were like, well, responsible is a biggie. Well, let's just stay with that. Just the major feeling of responsible the words I gave her that you might want to write down. We're surrender.12:54Let go. Trust, have faith. This into your own inner guidance. And then of course, they said, release attachment to the outcome.13:14And put your whole heart into whatever's in front of you. So let's go into the Sanskrit term here. vairagya. Braga, actually, I'll tell you the stories funny of how I first discovered this word. I was living at a yoga ashram and they said, downstairs in the basement is a place called vairagya. And I was like, well, what's wrong? Yeah. And they said, well, it's kind of like the thrift store of the shop that if you have something you don't want anymore, you're ready to get rid of like a book you've read or you know, shoes or something, you can put them down there, and then someone else can take them and it's just a way for us to exchange things that we don't need and if somebody needs it, and it's kind of funny, go you know, pick through stuff and see if there's something you might want. So I thought for argument like thrift store. And then, years later, studying Sanskrit the word came up again, and like, oh, completely, I had the most shallow understanding of what froggit means. The reason they used the term was because people would take their stuff and they would let it go the put it in this place. It's no longer yours. you'd let go of this stuff. So they called it vairagya. The word is often translated, and I would encourage you not even necessarily to write it down, maybe put in quotes as renunciation. The problem with the word renunciation and English to translate for Agha is that Veronica is implying. I am renouncing something like I am pushing it away. I'm purposely renouncing sexuality, like I'm not gonna have sex or I'm renouncing, these are the two big for spiritual people, no sex, no money. So a lot of the people in the ashram are trying to be celibate. And they're trying to live without money. And they struggle of course, with both. The truth is we usually here's the secret I found with spiritual people, we use their announce things we're not okay with. Well, you know, I've been very uncomfortable sex anyway. So, I'm gonna do broad gift for that I'm gonna renounce sex. And you know, I really not good with money. So I'm renouncing money. I'm just too spiritual for that. Parag. It doesn't mean renunciation, to push things away, that secretly, you're really just not okay with, but secretly beyond that, that you actually really would love to have in your life. You just haven't become self actualized enough to welcome in those energies. Here's another quote you might write down for programming something to consider living by. It's something that I live by, that people actually sometimes have trouble with. It just came up the other day. Here's the quote, don't go out to energies, that energies come to you. I'll say it again. If you want to write it down, then I'll explain it don't go out to energy is let the energies come to you.16:23So in the concept of renunciation, this would say no, I don't deal with certain energies. I don't let certain energies come to me. energies of money. I don't deal with that energies of sexuality. I don't deal with that energies of corporate type of thoughts. No, no way, right. You know, energies of the government politics, no way. These things that were read, noun sing and rejecting remember the word, Dwayne sch. clayish. It's an aversion to things that were actually not okay with renunciation in spirituality cannot be to avoid or push these things away. Surrender now includes your emotions, by the way, surrender says you keep your heart fully open. And whatever passes through whatever comes your way you're going to experience you're going to dance with while it's there, you interact with it, it'll come it'll go. Because I've been programmed with this literally, since about 19 years old, when I had a very influential spiritual teacher who is sharing a lot of these concepts with me, didn't get the word vairagya. But I got the teachings for sure of surrender and let go. And I remember talking to people at that time, and they were just like, I don't understand how people live life without knowing about letting go. I'm like, I know. It's like, we don't hear about this stuff. And I said, I'm so blessed that I feel I feel so blessed that we're able to be having teachings about learning to truly let go. And to that life lift us up to higher levels than we normally would otherwise, the problem where it comes in for others is they they think, Well, why didn't Matthew choose me? Like, how come he didn't pick me as a supervisor? How come he didn't ask me to be part of the team is because I don't do that, actually. My experience has been the right people gravitate towards you. And the not the wrong people. But like everybody has their own dharma. So if it's dharmic, you're naturally going to be together. Anyway. It's here in Sanskrit, I'm sorry, in Chinese, the term is Wu Wei, means an effortless action. It's a principle used in Tai Chi, learning to dance with life, not to hold on to it, not to cling to it, not to go after it. So you learn energies come to you. And the ones that are based on law of attraction that are meant to come to you will come to you say yeah, but what if I have some negative energies in there? I'm gonna attract negative things. Yeah. But they're gonna push your buttons and help you to clear the negativity. And that's a whole nother level of teaching the opening the heart teachings and purifying your blocks. But yeah, when you learn to live this way, you're completely surrendering, which says, law of attraction is going to get to do its work law of karma is going to get to do its work. These laws are for your greatest good. They will help to purify your heart. Even though it can be uncomfortable, eventually, the purification process finishes, or19:35I say finishes because I don't know anybody's finished. But you, you get cleaned up. And then the universe here's a nice quote here and this, the universe will always use you the highest level you can vibrate. So this one woman I was talking to who's a student, the other class she said, You should run this pretty big business but she wants to be done with all that, sell it and do hypnotherapy. I said, here's the problem, you're not done with that yet, because you haven't learned all the lessons that that business is intended to give you, you haven't fully mastered that level of functioning yet. So you're gonna stay there, the universe will use you at a higher level. As soon as you are, you've got rich, like, you know, you got that lesson, then you can graduate to the next level. So I told her, don't be responsible for your business, just put your whole heart into your business, do your business, I really do it better than anyone ever would. And only you can do that, put your whole heart into it, make it extremely successful, don't be attached to the outcome, just do your absolute best some of the programming is I always do my best. And that's more than good enough. It deals with a good not good enough belief, I always do my best. And that's more than good enough. Again, this stuff is like really great for client programming. And you might make your own programming if you're enjoying this kind of teachings. And trust me, they lead to ever higher levels of success, even though the clinkers don't understand that those who learn to let go are always taken to higher levels of functioning. And this is true on the physical plane. It's true on the astral planes. When you let go and you let God you're given experiences and shown worlds and ways of functioning you never could have conceived of before. And you will attract things to yours like my God, like that just came into my life like, so easy and effortless. Again, the term Wu Wei in Dallas and effortless action, the Dallas energy of the whole universe, it's doing its own thing, and it doesn't need you to I mean, it needs you as part of it. But it doesn't need you to use your ego to control and manipulate. And, you know, if you're out of control, so you're trying to get in control. This is saying learn to surrender and let go. And I know that brings up a lot of fear for people. Yet the trust and faith we put in the programming helps a lot. So much talk about negative politics, government illness disease, especially around a funeral that I do not want to listen to or dwell on. How do you apply surrendering in that case? Okay, let me repeat the question, I always do my best. And that is more than good enough. I always do my best. And that's more than good enough. Okay, so you say what about some of these negative energies that tend to be in my life, I'm going to encourage you through and the metaphors that I'll teach you that I'll give you will help surrender to those allow for those. Don't necessarily walk away from those or paddle your boat is we use a metaphor away from those. If they're in your life, they're there for some reason, for instance, my wife's family right now over in Poland, there must be at least five people with serious significant terminal illnesses. Right now, and and you can guess in my life, but it's her family it's happening to and not that my family couldn't possibly go through that. But there isn't any of that right now, honestly, and. But if there was, I would actually engage it. Right. If I had a loved one who's sick, I will put my whole heart into being there. If there's a funeral, I will fully go and probably end up being the one speaking, I will put my whole heart into the experience because again, these things are actually neutral. They're part of these teachings go into what are called laws of neutrality. And beginning early course, in miracles lessons help to get your mind aligned to a place of neutrality. And everything, no matter what it is, you start to train, your mind is completely neutral. The desk in front of you is neutral. The keyboard is neutral. It's not good, bad, right? Wrong, push away shouldn't deal with the monitor is neutral. This body is totally neutral thing. Politics is a completely neutral thing. See, for a lot of people.24:23sickness is a completely neutral thing. We're the ones who give meaning to things that don't have any meaning. So you're only pushing away like I said, things you're uncomfortable with. So we say negative but if it's in your life, then you want to look at how is that a reflection of what's going on in you. I don't have politics in my life. Not that I pushed it away. I just have no charge or interest or energy around it in any way. So it's just not their sports. really not interested in sports, of no charge for or against it. And so it's just not part of my life, the things that end up in your life through law of attraction, it's because you have a charge for or against it, if you don't allow it in, then it can do its purification work, to help you to rise to a higher level. So surrendering actually means if there's illness, and somebody, you know that, you know, you put you in this makes sense, right, you put your whole heart into being there for them, your service, your kind your compassion. And if you can't be, that's where the purification comes in, if you can't be loving to someone who's sick, then obviously, you've got some work to do. So it'd be the same for any one of these categories. It's not that you would avoid these things. Remember, if life puts it before you, you put your full heart into it to the point where you learn your lesson, which is always love. And then you release the charge you have around the issue. When you become neutral on the issue anymore, you will stop seeing it in your life. And I don't know I'm not gonna say of course, that my family members, you know, people I know. But I can see right now, what my wife is going through with her family, when I'm going through with mine a completely different realities. She has a cousin dying of horrible cancer of the lungs and heart. And I don't and again, I'm not saying these, these are temporary differences. However, it's, it's just a very different experience of life, when you don't have charged towards the stuff now, if I had that it would be okay, I will be fully there in a dharmic appropriate way, for the person who's sick. Or if somebody came to me and said, You know something about politics, I wouldn't push them away. But because I have, here's what happens the moment somebody starts talking politics with me, they realize, wow, this guy's can or sports, this guy is completely not interested, like somebody goes, so who you rooting for the 40, Niners or the like, I, I'm not like a hairdressers, you know, they'll talk about that kind of stuff. I'm just like, I'm sorry, I just I don't follow politics, I'd end that it's like, there's just no charge. But it's not that I'm against it. So I hope that helps. But if you do, if you're seeing it a lot, you want to understand law of attraction says you have some charge around it, and you want to neutralize that charge. That's what brings you to the states of freedom that we're talking about. Because this page is about getting you to a place of freedom, you would think surrendering and letting go means that you become a slave to life, like you have to just do whatever God tells you to do. It's not it actually completely supports free will to say you can just surrender and flow with a current lean back and let your boat just go down the river. Or you can manipulate the way your boat is moving, surrendering, letting go says I'm going to trust in the river. The river knows much better how to lead your life than you do. Okay, go ahead. Oh, this is so hard. I have an issue with people who lie and neutralize my charge for lying. That's why you're attracting if you if you have people I personally I don't know people in my life who lie at least I don't know, like, but i would i think you know, when you're pretty clear, you're intuitive and you know somebody is not telling you the truth. If you have people in your life who are lying, you have a charge against it, and you pulled it in. There's a YouTube lecture of the abraham hicks materials and this you can't see her but you can hear her voice and it sounds like this. It's kind of like cute young woman says and she's just a playful joking nice talk she is I got these two like really is one issue that's really wacky. And one issue that's pretty serious. And Abraham goes, I want to hear the wacky one. She goes okay, well I have this really she was spitting. He said I hate when people spit and I see it every day so like everybody's just spitting and and Abraham said29:14now this is a good one this isn't wacky let's work with this. Let's look at this. You have a char you have a charge against spitting she's Yes, but it's not spitting that's really the issue. How does spitting make you feel when people spit around you? And she goes what's disgusting and I feel like I'm what's the word like? Like the world is like it's forget exactly how what just happened especially like it's disgusting. But then he said do you set the only place you feel this I should know actually feels like everything is like that. It's like see that's the thing you thought was wacky. It's actually huge. You said you have this issue around Not just spitting, but around this the charge you have inside of you. And you're seeing it in everything in life. The people you're attracting law of attraction is saying you're attracting people who are spitting, because it's trying to show you something inside. So yeah, what you do is you allow the liars to be in your life. This is where last week we talked about assertiveness training. So you're gonna assert yourself and tell people look, I don't put up with lying. On one level, yes. And again, each moment, you can have to listen to your own inner guidance. Yet, if you keep attracting a certain type of energy. It's about you like, yeah, you know, and but it's there for your growth and your purification, if you're willing to see that. Aha, clear helps very much. This seems to come to my husband often and he is definitely charged about it. I'm not so much and sometimes it seems to aggravate him that I am not. Yeah, I think. I think Alex last week talked about the concept of, like, when you're just calm about something, it seems to piss people off more. So yeah, but still, if you're seeing it all, like, honestly, this concept of lying or spitting, or politics, or sports, these kind of things don't really stay in my mind. There's no Personally, I can find other things. But uh, these things and you can relate to it like some of you are like, I don't have an issue with spitting, I never see people spit. If they did, it wouldn't bother me. But when you have a charge against it, you'll start seeing it all the time, you'll be attracting it all the time. You don't want to push it away, because you actually attracted it to you. And it's a chance for your growth and for your learning. So, yeah, the deeper spiritual teachings again, which is what our transpersonal training is all about, have so much to do with learning to trust that the universe knows what it's doing, not only for it to run itself, but to purify you, just like your body knows how to heal cuts. And a baby knows how to be born in your body. Your heart knows how to beat your emotional being knows how to heal itself, when you surrender and let go. So you've come to a place of neutrality, but not dry. You get to be alive with life, you get to fully participate with life. And whatever life is bringing you your honor to have the experience but you do start to trust the energy that's moving you is taking you to higher and higher levels each time. And it will do things for you that you cannot possibly have imagined. When you let go. It's the people who are clinging remember, Rog is one of the causes of suffering attachment and aversion. This teaching. And if we went back in the training manual, you'd see while it was you know, a week or two ago, we talked about this. It's right in the training manual about the causes of suffering, arch clinging and aversion. Therefore, the solution which again I'm encouraging you to put in your clients hypnotic programming is surrender. let go let go and let God relax, trust. Have faith allow a big word allow. Just let be let go. Let God allow. I have to let go of people blocking traffic by running red lights and sitting in the intersection. I get it. Yeah. Yeah, whenever you have a button pushed. I hate people who I had this definitely and people who drive slow in the left lane at the same pace as the person driving slow in the right lane. As I kind of so freakin rude. But actually, I had to realize it's showing me Well, first of all, the first indication was frustration. I was like, that's frustrating. That's annoying. That's rude. But why was it really showing me it was showing me about myself. Anyone who gets in my way of reaching my goals. I am going to get mad at that's actually what that was showing me. But deeper than that. It shows anyone who can get in the way of reaching my goals I'm terrified of because remember underneath the anger is fear. The person driving slow in the left lane was helping me to see that I was living in fear of people getting keeping me from being able to reach my goals. Once I processed it, it was like and then the belief underneath it was actually powerless and powerless to get this person out of the left lane. I could try to attack you know honk and flash my brights move behind them but something goes wrong about that. Right So, what do I do about this issue, I went and got a hypnotherapy session on it. I was like, I'm gonna clear this. This is like serious. I just thought it was about, you know, like, everybody would agree that people shouldn't drive the same slow pace in the love lane. But once I saw, it had a major charge for me, and it was rooted in not just anger, but fear, and a belief that I'm powerless. And then I could see it all over the place, like, Oh, my God, anytime I feel that someone can get in the way of me doing my life's mission in my dharma. I get scared, I get defensive. That's something to like, go up for sure. Not so what do we like? Oh, what do we practice for argue with?35:47We're not letting go of driving. We're not letting go of this people blocking intersections, right? We're not going to change that. We're going to change what's in here. What's out there will show us what's in here. But what's out there is reflecting actually, what's out there is neutral, someone blocking an intersection is just as neutral is the coffee cup on your table. Is it completely neutral thing. So thinking about something if total neutrality for like the knob and the blind, see who are, you know, the paint on the wall is something you know, and most things you realize, my god I've charged against, I don't see anything really neutral. If you can find something that's completely neutral, like a button. You can't even do that. And you know, that's even hard, because like, these are Mother of pearls. And I'm like, well, that's even that has like meanings. But I'm the one who gave that meaning, like, so what is this is the piece of shell, it's really no big deal. But the fact that I give it meaning means that's in my mind, it's not doing anything, it's completely neutral. It's not good, bad, right? Wrong, should or shouldn't, it just is the person who's blocking the intersection just is, but your emotional response is yours. And I'm speaking personally as well about this, right that if I have emotional response, it's fine. Now, because I keep seeing it over and over again, I keep having this same emotion come up, that's my karma. I patterns like that are karmic, you'll keep attracting this type of thing. You can't change the pattern by controlling and manipulating it. I am gonna petition This is why I'm personally not into politics. He's I've had discussions with people and realize that you'll never change the world this way. I'm going to petition the White House to do this. I'm like, and you really think that will bring you the peace you're looking for? Or bring peace to the world? You really think you will heal the planet? By yelling at Obama, like At what point you know, are voting republican? Because they'll do it or voting democrat? Like, at what point do you realize you can change the outside world to change the outside world, you can only change the inside. And the only way you can change is you eventually be called to start helping others to transform their minds when you're vibrating at the level to do so. So again, you have to heal yourself to be able to truly heal others. So my experience is as you surrender and let go, your buttons will be pushed. And again, there's almost a whole nother lecture here. Of what do you do with that? That's the opening the heart teachings, like what do you do with that stuff when it comes up? The point is you are letting it burn itself away to neutralize the charge. And then either you're stopped seeing it, it would just like nobody will be spinning around you nobody would be lying around you. intersections will be clear more often.38:47Or38:48if they're not, who cares? It'd be sitting there listening to music in your car relaxing, but the charge will be gone. Okay, wow. So many issues with people who lie is really my fear of being hurt belief of being powerless and helpless. And we're the truth. As long as that resonates with you, then yes, but you know your beliefs in mind. Yeah, might be different. But yeah, if you really think about it, when people lie to me, I feel so hurt. And then which makes me feel like I am powerless. If the stem set and helpless if the stem sentence brought that up. There it is. The people who lie to you are reflection, not just of charge against lying, because you'll see why it's not just about lying. Anyone who can make me feel hurt and powerless pushes the same button. Lying happens to be the thing that you can kind of hone in on. But yeah, it's your seat across the board. So you know, I saw it in traffic as well. But then I was like, No, I see this in anyone who can threaten my situation. In my reach my goals, my reach my financial goals, my accomplishing my business goals. You know, I could say my doing my Dharma, but really it's a deep seated security issue i somebody can get in the way of me getting food, shelter and clothing, the food on my table the money to provide for that. You know, I think anybody can relate to this. Yeah, that can get scary. Yet, when you clear the charge, you start to realize the same woman by the way, who this is actually an amazing example. The same woman I were talking about who I taught her about surrender and let go and release. We were sitting in class sharing, or I think we were just talking waiting during a break. And she looks at her phone, she gets an email, she goes, Oh my God, we just made another sale. And she's talking like, you know, multi million dollar business. So it's probably a good hundred thousand plus dollar sale that just came in and said, Wow, like, that's how it works. And the same thing happened for me over these days. I'm in three days of practical. So you know, I just I, all I can do is teach Like, right now I can use teach, yet. I go and check my email and just enrolled another student. And then the next day just enrolled another student, I'm like, wow, I like that just happened. And I didn't have to do anything. So it more and more, you start to see the universe is happening, including your finances, without you having to do anything. Now. It doesn't mean you don't act, that's where people miss the point here. Not doing anything just means put your whole heart and whatever, excuse me, whatever is in front of you. Because that's what's in front of you trust that the rest of the universe, including the rest of your life, is taken care of itself. It's hard. But that's where the trust and faith comes in that art. If I teach this class fully right now, the other classes that happen to be going on right now. They're going to occur as well. And I didn't even ask Jay but he drove up to Orlando yesterday to check out that location just to see how he's doing and reported back then they're doing amazingly well that our teacher up there is doing extremely well. And the students are loving it. And I was like, Okay, and then when he sent an email and said, there's one problem with this one person at one of the locations like, okay, let's deal with that. But again, it's like, I'll deal with it when it comes to me, but you're not going out and making problems. And when you're really neutral things just tend to go right through and dissolve very quickly. So let me give you some of the metaphors. We won't spend too much more time on this page. But I hope you can see, I mean, I've spent years with spiritual teachers that have taught these teachings and, and I got them early on in life. So it's so valuable, it's it's relieved my life of so much suffering, to know this stuff early on. And not that, you know, my buttons hadn't been pushed because of this. But I was able to clear the blocks because of the teaching. When on page 36. surrendering and letting go the term vairagya. So if you were to define varaha, it's not renunciation or pushing away or aversion. The best term would be surrendering, letting go, what are you letting go of everything. You don't hold on to anything if it's in a vibratory state. You let it go, meaning if it moves, you let it go. He said, but you know, like, this is my business. Yeah. And I said a constant state of movements. So stop messing with it. relax and let go. It does so better. Some of you know my one of my companies prosperity in your pajamas. And my very good friend that I did that with Andrew Greenstein, Andrew said the moment he made his millions was the moment that he stopped trying so hard in his business. He turned it over to his employees. Basically, he found the right people, obviously, he got to a place where other people were there and then he just let go. And he said and that's when the million started pouring it. Not while he was so neurotic about the business, that he was muddling up his own waters muddying up his own waters. so serene. barog is about surrendering and letting go would be the best term. You let go of everything that includes life in the physical world, you know what the things that are happening events, you let go of people I work with a client now is having this clinging to this woman, and eventually is gonna have to let go, you know, we talked about this life mate, soulmate concept. You can't cling to another person, they do come and go in case you haven't noticed. You let go of finances, money comes in, money goes out, a bill comes in, the money goes back out. And it's a constant flow so you can't hold on to any of it. people's emotions the way they should be. You have to If you don't just like you don't like the other person, you let go of your shoulds. I haven't like, like, I'm still married. So I want to get the point. It's like, it's not that you don't act. It's not that you're not committed to things. But you're not attached to them. So I'm still married, but I'm not holding on to my wife, she's going to pull in for two months in June. And she's taking my daughter, and what can I do? I can only surrender and let go. Because hold them back here would be at dharmik, I would be going against the flow. There's a lot of issues with their family right now. She really needs to wants to be there. She needs to take our daughter, I couldn't possibly do anything but put her in daycare. So you know, all I can do is let go, but I'm not so and when am I really letting go of45:49my attachment to them staying here, I'm letting go of inner feelings, right? So we're letting go of the law of life. But we're letting go of our preferences. Skype, of course, like a preferences that God desires. It doesn't mean you don't have desires, but you don't cling to them. Because people say, Oh, you shouldn't have desires, but you do have desires. Just don't cling to them. If you desire the new certain car for a while, trust that. But if the desire goes away, then Okay, let go. So you're not attached to any energy that moves in you to really let go of everything that moves, which includes all nouns, people, places and things. Any business like anything, the external world, but you let go of everything inside as well. your likes and dislikes. And it's a tricky one. But I mean, but but I really like when my husband comes home and gives me flowers. Okay, let that go. Now, when he comes home and gives flowers, you feel what you feel. And when he doesn't come home with flowers, you feel what you feel, but to manipulate him to bring you flowers would be going against the varargs teachings against the letting go teachings, let him be him when he feels inspired to bring you flowers, okay. And you'll feel what you feel. And when he doesn't, you'll feel what you feel. It's about letting everything be as it is. And then your own inner structure that you built up. You actually learn to let go of that too. But But my whole ego identity is based on what I like and don't like it's based on the foundation I've set up of, you know, who I interact with, and who I don't I don't put up with buyers, I don't put up with slow driving people. It's like I I the biggest thing you're letting go of here is I. So with this woman, we're talking about our business, I said, Everything stays the same about the business, the only thing you have to let go of is the word mind. And parents have trouble with this with children. I was teaching this stuff long before I became a parent. I'm like, Yeah, well wait to become a dad. I got it's more relevant than ever. It's, it's not like, Oh, you're right, I should start cleaning now. It's actually no, I have to let go and allow my wife to be herself. And I have to let my daughter be herself. My wife is like, she's not I want because my wife has a list of what our daughter is not allowed to be when she grows up. I want to say it because it's insulting my wife into different types of people. But I'm like, I It'd be great if she's that I said, that's wonderful if she's that and I said nope, she can't be this, this and this, that. And again, I pick up my wife, because I've pointed out my own issues today. But um, that would be an example of a version, she's not allowed to be that I will control that part of the universe. I'm just like, you got to let that part of the universe called our daughter be our daughter, you can restrict her nature. So this is true of parenting and business, even though they should have things that we get so attached to. So the thing you let go of is not the business, not the relationship, not the daughter, you let go of the word mine. And so I help this client, the student yesterday, I said, it's not your business. This school is not my school. First of all, it's God's school. And then it's our school is just as much yours. I mean, on the corporate papers, it's one thing but it's just as much yours you're part of it just as much as I am like were sharing the experience together. Our staff and the other crew, the teams I've had are happening now and the people that work for the company and I including like the accounting right now who's in the building today doing our financial review for the Department of Education. It's like it's all ours like where do we draw the line? He's making a can't imagine every year what your financial review is. The state of Florida Department of Education requires a complete Financial Review every year. It's thousands and thousands of dollars. It'd be about five grand every year I have to varaha $5,000 for being a state license. In school for them to review our finances. That's a tough one the lack of but what can I do? I have to let go. Some of the hypnotherapy, licensed hypnotherapy schools in California were fighting it because they're like, we're not, you know, huge multimillion dollar businesses here. And this is a big chunk of change. But it is what it is. So you just stuck. Oh, but the point is, I even have to let go of this idea of my money, or my school. And like where did where's the boundary? So it's continual letting go. clearly understand that doing it. That's another learning for me. Yeah, certainly. So let me give you the metaphors that are helped you to resonate with the teachings on a deeper level.50:42If you want to go and hear these, again, you could repeat today's recording, or you can go to the Student Resources section is I can't say this is not spelled out, you know, word for word. But if you do want to write it down, if you feel the need to, in go the student resource section, and now these are recorded there. So I'll just tell you these and then hopefully, you can take little notes to be able to do it with your own words. I use this a lot in deepening as well, number one, the tree and the leaf. The because a leaf falling is really nice, deep, and he can do a countdown with the leaf swaying down to the ground when it touches the ground. It's very nice. Yet the metaphor itself is though is once a leaf, clinging on to the tree, it was holding on to the tree its whole life, it never knew any other way to be. All it knew was clean to the tree, and I'm a leaf and I'm green, and I hold the tree and I do this job. Yet One day, the season start to change and the leaf realizes, wow, I'm gonna have to let go, I'm gonna have to move into the next stage of my journey. But it gets scary things a little bit more. yet. Inevitably, it realizes I have no choice but to let go. When it chooses to like go, and now this is on the next page, we'll get to making decisions, it really wasn't a choice. That was the illusion the leaf had. It's an illusion that it actually has to let go. The truth is letting go is what happens transformation is what happens. And it scared. So it's trying to cling, but eventually it has to let go. Now again, it's really not a choice. But when it makes the choice to let go. It immediately notices it is cradled by an invisible force called the air, which it itself contributed to if you think about it. Leaves are part of what's emanating out oxygen that make part of what makes air and when it's surrendered and let go. It's cradled by this invisible force. Because of its own nature, which I had never understood before. It only thought I cling but they never realize it has this whole structure that actually lets the air cradling you are made to be gently lowered to the ground. They realize that before. And then it's it's waste, it's actually thick. If you're in hypnosis, you ever feel that imagine the leaf swaying and resonate with the leaf. It's a very beautiful feeling. And when the leaf comes to rest in the earth, it notices a whole new level of peace it never knew before. Wow, I still exist. And I don't have to cling, in fact, I don't even need the same nutrients I needed before. But then Time passes and its form starts to change. If it surrenders to it, again, it's inevitable. If he tries to cling to the old forum, it's completely pointless really. Eventually, if you think about how it works, the rains will come, it will dissolve into the earth it will become one with the earth itself. And then it will be reabsorbed into the root system of the tree. It will nurture the tree at a higher level and it will become the tree it will become part of something even greater. And then keep extrapolating from there. But basically what I'll turn the leaf into a feather and let it float up and go up into the clouds and find heights that it had never known before. That the major point is that moment where it's holding on to the tree. And a lot of you can relate to this like you know I've been in this past career now I'm really wanting to go into hypnotherapy. What if you let go of the word I54:36am I called the word choice and just say this is where the universe is clearly directing me. Am I gonna keep clinging to the past? Or will I let go and surrender and trust and just go with the flow. Now, remember the story of the Klinger holding on to the bottom when he did that go he was bashed upon the rocks. He still had his heaviness. He still had his karma he still had his old habits. And it didn't allow him to flow to the heights that eventually he would have. Yet through continual, letting go, letting go of your ego, letting go of your desires, letting go of your opinions and preferences and hopes and dreams, does mean you don't have those, it just means you're not clinging to those, you just keep letting go. And you keep going to higher levels. So that's the tree and the leaf, the river in the boat. Here, you might have a client walking down a path, eventually there's a little boats in the river, you get into boats, and you have a paddle, you start paddling along. And eventually you realize this paddle can move things around a little bit. And when you get to a place that you really liked it, take the paddle Yes, to get inside some roots and the side of the river, and you stay right there and you're holding on the rivers moving, but you're not you're trying to stay there. This would be clinging to any one position, you found yourself in a job position or relationship position. You want to hold on to, but it's so much effort, your paddles breaking, the roots are breaking, you're getting exhausted. And meanwhile life is continuing on without you. That's one example of what you can do in your boat, the other as you can say, but I really liked it back there. So before we moved to Tampa, we had the school my mouth, you know, met my wife in Gainesville. And then she went through the training and I on my home there and we lived to this very nice home. And then we decided or life was basically it wasn't a decision life was kind of saying you need to get to Tampa and and every so often, you know, we've had talks, my wife, maybe a little more than me about this is moved back to Gainesville. I'm like kidding. I'm loving Tampa. I think I love being downtown. I love you know, the port over here and Bay Shore. And this is a great area. I'm life led us to something higher than where we're functioning before. But uh, to try to go back there would be to be paddling backwards. I tried to go back or for me to say, you know, it was a lot easier being a hypnotherapist. Trust me, guys. Being a hypnotherapist was financially lucrative. It was easy, it was simple. It was so easy for me to manifest clients, and to charge about 100 usually 195 a session, see 20 or 30 of those per week. And I didn't have a wife or kids. So I remember I was giving blood one day and one one was asking me what do you do? And I told her and and she goes and all that money just for you hon like, yeah, that's fine, I'm going outside to drive my jag back home, it is actually a really nice to try to go back to that old way of functioning would be a huge mistake, because life is trying to is taking me to higher levels of functioning. But if I keep trying to go back to where I was, and it's there's no judgment, I guess about where someone's moving into, or whatever. Wherever we are in our positions in life. The point is no individual should try to paddle back upstream to go into your past and this is my past life regression is almost dangerous, in the sense that you will not find your answers there. You can't find your answers by like if I pass that progression, the way I live 500 years ago is no different than saying one four years ago, I lived in Gainesville, Florida. How does that help me today? And you know, I still own that home in Gainesville. But how does that help me today? All I can do is keep looking, where's the river going? Now where the river was? Then I can say, I don't know, like why I'm now I really want to get to this point in the future. I know it's gonna be more abundant. I know, it'll be easier. I know, it'll be more lucrative. I know, I have different types of relationships. So let me paddle faster. Let me get to my future faster. So that would be the act of consciously paddling and trying to direct your own course. I'm going to go this way. I'm going to go this way.59:09The mistake in directing your own course is we'll get to this on the next page. How do you possibly know where to go? What data point? What guidance system are you listening to? Let me ask you guys, when you make a decision on where to go, where do you turn? What part of your being or who or what do you turn to to make a decision? So I'm asking you want to hear what you might answer or just what is the average person when you make a decision? Where do you go to figure out let's Where to go? Any guesses? Where do you turn Think you probably know what I mean. But even if you're not quite sure, just think you, you'd be able to give an answer. Where do you go and you're thinking, I got to figure out what to do. Good, you got your heart, you go within good, your heart, I turn away. And if it keeps coming back to my attention, then I go with it, you know, through your gut. Okay, I use intuition. Good. Now, you're a more evolved group, in a lot of ways. Think about how the average person we talked to her family good. These are all data points, we'll talk about them in the next page. But here's the major place you go. If you really think about it, you're giving me two higher self guides me through the motions get, you're giving me a lot of the right answers. But I really want you to think about what you probably do. Don't you go to your conscious mind? Don't you turn to your thoughts? If you're really honest about it. Even us, you know, who have other resources, and some people may not have? Yeah, so you can say like higher self, God intuition. The truth is, you probably if you're honest, go right to your head. What do I do about this? And then the mind starts thinking, the question is, if you really sincerely think about you go to your conscious mind. Is that a reliable source to run your life upon? Here's the question. If If you really realize Yeah, you're turning to your conscious mind quite often to try to figure out what to do. How many times is your conscious mind been wrong? Like this school? I pretend it didn't excite me, but kind of escape it. There you go. How many times is your conscious mind been wrong? You can't even count right? If you really admitted that, that thing is wrong. So often so misguided has such distorted perceptions. you'd realize it's not a valid data points. If you came to a person and advisor and you asked for advice, he said, I'm trying to get to the Empire State Building, can you tell me where to go? Yep, you know, take the 57th Street bus South down to the Bronx, you're gonna turn the left at Caesar's Palace. And when you come across the man with the white coat, then look up in there to be. And if you did that once, even once, you would never, ever go back to that guide again. You'd be like that guy, I have no idea what he's talking about. He's not a trustworthy guide. Yet, we continually go back to our conscious mind over and over and over again to try to make decisions. And it just doesn't work. It's really not the way to run your life, but we are so conditioned to do it. So then you say, Well, I'm gonna go to my heart that I can't, I'm not gonna live by my head, I realized my head can't do it. intellect can't do it. Your intellect isn't. It's a data point. But it's not the only data point, it's not necessarily the most reliable. Now, I'm not saying the intellect or the conscious mind is completely obsolete. Because obviously, if you're gonna make a business decision, you should crunch the numbers. But that's not the only reason to make a business decision. I can crunch numbers right now find far more profitable things to do. fact, even going back to private practice, can be sometimes more profitable than running a1:03:25school. If I cry, or there's much better investments in business opportunities than hypnotherapy. If you crunch the numbers, using your intellect, there's clearly better ways to make money. But we're not doing this based on only that one data point. But what happens if you go only to your heart? Your heart is nuts. Have you ever noticed how neurotic Your heart is? It's filled with fear. It's filled with hurt, it's filled with anger. It's filled with guilt and shame. Most people, you cannot tell them, oh, this Listen to your heart. Well, my heart wants my husband to bring me flowers every night. That'll make me happy. And then you start telling him he's got to do that or you're gonna get upset. That's obviously not the way to manage your relationship. Or my heart says I'd rather be home with my daughter. Now, it's not not really the case once I'm here teaching, obviously. But if I just said, I'd rather be home with my daughter right now, if I follow my heart, I would be making huge ad dharmic decisions that would have actually very negative consequences. Even though my wife I've been teaching for days now would love for me to stay at home. I can't listen to that part of my being to make decisions, or I would actually be going against the flow. So heart and mind are not always the best data points to live our lives even though it sounds so you know, if I so if I say don't listen to your heart. That almost sounds like the worst advice you can give someone the Chinese Embassy If you ever want to curse someone, just say that you have everything your heart desires.1:05:08I'm sure you've heard some stories like Aesop's Fables about somebody who gets everything they ever wanted, and then realizes, wow, that was the worst thing I ever could have done was like the magic Genie stories. God forbid, someone should give you a magic Genie, and you started making wishes based on your heart's desires. That's what I mean by the heart, especially the unhealed heart, you cannot let an unhealed heart run your life and how many of us have unhealed hearts. I know everybody's walking around with a wounded heart. And yet you say listen to your heart. If you say, well listen to your gut. Well, you know, your felt sense now you know, at focusing to shows you focusing shows you where you have your knots, your stomach locks up against things you have charged against. And if you avoid the things you have charged against, a little bit like when which is saying, I like this, like the school, I pretended it didn't excite me, but I couldn't escape it. So maybe that's your conscious mind doing it. But uh, let's say this happens. your gut is responding to your childhood programming about school, you are having a panic attack about going to school. In case you're in that case, you were in that category coming to the school, please know the current class, we had at least two or three people were having serious school issues, being here in school. And while that part of them, and that's what we're going to talk about part of them knows I meant to be in the school, other parts of them are flipping out. I mean, we literally had almost a full blown panic attack. And I took the woman in the other room. We did the 10 Minute Miracle Cure, she was completely This was so profound, actually. She literally ran out of the room. Cheryl went to the bathroom and got her brother and said, you know, we can heal this just who would you like to help you, though Cheryl, and myself were here with the group and and she said, Well, you know what, Matthew to do it. So she came back in, I took her aside. I went through the 10 Minute Miracle Cure, I could review very briefly. I said, Okay, how do you feel validated or listen, I'm just so you know, freaking out right now. She's afraid of heights. Afraid of elevators are afraid of closed spaces, and afraid of school. So it's like, you know, everything about this building, this situation was causing panic attack. You know, it's like, Don't run away. Don't listen to that. Don't listen to your emotions. Don't listen to your felt sense. or listen to your mind. Sit down. How do you feel? We got the symptoms, we got the beliefs, we got the emotions, and then quickly, what does this remind you of now? She has nothing. I said, Okay, well, then we'll just work on what comes up. She goes, Oh, my God, and then the memory started flashing. And there were significant connections. It was that what does this remind you of now? was huge. It was so interesting. I won't break your confidentiality. But it was it was amazing. And then we started a movement work with truth talk. We cleared it went from a like a 910 of panic. down to a three in one cycle. I said okay, well what makes it a three? And she goes, can it be going down to a two as we're talking? And she she doesn't know what I'm in therapy or truth talk or? Or any of this stuff is you know, she's sound fundamentals. So she goes, I'd say down to one she goes Did you hypnotize me? So cute because yeah, like you guys at this stage might not answer that way. But the beginning of the game check. Am I under hip under Am I under hypnosis now? What did you do? She's in she was more she was almost having a panic attack about how quickly she healed. It was like, like, I'm so shocked. I can be free that quickly. Now the point is, again, from reviewing the power of hypnosis and that 10 Minute Miracle Cure. And literally when she came back in the next day, she's like, we need to make a YouTube video about this. Like all wash is willing to give like, you know, a worldwide testimonial for what she said, I can't believe you can do that quickly. She said I had no idea it was that powerful. I told you ain't seen nothing yet.1:09:28But the point is, what if she listened to her heart? What if she listened to her gut? What if she listened to her mind? She wouldn't be in the school, she wouldn't have experienced the miracle she wouldn't have experienced the beauty of the week that we did the three days we just had together so you can't listen to that stuff. Now we'll talk more about what he learned to listen to but let's talk about going down the river again. So going down the river, we have a paddle if you use the paddle to direct your course based on your Your head, your heart or your gut, you're probably going to lead yourself astray. So this kind of hold that thought going down the river, you steering your own boat can be one of the worst things you could ever do. Sometimes other boats will come and bump into yours. And you're like, Oh, I like her, you know, hold on to that boat. And you try to cling to that till death do us part for as long as you possibly can. But sometimes the boats are pulling away, and you're holding on to it, and the boats pulling away and you're still holding on. That's usually when we're attached to relationships, that would be that analogy, you know, in the metaphor is you're holding on to other people's boats, even though those boats are going away. So my wife and daughter will go away in a boat for two months, and I gotta let their boats go. And if it's dharmic, ideally, it's dharmik. Right there, but we'll come back, they did it last year, they came back. So hopefully again this year. But again, even though hopefully is something to let go of is the boats are going to go boats are going to come back. Meanwhile, I'll be going down the river monogamously interacting with other boats. And so I'm gonna she's like the why you'll get all into your projects. Anyway, I'm like, I know. It's, it's harmonious that I need that kind of time to do what I do on the planet. So it is harmonious. But if I cling to it, I'll miss all the other opportunities that are coming my way that the universe already has downstream for me, of which I have no idea, but I trust. It's in Divine hands. So what do you do, then you can paddle back upstream and relive your past, you can try to cling to the now staying in one space in the river, you can try to navigate you're on course, because you have no idea where to go. And you can't hold on to the stuff or the boats around you. Because again, that's probably what the wise traveler does is you take your paddle actually out of the water, you put it down on the boat, and you lean back in your boat. And you look around, go, oh my god, this tree trees on there's the sky. And there's mountains, while the river is actually a beautiful like God, there's like cushions in this boat. It's actually really nice. And Holy crap, I'm relaxed. For the first time in my life, I'm actually relaxing a piece, and I'm enjoying the day. In the Bible, it says this is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice in it, let us give thanks and rejoice in it. That's what that means. Like this is the day the Lord has made, let us give thanks and rejoice in it. But when you're doing all the other stuff with the panel, you aren't seeing the day God made, which means you've never actually lived life. Because life is what's happening now. And if you were in that old model, you never actually fully lived. You've had glimpses of it. And they were joyful. Like when you're a Disney World and something fully gotcha. You're on a roller coaster. And you can only be in the moment while you're having sex. And there's that moment you're so into it. And then it's over. So you have like these moments of what it's like to be in the ecstasy of life's experience. If you're fully in the moment. That's part of the teaching is to the fully in the hair. Now. When you do you're actually far more intuitive,1:13:21far1:13:22more awake to opportunities. And far you're just enjoying everything so much more. That's good. Of course, what comes to me is I need to watch out for the falls that I might miss being distracted by the trees agree in some level of great because here's the thing in a course in miracles that teaches a child if God cannot fully live by external experiences alone, because it's he himself who is manifesting those experiences. The key word here and we'll get to it on the next page is discernment. So in Sanskrit, there are two jewels of yogic practice. Two major words one we discovered Braga and the other we actually learned already is called vache, which means discernment. You do need to discern when is it spirit and when is it ego? Your inner guidance system is intact. And it knows exactly when you're starting to go off course, when something is in harmonious. There's an amazing harmony. We live down the street over here in this high rise condo, and they're replacing the awnings of Where are my car parks under and I'm not on that email list for some reason. So I pulled up about three days ago and this guy parked right next to me who I have never actually seen the owner of this car. He said oh you know you can't be parking here said I'm moving my car right now. They're gonna tow the car tomorrow morning if you don't go park somewhere else. I'm like, oh, how interesting. I didn't know that. But thank you. Like, the universe is taking care of you. Really, if I if I didn't meet this person that I had never ever met before, who didn't tell me that exact moment, I need to move my car the next morning by like nine o'clock or it's gonna be towed. Have you ever noticed this stuff happens? The universe tends to take care of you, when you're really in harmony. What does it takes care of you when you're in harmony. When I lived at this yoga ashram, I was really in harmony was meditating a lot. And I remember one day, I was working in the maintenance crew for a little while, and I needed a ladder. So I go walking back towards the maintenance office to get a ladder. At that moment, somebody comes down the elevator opens this person standing there with a ladder, and I said, Do you need that? She was like, No, I'm bringing it back to wherever I'm like, Can I take it sure that I'm sure you've had your experiences like that. It's like, wow, like the universe is taking care of me. There is an entered. So the river knows where it's going. But here's the thing. Now, we're going to talk about waterfalls, but they're all rivers eventually lead to the ocean. All rivers inevitably lead to the ocean. And of course, the miracles. The line is I thank you, God for your guarantee of only happy outcomes. The river is leading you to the ocean. It's not as malevolent as you think. In fact, it is completely benevolent. Because it's on your side, the universe is on your side, just stop fighting with it. It knows where it's going. It has, like, you know, you're attached to things you say, oh, but this was like, I just set all this up. And and then it didn't work out.1:16:58I want to exactly what it's more conventional in some way. But something in my life didn't work out. I'm like, Okay, interesting, because that seemed really harmonious. And then just like, the next day, I was like, oh, and then I'll talk about the person you know, and oh, and we're like, oh, that worked out for the better. My experience is when you let the river like God, life, whatever you want to call it, move you. Things keep working out for the better. Now, the discernment thing is, the more clear you get, the more you live in the moment, the more you're tuned to your inner guidance system, which we'll talk about on the next page. So discernment is when you start to say, I, my inner being is telling me not right. It's not a negative body felt sense. It's not a panic attack. It's not a conscious mind. thing. It's literally something inside saying, Don't drive that way. Right. Don't go down that road, don't go into that alley, don't walk by those people. If you really attune to your inner guidance, which again, we'll discuss on the next page, you know, start to let you know, there is a waterfall coming up. I was sitting in meditation One morning, and totally attuned and aligned and the voice whatever you want to call it. I inner guidance, Holy Spirit. Higher Self said, you're getting a speeding ticket today. And I said, he was like, damn it. I said, No, no, thank you. But now that you told me, I'll drive slow. It's a No, you won't be paying attention. You'll get a speeding ticket today. I swear. Like it was like a voice, right? They're telling me I'm going to get a speeding ticket. I'm driving to acupuncture school that day. And and I was very conscious, like I'm doing 35 miles per hour, you know, I'm gonna do the speed limit. Sure enough, at one moment, I wasn't paying attention. I look in the rearview mirror. And there was the cop and when he pulled up to the window, I was like,1:19:03Hello, like,1:19:06not gonna try to argue my way out of this one. I'm not saying it kept me from having a speeding ticket. The deeper teaching was, who cares? It was really no big deal. But the voice is there and it knows. Before you do remember the river or the one who can see the whole river knows what's ahead. And your inner guidance system can warn you for what's ahead. The more you open up, the more your third eye opens. You'll start having prophetic visions, images, intuitions that will help you to know don't go in that direction. But when things are all the chakras are lighting up. That's something to listen to as well even though you can't tell exactly where it's going. It seems almost unfair that most people are receiving these teachings and won't clear their blocks. Well, they Well, it almost almost seems unfair. The truth is they'll receive them when they're ready for it because in a Course of Miracles It teaches you cannot learn beyond your degree of readiness. You cannot learn beyond your degree of readiness most people aren't so willing to willing to or ready to hear this but the truth is it'll cause more fear in them then it would be benevolent for them or been a beneficent for them if I start telling most people let go of your political views let go of your favorite sports team because who made that up anyway? Let go of your wife and daughter let go of your career let go of your money are you kidding you know how thank god those people don't know these teachings because I'm the one giving them I'm going to be beaten to death No, it's people only can learn when they're ready to hear so I think it's a good point you're making I believe everybody inevitably will hear this just like every leaf in the tree will inevitably realize you need to let go everybody in the boat will eventually learn you've paddled yourself into so many dead ends so many times that you just need to turn this so you know my thing honestly, you know, you know this but I honestly because I don't want to all over our recordings is I never had any strong charge at all for children. I never wanted a child I was really against it. But really, I knew I was for my mission on the planet. I knew I came down here for this and I mean like I knew I told you a little bit of the story of knowing who I am and where I'm from and I know what I'm here to do nothing in there really ever indicated child so the day that Maya and you can see this we haven't on video the day that Maya told me she was pregnant I went home we we talked and immediately all the programming kicked in of surrender and let go. And um, and we did we went to the beach, we sat we meditated, I very quickly let go of any possible resistance the idea opened up to what it's gonna be like to be with this woman and she looks so beautiful there on the beach that night we have pictures of she just looks so wonderful. And I just love her so much. And I said all right. You know, I did obviously at one point, I remember those moments, being with her saying, if she gets pregnant, I love her so much beautiful. And then we come Asher so most of you think no Asher, Asher was teaching that night for our class, we drove back from the beach, we went into the school, and we announced on camera, I need to pull it up someday we said my his pregnant mine is premium. And you see the excitement that I was blowing out of me. But yeah, it's just like a point of just saying like going with the river, the river brought me the most beautiful, wonderful daughter to me the best person in the world right now. And I never would have put that into my creating manifesting formula. I thank God for putting that into my life. My own list didn't include that. So again, it's like letting go. And allowing does lead you to higher and better states of being the ever could have jumped up of on your own use your conscious or subconscious mind. So hopefully just some of these examples of mine, I help you to resonate in your life tell ya, I can trust surrender and let go. And every time I have, I'm taken to a higher and more joyful, more abundant level of beam. We are the seeds that will help people to hear their messages. Absolutely. This is I'm a hypnotherapist you're in a prime place to share these teachings. And so I know again, these aren't like techniques like past life regression. But I do this stuff every day with clients, they'll come in with our list of negative beliefs. And now I have these resources, which I've you know, had before I became a hypnotherapist. So that's why the profession fit me so well. It was like,1:24:07Wow, you've got all these beliefs about responsibility and attachment and clinging and not letting go and powerless and needing to be in control and psycho Wow, you can actually let all that go learn this stuff, and have a very peaceful, happy, harmonious function like, literally, it's the levels you'll go to and this world and out of your body when you surrender to God are always so much better. Yeah, and we as hypnotherapist in a great position to teach that. We just had that experience driving on Texas. My husband was navigating and I was driving. We were looking for a highway. And I just started to take a turn and go up a certain road, which kind of looked like a side road. As soon as I took it, we figured out we went the wrong way. And we were groaning at the thought of how long it would take to turn around. Within minutes. We saw a sign that indicated we went the correct way. Realize the sign was missing. There we go. So something inside guided you to go that way. There is the inner guidance system, even though you can't always fully see. So remember the thing with a star child project is alien skull kind of comes into my life. First of all, by you know. So you hear more about that once. Next weekend, we'll start talking about hypnosis and aliens and I have more interesting stuff to share now. You know, and you saw if you're watching the videos or online, you know, the joy inside of me about my content, so cool that just came into my life. And, and now that that's unfolding, it's like, I never could have dreamt that up. It was pretty clear not to make it on the front page of the school's websites. Obviously, you see nothing on the school about it you it's only your class really that knows about this project right now. But my God, it's just opened the most amazing opportunities and relationships and experiences and the emails, I got emails to show you guys. I said to Lloyd, now I'm getting a whole bunch of emails about this stuff. I said, I trust now the journey with you is not going to be dull. There's so much more going on that I had any clue about some of it's freaky, honestly. But yeah, like, you know, if you get into the know about this kind of stuff, it's like, oh, wow. And now I'm not even afraid of it. Now. It's just like, awesome. If I got abducted by aliens, I think it'd be fun. Now, there's a totally new take on the whole thing. I love that chart. I've held that skull now twice. And I love that little guy. Whoever that little guy was done hundred years ago, walking on the planet. I love him now. So my joy that I felt with that. And I think Becca, I remember her remember, she said, Matthew, you need to follow that inner child. And it wasn't again, and some of you are like, don't put that on the website. And that was good advice, too. But you know, if trust that choice, so remember, the teaching and your programming can write this down for your hypnotic programming for your clients or for you trust your joy. follow your bliss, you know you're on the right track. When it's joyful and blissful. Holding on to your boat, you can't go on No, no, I'm not letting go this school I'm actually looking forward to seeing and I'm starting to see how they're gonna synergize but in a way that I can't see it. But I know they're both dharmic. At least at this point. It's definitely meant to be part of that team. There's no doubt actually at this point, and how quickly and how harmoniously. That happened. So yeah, but no, I'm not dropping the school Trust me. Yeah, and really know that because you know, though, it's an open door vision for you guys to be part of the school in any way that feels harmonious for you. So yeah, trust me, I'm not going anywhere as far as that goes. Okay, let's go to before we end up with lunchtime, oh, we have to do number three, the ocean and the bobber, page 36. This is just a simple example a teacher of mine gave about surrendering to life. And he said when there's a bobber floating in the ocean. If the barber believes it has its own individual will, and is going to direct its own course, it's actually under the illusion that it's moving itself. When it realizes the ocean is moving, it is far wiser to what's really going on the barber, the float that's gone up and down on the waves might think, look at me, I'm going up, I'm gonna go down, I'm gonna go left now I'm gonna go right. Even if it had the ability to move itself in some way, it would be really silly, because the ocean is far bigger and far wiser and far more powerful than any amount of willpower that little Barbara might have anyway. So it's learning to just be the barber so that I actually will do the two metaphors together and the guided imagery. Going down the river we talked about you can paddle back upstream, you can try to go forward you can hold on to boats, you can grab onto branches,1:29:02or put your paddle in the boat relax and enjoy the day, you will inevitably end up in the ocean. And then I go into and now your boat is floating in the waves. And you're just trusting first of all the river led you to the ocean, right that that major tg. And now wherever it's leading you you've learned Oh, now I'm in the ocean. I've got the ocean in the sky. You know the story of the ocean frog in the well frog. One day the ocean frog is walking in then for whatever reason and looks down a little hole and sees the well frog down there and says What are you doing down there? And the wall frog says Well, what do you mean? I mean, I've got water I've got sun light coming in. I got some air and the ocean frog says but you understand there's an ocean right over there. I guess I have an ocean. Okay, got my water. Got my waves. Got my sunlight. Got my air. No, you don't understand. It's the Ocean. And the well frog couldn't conceive of that order of being of that level level magnitude, with enough coercion and eventually get his fear, who's in the hole because of fear, eventually comes out and realizes Oh my god, it's so much greater and bigger than I ever could have imagined. If it was only a dare, like, go and listen to what that other voice was telling me that I got to be shown that. Okay, so let's go to page 37. And this one's very powerful. So if you realize you don't want to direct your own life, then what starts directing your life? Remember, it cannot be 100% external events, because the external events are a reflection of your insides. So if you constantly find yourself around liars, you say, Well, I guess I'm just supposed to be part of the liar club. You couldn't you can join in with What's there? Because what's there has a lot to do with what's in there. So it's about letting go of what's in here. So number one on this page we've talked about so it says making decisions. Let's talk about that word, I believe completely. Now, there are no decisions to make. It's another totally made up human concept. There no, just like responsibility and failure are words that a lot of us thought, well, there's failure, eventually learned. There's no such thing. And now we've talked about responsibility. There's no such thing. It's a made up human concept. The same thing is true of decisions. But that's a hard one for people to let go of to.1:31:37What do you mean, there's no decisions on any day? Now? Tony is going to be a father. Did you decide to be who do I decide decide to be? He said, Well, yeah, I1:31:47decided to have unprotected sex. Okay, so but, you know, like you didn't, I can only make a decision to have this beautiful being named Abigail, Sophia Brownstein in my life, like, I never could have even conceived of the concept. All I knew was how to pseudo what's the word, but sort of protected sex, like I knew we were taking some risk. And I was willing to do that, because I love my wife, so much. So you know, it was a choice in some level, obviously. But um, the concept of like how my life has unfolded, this, I wouldn't want it to be my own decision. When we moved to Tampa, we I didn't know the area at all. But we drove here, we're checking it out at a business advisor who is encouraging me to be in a bigger city. And we're just driving along Bayshore Boulevard here, which is right on the water's very beautiful in this of this beautiful luxury, high rise, condo. And that had been my dream board, actually, to have that. And I, I'm like, man, we need to pull in here and check this bill. And we just go in this building, right there. And there's a business card for a realtor and I pick it up I call like, right then and there. He lives in the building, he comes downstairs, he goes, Yeah, there's a place available, he shows us the place. And we're in the place and we're still in the place. It's the first and only place we ever found. When we moved to Tampa, my bedroom window overlooks the downtown skyline. And so the whole time spirit has put right in front of me where the future office and headquarters of the school is going to be. And it's right out my window. I couldn't have done that. I couldn't have dreamed that up. Now, but you say but you put the image of that high rise condo in your dream board. But I did because my inner guidance and meditation was already telling me that's harmonious, that thing of multiple schools in multiple locations. Living in this beautiful luxury high rise condo, I was like I can, I can never dream that up. But the point is I didn't. So when you get very quiet in meditation, you get to start hearing the voice of higher self. So let's talk about how higher self comes to you. It does require your own inner quietness. So the first thing we'll talk about this next weekend in meditation is you gonna have to let everything settle down. When you get to the place of inner quiet, that's when you can start hearing the voice. So it'll talk to you. It'll literally give you Words it'll say like, do this or don't do this, or this is how it is. And I used to argue with it now that I understand the voice like I know what it sounds like I know who's speaking. It's you wherever you want to call it. superconscious mind but the point is it can see the whole river. It saw the building long before I ever did. It saw this building long before I ever did. And it saw part of why the whole star child project they've welcome in is this by the way, this place you know our office Now is also the headquarters now of the entire Starchild project. However, would have guessed, but the point is, so And if it's not public in any way, it's just you know, like, but they're working to raise investment money. And I'm like, Well, you know, you guys don't even have an office, I got a pretty impressive office, if you want, you can use this, you know, use the address, use the image, whatever of the building, to help attract potential investors to show your legitimate business. That's part of one reason why, but I never could have seen that while spear was not only moving me in here for the school, and it was the past three days in this location were beautiful. For the school, it's such a lovely when you're here, such a pleasure to walk around here. And, you know, just to be around the hotel and the Starbucks and all the stuff that's here, it's like a little Disney World. So um, but I saw for the school, but then the other opportunities that are unfolding because of it I couldn't have possibly seen. But Higher Self is already showing me the image of the direction to go, and even I couldn't see it. So it'll give you visions. It'll give you words, and it'll give you feelings. So you know, the feeling of joy, the feeling of just childlike enthusiasm, this when all your chakra is open, and you trust that, but again, you relate it to other data points, number four, on this page that we'll get to, I saw on the higher self, we did a meditation, we can go talk to your higher self, you could always do that. But for me, it's not that it's actually just sitting in quiet meditation, getting really clear. And if I did have a question I would ask, but the better place is just get silent. and receive.1:36:48Revelation is not a two way street, you don't reveal to God God reveals to you. So if you just sit quietly and open your mind, you know, people are afraid of that, like all of Satan jumps in there. So it's not how it works. When you get totally quiet, and you come in the present moment you all align with spirit to be in this vortex. If you listen to the abraham hicks materials Abraham talks about, you need to realign with your vortex. And that's your connection to your superconscious mind. Basically, when you there, you tune in, and the ideas start flooding into your mind. And it's almost for me, I can say it's almost it's not quite but it pushes you like to exhaustion I'll be in there. And I'll be like, write this book, I'm like, it's three in the morning, it's great this book. And then like I have to get out of bed or get off the meditation cushion and, and like, let it move me. So don't let the external world be the thing that moves you. Because you're the one who's actually manifesting the external world, the more and more it has to be the voice of the Holy Spirit, that inner joy, that inner wisdom that guides you and moves you. So almost all my clients programming ends up with trust your joy,1:38:09follow your bliss. Listen to your inner guidance that goes in the programming. If you're taking notes, listen to your inner guidance.1:38:17Trust in your inner guidance, because it's how you can listen. But can you always trust it because it sees downstream where you don't listen to your inner guidance, trust and your inner guidance and follow your inner guidance. So listen, trust and follow. And, yeah, I do a lot of work with clients to help them to tap into inner guidance, again, to make me obsolete in their life. Because I don't believe any human being can be someone else's advisor, you know, on some level, like my attorneys are my accounting like, yeah, they're advisors, but they can't tell me how to run my business or live my life. And nobody can tell you how to raise your child it has to come from inside. So higher self, the more you learn about it, the more you meditate on it, the more you tap into it becomes the most reliable guidance. Here's an amazing example. Think about is if all this was true, and there's probably a lot of truth to it. When Moses is taking all the Hebrew people out of Egypt, and he is they're all walking for a while, and eventually Pharaoh sends his armies to chase them. And they get stuck at the Red Sea or probably was known as the read See, but anyway, they're stuck at about a water. And now let's say this is the part that you have to go on faith with Then Moses God somehow the waters part. Now, however, many hundreds of thousands or millions of Jews have to walk across the bottom of a lake bed basically with cattle With carts with bags of food and grain and you know, in the elderly and children who can't walk, and the bottom of mushy marshy, you know, the bottom of a body of water is not going to be solid. They were trying to figure out using satellite imagery, the story of the Bible where if that happened, where would they have? Where did the Bible say they went? And where could they have crossed through satellite imagery having narrowed down where they probably were led, they actually found in under water. It's natural, but there's this body of rock, basically, that goes from one side of the reed sea, or whether it's whoever it is, they figure it out, from one side to the other. If that wasn't already there, they wouldn't have been able to walk across. Just take take that information like what like, you know, if God was led you to a certain place? And then said, like, Oh, shit, well,1:41:04now, how are we gonna get across this? And if the waters did part? Yeah, and again, this is run with the story as if it is true, the water1:41:12is part of it would have already had to been set up that there was a path to walk across because you couldn't have taken all the cattle and oxy you know, the carts and everything across the bottom of a mushy riverbed, water body, bottom of Lake. But the satellite imagery of this area, they pretty well sure is where they the Bible said they went, there's an underground landmass that you can underwater landmass you can walk across. I'll tell you one story for me. And then well, I'll elaborate on this page more. I one day in Massachusetts, bought a kayak and I said, I want to go kayaking. So I just went out, threw it on top of my car, you know, bought it through the top of my car, drove to the top of a river, and literally jumped in. I knew nothing about kayaking is the stupidest thing you could ever do, like rivers in Massachusetts. So you talk about the rapids like what happens when I hit the rapids. So I'm going down this river, I have $13 with me, no cell phone coverage. No way to get back home, no way to get back upstream. It was the stupidest thing you could really ever do. And it was like almost, you know, probably mid day. So I got the idea in the morning. I go by the kayak, I have to get up to the river. So you know, probably about three o'clock or so in the afternoon. I'm going down there nice. But then they end up in this industrial park. The river is going through it's hardwired in and all sides until like, you know the sick, serious industry. And there's metal and all this crap they've thrown into the river. Big metal pipe pierces the bottom of my kayak, the kayak starts filling up with water. And like I mentioned, so I get out of the kayak, I was able to pull it out. And I left it on the bottom down there. And I walked in climb up all the way it's like in this ravine all the way up to I mean, this it's honest, like a Sunday, by the way. So I'm in this lockdown, industrial park in the middle of nowhere with no cell phone coverage and really, you know, like at 13 bucks, like no money. And like, once I What am I gonna do but I actually stopped and did a moment of prayer. And I just said, Okay, I'm your stupid child, yet. I need help. I swear to god at that moment, around the corner, a car pulls up, and I'm like, Oh, shit, IT security. I'm so screwed. It is like a white Bronco. This is white SUV comes up to like right up to me. And I'm like, I'm standing in the middle of nowhere on a Sunday in a barbed wired lockdown industrial complex. This car pulls up. And these people I forget how the conversation went. But I said, they were just two people like, and I said,1:44:00so why don't how do you guys get in here? They said, oh, there's this like, you know, fence over there. That's a lot. I'm1:44:05like, what, what are you doing here? They said, well, we're looking for a fishing hole. And we can't quite find it. I'm like, Well, I got a bit of a problem. I said, I got a kayak here. And I have like, $13 I'll give it to you. Can you drive me back to my car? They say, Yeah, they're a little bit locked in. But something gave in and they said, Okay, sure. We go, we put the kayak in the car, we drive back to where my car was at the top of the river. And they said, Oh, my God, your car's parked at the fishing hole that we were looking for. And this is like miles downstream. There's no way that I believe that I just manifested that myself. My experiences the universe had fully got my back on that one. You know, I could say, you know, I prayed and God helped. But it had to have been pre orchestrated. You know, it's like wow, infinite orchestrating power, but the more I reflect on the story, there's no way that I just got those people to appear instantly. God when I woke up said, Look how silly he is, he's gonna go by a kayak and go down a river, I better get someone there to help them. That was higher self higher consciousness already saw me doing the stupidest thing you could ever do. And was right there protecting me every step of the way. But the story gets better. A month later, there's a river right behind my office. And I was so curious where it went, plop my kayak in the river. And I told a friend of mine, I said, I'm going to put in my camping gear, my kayak, I'm going to call you the next day. And Wherever I am, I'll ask you to pick me up. So she said, Okay. That was how prepared I was so stupid. So I go down, and I'm going to Beautiful, beautiful river amazing where it goes very peaceful, smooth. And then it starts getting dark now and I can't find a place to camp. It's nowhere to pitch tent. So I'm still going down the river and all of a sudden it gets into the ravines and the rapids. I'm like, holy shit, I'm doing the best I can eventually the kayak gets stuck underneath a rock. You know, this craggy river ravine. And there's like, no way to get the kayak out is filled with water pouring into it, like an abandoned ship. So I couldn't get the kayak out, I got out. I did my same little Okay, God, I'm your stupid child. But, uh, I need help. I walked up the ravine. And I swear to God, just like the other time, the moment I got up to surface level, a car pulled up to greet me. And, and there is actually, you know, house nearby for the SEC happened to be at a place in the river where there was it was near a house. And and I said, Do you mind? Can I use your phone? I just need to call a friend to pick me up. And, you know, they said sure. But these people were out for the night, they had just pulled up the moment that I got to the house and I'm on their property completely trespassing. And and they wouldn't have been there. If the timing was off in any other way that or maybe they would have been in the house, I would knock on the door. But if I were half hour earlier, there would have been nobody there. It was the exact, harmonious perfect moment. And then I called my friend drove down the road, she picked me up. And I'm like, okay, you get the chi cat out there. The next day I call friend and her and her son, they we drive down and we were able to pull the cat out together. But the harmony of it just showed me there's no way especially twice. There's no way that I was alone in all of that. Okay, so there's still a reminder to you guys, when you think about surrendering, letting go that the universe has your back, the universe is on your side, the only reason the reason things start going all cockamamie is either one, I turn to God when my foundations are being shaken, only to find out it's God who's shaking them. And so sometimes, you know, spirits gonna clean you up a little bit. And that's not always fun. But remember, the divine hand is behind that. And then when it does get cleaned up, you start realizing Wow, I'm not alone. When clients have that word alone, I put into the programming, here's some more good words for programming, guided, supported, loved and cared for guided, supported, loved and cared for and we put that in for the woman yesterday with the responsibility issue. Surrender, let go trust have faith, the universe is on your side. You live in a benevolent universe1:48:55allow1:48:57put your whole heart into whatever's in front of you. And actually one of the quotes about just throwing your kayak into a river when you don't even know how to kayak or have navigated the river before in a map live life with reckless abandon that one you know I'm cautious with for liability reasons but live life with reckless abandon. Just I'm gonna put my whole heart into this is long as my joy is fall is pumping the you know moving the energy, then we go with it. Alright, so that's a little bit about Yeah, well, the chances recall exactly. All right. So higher self means you do need to meditate and learn to listen to the voice. So next weekend, we'll definitely cover meditation pretty well in depth. And then it's your job to practice and to listen and to realize the voice is there. One major thing to know about higher self if we didn't talk about this, already, is when you ask you will receive an answer. Always. It's a guarantee and of course miracles. If you ask It's in the Bible the ask or receive if you ask you always receive an answer. But the problem is your ego1:50:06likes to answer first. So you have to be able to discern there's the word again, how1:50:12do you discern if it's spirit or ego? Because your mind can just start telling you stuff like, Oh, don't go there, you shouldn't go there, I can pretend to be God. Spirit speaks with unmistakable clarity. And it is a joyful, blissful feeling your ego, you'll just start to notice the difference. You just have to watch and discern ego brings confusion, it brings fear, it's painful, it's thoughts cause negative emotions. If the more you watch, the more you can see, okay, let's see go. And then you'll know when it's spirit. And again, it shows you visions, it speaks to a total calm certainty. And so visions, feelings, and thoughts, V. AK, all come from that. Okay. Number two, the body felt sense, when so he said, like, Listen to your gut. But But when you're clear, when you're really clear, you can swallow ideas, and see if they sit well with you. And it's only one other data point. But it's, there's a level in your body, or at least your spirit uses your body to communicate. So this teaching, I heard this first with the CEO of Sony Corporation. And they asked him, How do you make decisions for Sony? Now, this isn't like, you know, your mom and pop electronic shop, this is Sony. And he said, the CEO of Sony said, well, when somebody presents to me an idea, like at a board of directors meeting, I will swallow the idea. And if it if I can stomach it, I can swallow it. I don't go with it. And that's how Sony is run. So here's the example I give when I teach this to help you guys to understand it or teach it to your clients. Because your clients will come to you in a sec, I need to make a decision. Don't do past life regression, it's not necessarily the best way to figure out what to do, right? Because I can't go back to what I did four years ago, where I live four years ago. So why would I go back 500 years ago, the answers are here now. So learning to listen to higher self is a biggie, your body felt sense. So imagine going into a restaurant, and there's 100 items in the menu. You think there's a decision to make? Well, I have to decide what food to eat. Yet, if you were to imagine swallowing the foods, certain foods just won't go. So just try this for a moment. Imagine a bacon double double cheeseburger, with fries stuffed inside, covered in cheese. Pretty cholesterol filled fatty. Imagine taking that, like Close your eyes and imagine taking that serious hamburger and swallowing it. And just see what happens in your body. Say a if you're like anything, you know, healthy. If you're at all tuned in it you can swallow so it doesn't go down your body. If you did, if you let it go to your belly, you'll feel your love handles get bigger, you feel yourself get fatter, your body is telling you like that's most likely the wrong food. Now, so there's not a decision to make it say well, I can eat anything I want on the menu. I've got money, I can get whatever I want. You can go against the grain. You can do things that are add darmok you can do things that are not harmonious. But your body felt sense is clearly telling you so we're getting close to lunchtime. I do want to finish this lecture though before they imagined for lunch, what would be the most harmonious food for your body? So think about really healthy lean meats and swallow that does it feel right? No, it makes my belly feel flatter. It contributes to some muscle tone. And yeah, that's good, but it's not quite enough. So you know how to be to bring in some salad and that feels good. But then that's good. That's some good roughage, kaput, that's not quite enough. some veggies with that, that feels right. They are not decisions. And eventually you don't have to take a lot of time to figure it out. It's just like I can imagine nicely in chicken. So healthy veggies, nice whole grain. Maybe a little salad on the side. Swallow i canna feels right well People don't listen to that. Obviously, that's why we have this obesity epidemic. But if they listened to what their body was actually saying,1:55:07like alcohol if you regress someone back to the first time they drank if again to stop drinking, go back to the first time they had vodka. Oh my god, your body knew that was poison. But you overrode that instinct. Same as cigarettes regress to the first cigarette you knew that was poison your body knew it. Your whole inner being was telling you don't do this. But your ego overrode your inner guidance system. So this is teaching to get back in touch with that. Any questions and number one and two and then I'll explain one of the most powerful ones. Number three, the chakras. Number three, the chakras. Every chakra, as you know has its own energetic and every chakra can opening close, you know when something is harmonious when it opens the chakra. Now when something's you know, like a big decision, you want to be sure it's opening every chakra. You know, the little things. What do you have for lunch? Okay, y'all, y'all survive if you had the pizza, and it wasn't the most perfect choice? Yeah, you feel a little heavy in bed afterwards. But okay, but when we're talking about like, should I be in this relationship? Should I get married? Should I attend this school? Should I open my private practice? Where should I open my private practice? How should I advertise? All of these are kind of big life decisions. It seems like it's a decision. It's not because there's going to be the one thing that opens up higher chakras. And that's the one you go with, even if, like, you know, you get other data points, like, what does it make sense to go to the school? Okay, well, you didn't see where it's unfolding. It doesn't make sense for you to be interact with this aliens skull. It may not make sense in some levels. But when all my chakras light up, I'm like, I gotta run with this. I got to see where this is leading. And again, living without fear, so it's okay. What would you do if you weren't afraid? So chakras. You can do this with every chakra. So think about first chakra, I'll use the skull as an example. first chakra, first chakra is security. And in quite often financial abundance. Now financial prosperity or you know money, one level and one communication, which comes from others as well, because you guys, you know, you guys give me your emails. And you have some of you did, and you have your own personal felt sense. Some of you are like, not a good idea. And a lot of my staff and you know, team members were like, No, man, like, Don't put it on the webpage don't put it on the Monday night classes. That was not good for security. So first chakra energies were like, no. But when I started looking at it from a business perspective, I'm like, if this is what it really is, this is the most valuable thing in the planet right now. I'm on board. And whatever I money I put in to help bring this project to completion can literally yield millions upon millions of dollars. I'm like, Alright, I'm on board the risk to reward ratio. But uh, aside from my mind, I was lighting up inside about the the opportunity. And again, we're talking just the financial level, which is now what got me into it, of course, the first place. second chakra. So anyone when you're making a decision, does it make sense on a security financial level? It wouldn't make sense to put the skull on the homepage of the school's website, because the school is my primary livelihood. Right? So that would be a mistake. But a side project, my inner being is like, go with this. This is okay. Now, second chakra, pleasure. Is it pleasurable? Is it pleasurable for me to kind of leading their team now? Is it pleasurable to lead teams? Yes. It pleasurable to teach? Yes. I did a distance learning thing with their teams and pull the team together and implement plans. And they're like, wow, we're there. Like, you're amazing. And I'm like, this is what I do. So is it pleasurable? Yes. Therefore run with it. Does it fill me with a feeling of personal power? The fact that I have a Russian geneticist cutting into an alien skull videotape that I was asked to keep confidential and confidential, but you know, protect it, and to digitalize it and I'm walking around with a mic. This is cool. But mostly like it the whole project raises my self esteem. The point is third chakra, personal power. It it's given me a sense like, yes, you know, I feel solid. I feel strong in this. I feel like it's increasing my leadership and business sense. So good. Then to my heart, the energy is love.2:00:07I told you like the love for this, this being whatever that little guy was. And the love for this team and the friends I made from it already have already had some wonderful interactions with people. And just the way my heart lit up when I heard about it. It's like Yes, so, yes, yeah. All four lower chakras. Yes, I will use me as an example. But I want you to of course, think about something for you like opening a hypnotherapy practice. Is it financially lucrative? Yes, you can make serious good money with a full time practice. And is it pleasurable? second chakra? Yeah, it's really pleasurable to see clients and to see them heal. third chakra does it increase your sense of personal power? I'm a healer in this world. I transform people's lives. I'm a business professional. I pay my taxes. I paid off my debts. I see clients, I'm a professional dress as well. Like Yes, I heart. Do you love this profession? Do you love seeing clients? Do you love helping people? does love motivate you help them? Yes. So all of this is lighting up? And then you're saying yes, it's the right profession for me.2:01:18fifth chakra expression, is this helping you to express who you are. Now for this star child project. It's helping me to express who I am as a business person.2:01:32But what I didn't see. And this is where I'm seeing it synthesizing. It's, I'm the one who's written the core values for the team they never had before. So I put in there truth, honesty, integrity. And I think I put the word love, but I put the word a himsa, the Sanskrit term for non violence. And when they said, Can you and I did mention the word love and they said, can you run a business from love and non violence? I'm like, You betcha. So I see that and then remember, this thing can become an international sensation. So why is it dharmic for me, because I'm able to express who I am teaching love and kindness and peace. And I've infused the values of this new company. There's no Corporation there. I can't founding the Corporation for them. It is infused with these ethics. So am I expressing who I am in this way? Absolutely. So think about it, Hypnotherapy? Are you getting to express who you are. You get to teach this stuff. You get to talk about this stuff. You get to help your clients, you get to listen, you get to teach them from your stories and your life experience like, yes, but you'll feel it you'll feel it'll open up. Third Eye vision for the star child is different for me, because that just popped in my life. And I'm like, Well, what is my vision? My vision is to raise human consciousness I am we prove alien life, it's going to do that. And then what is my vision, My vision is to bring health, wealth and enlightenment to myself and my fellow man. That's my vision, health, wealth and enlightenment. The skull itself is actually three times thinner than normal human bone. It's very thin, it's more porous, and it's far lighter, it is stronger and lighter than any human bone we have in the planet, right now. When we run the entire genetic sequence, we will have found the genetic structure to make, like, you know, I will find like what else? What is the bone part of that? I don't know, I'm not the geneticist, obviously. But what the team already understands, because there's a geneticist on the team, is once we sequence the DNA, we most likely will cure osteoporosis. And there's some serious money there too. So you know, the this one skull, once you have a full DNA genome sequence, in literally we'll figure out how to make human bones stronger. That's part of my vision, health, wealth, this will create so many income streams. It's It's unbelievable. If you really think about what will happen, how many movies will be made from this, how many people will go to the movies like you don't crease the economy, actually. So health wealth, then of course for me, and enlightenment, I believe that people opening their minds to the concept that this thing could actually be another species is going to enlighten people, it's going to open them. It's like kind of like hypnotherapy. It's my way of helping people to learn spiritual teachings. Without being directly overt about it on the surface. I believe the same thing will happen in this way. So when I check here, like yeah, it actually aligns with my higher vision, and then spirituality, scholars, nothing to do with it. But the concept that what comes through me can now move out into that many more people even totally behind the scenes, like yeah, so in everything level it up. It's like, I gotta run with this. So now think about for you for hypnotherapy. What is your vision? What is your mission? What is your purpose? You're here to love. You're here to help you're here to serve. That's why hypnotherapy resonates with you, and spirit, you're here to bring more peace and love and all the qualities of spirit to this world. So if you think about how do you know that hypnotherapy is right for you, all your chakras should light up. The point is now for number three, when every chakra lights up when it feels good in each of these body locations. And if it feels bad, you need to check cool, what thought do I have? That's misguided? That's not aligned? Yeah. Any questions on that one, then we'll try to take a break. But 1245 let me do number four, then we'll take our break. And if you have more questions about this, we'll do it after the break, you know, get your lunch, and then we'll move on from it. So number four other data points, anything and anything and any everyone and everything that you can ask becomes a data point. So I asked you guys, what is your opinion about the scope? And some of you were kinda, and some of you who didn't, it's okay. But you know, some of you chose to email back and tell me, your thoughts on it. Those become data points for me. Not that I'm making 100% decision by anyone email. But the information helped me to kind of process and sit with it. It's like, Okay, well, like everybody's saying, Don't put it on the website.2:06:30Okay. So thank you like, that was good advice. And then listen to your inner child, listen to your heart. Okay, good advice. So um, anybody like my parents are great data points, I'll turn to them frequently for what do you think is a very healthy and sane and down to earth? So what do you think of this? Who will talk about the skull? What? You know, what do you think about this? When I asked my mother, should I go into hypnotherapy school when I'm in acupuncture school? She said yes. Like, really? I didn't think you'd say yeah, she's like, it sounds like a great profession to fall back upon if you ever need it. You've got a whole nother career. I'm like, wow, you know, so she was appointed sannidhi there when I wasn't when my inner guidance was telling me spirit literally say go to hypnotherapy school. It was as clear as day. Like, really, but I checked other data points, just to be sure. I believe you can use other things as well like Tarot, or the gene, if you know what that is, or even astrology, if you're into that. Not that it's going to be the answer. Or you know, that eight ball that you shake, and it comes up with an answer. Like, let's say, should I go with this? And it says, No. It doesn't mean you Listen to what it says. But you swallow the idea. And if no, just made you go, Oh, no. Like this, your inner being is confirming for you that the no answer is wrong. Either way, you need to listen to your inner being. But my experience is sometimes these things like if you if you do Tarot, and you pull the you know, certain card, the death card, you're like, Okay, well, what does that mean to me based on my own inner guidance, it's not that the card can tell you how to run your life. But the card pulls up a certain thing. Like let's say the fortune card comes up, and you swallow the idea to want to assess fail fortune, it is bring fortune. Wow, yeah, this feels really lucrative. So you would run with it. But if I, you know, like the, whatever the low money card is, you just wouldn't be able to swallow it be like, No, just i'm not buying into it. So just one brief thing with the skull concept. When my wife is like, this is a fake. This is a fraud. And that was one of my data points. I actually said, I will bet you 1500 weeks, as soon as they want to make a bet. I'm like, you know, I said she didn't know the English word bet. I said, want to make a bet. She goes, sure. And I just want how much I said, I'll give you 1500 dollars, if this is not legitimate, not that if the skull is alien. Now, I can't prove that. But if the person you know, the team and the whole project, if it's all legitimate, or if it's not legitimate, I'll give you 1500 dollars. So she was actually a data point saying like, you know, I know it's all a scam. But my inner guidance was saying, I'm not trusting that data point. So we listen to these things. But we listen to them against our own inner guidance system. So even something like Tarot or astrology chart or a psychic enough, even if a psychic said, Oh, you shouldn't do that. But every other data point says yes, and all your chakras say yes. When that psychic says no, you'll feel like Oh, god, no, I just locked up against what that person said. And then you know, it actually will help to confirm what you already know. Okay, so any sharing Any questions? Any thoughts from you guys? I hope you found this morning's talks on these two pages beneficial because I know if you really think about it, like you know, this is life and clients come to us All the time not knowing how to live their life. And these are some of the best teachings I've ever received. I'm happy to share them with you. Good stuff. Good, helpful awareness. Yeah. And again, you're using an hypnotic programming all the time as resolutions to the negative stuff you uncover inside of people. It gives you a whole set of different resources you may not have had before, of how you help someone to do their programming and you won't make mistakes have taken them the past lives to try to find their answers. You can do some inter life processing. But really the better way to find out what do I do? Remember clear the parent child conflict, get the inner child allowed to feel joy again, and then teach them this kind of stuff. Much better ways to live your life than to see what you did 500 years ago. All right, excellent. So see you back right about 130 and we'll continue on with some past life regression doper training. Right. I'll see you back 130 ................
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