HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP SCENARIOS - Safer, Smarter Families
HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP SCENARIOS
Directions:
Ask your teen these questions: "Do you think there is a connection between self-esteem and relationships?" "Does the way you feel about yourself influence how you behave with others and how you let others treat you?"
In a healthy relationship, there is a constant positive spiral of positive interactions that increases your teen's self-esteem and empowers them as an individual. In an unhealthy relationship, there is a constant downward spiral of negative interactions that serves to decrease your teen's self-esteem and creates an imbalance of power. Talk with your teen about each of these scenarios and ask them whether self-esteem is being increased or decreased and what effect that might have on their relationship.
Scenario 1 Mary worked really hard on her English essay. When her graded essay was returned, she was excited to see that she had earned a 94%. Mary was very proud of the grade because she had worked so hard. Caroline started laughing and said, "So who did you get to write that for you? You stink at writing!"
How do Caroline's words affect Mary's self-esteem?
What if Caroline had said, "Wow, that's great. I know you worked really hard on your essay"?
What kind of a relationship do you think Mary has with Caroline? Healthy or unhealthy?
Scenario 2 Brian and Kyle are on the baseball team. Brian has not gotten a hit in the last four games. Before the game, he confides to Kyle that he doesn't want to play tonight because he doesn't think he will get a hit. Kyle slaps him on the back and says, "Hey man, we all have a few off games. Don't get down on yourself."
Did Kyle's words and actions help or hurt Brian's self-esteem? Why?
What kind of relationship do you think Brian has with Kyle? Healthy or unhealthy?
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Scenario 3 Kaylynn has been learning to cook. She tries a new recipe and is excited to share it. Her mother's friend tastes it and makes a face. He says, "Hey Kaylynn, I think you need some points from your mom. This doesn't taste nearly as good as what she cooks!" How did his reaction to her cooking make Kaylynn feel? Why? What kind of relationship do you think Kaylynn has with her mother's friend? Healthy or unhealthy?
Scenario 4 Marcus spent most of the day cutting the lawn and trimming the bushes. When his neighbor comes home, he yells, "Wow, Marcus, good job! The lawn looks great." Did the comments help or hurt Marcus' self-esteem? What kind of relationship do you think Marcus has with his neighbor? Healthy or unhealthy?
Help your teen to understand that anytime someone tries to decrease their self-esteem, that is a sign that they are in an unhealthy relationship. Empower your teen and support them to end any relationship that has an imbalance of power.
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