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PSYCHOEDUCATION: FEELINGS Understanding Emotions
Understanding Emotions
Sometimes it can be difficult to tell thoughts and emotions apart. Some people are better at identifying their thoughts, while others are better at identifying their emotions. Here are a few strategies to help you distinguish thoughts from emotions:
? Emotions generally take one word to describe, while thoughts are usually a string of words. ? Emotions cause feelings all over our body, while thoughts are typically experienced only in
our head/mind. ? Thoughts can be fact-checked. We can argue with thoughts, but we can't argue with
an emotion. If I can refute what you're saying, it is probably a thought.
This table can also help you identify the relationship between your feelings and thoughts.
Emotion
Types of Thoughts That Lead to this Emotion
Example
Sadness
Thoughts of a loss, rejection, or failure.
"They don't like me." "I'll never be good enough."
Guilt; Shame
Thoughts that you have failed to live up to certain standards: yours, someone else's, or your culture's. Guilt results from self-condemnation, and shame
fears the reaction of others.
"I shouldn't have done that." "I should have studied more." "I'm not what my family wants."
Anger; Irritation; Annoyance
Frustration
Anxiety; Worry; Fear; Panic
Inferiority; Inadequacy
You believe that someone is treating you unfairly or trying to take advantage of you. You make assumptions about the intentions of others.
Thoughts that life is not meeting your expectations and should be different.
Thoughts that you are in danger because something bad is going to happen.
Negative predictions about the future.
Thinking about how you compare to someone else.
"They shouldn't do that!" "Nobody has any manners."
"Why does traffic always slow down when I'm in a hurry?"
"He should have been on time." "I shouldn't have done that."
"What if my mind goes blank when I give this presentation?" "They're not going to like me."
"What if I'm sick?"
"There's nothing special about me." "All the guys like her and
nobody likes me."
Hopelessness; Discouragement
Thoughts that your problems are indefinite and things will never be better.
"I'll never find a good job." "I'll be alone forever."
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PSYCHOEDUCATION: FEELINGS Understanding Emotions
How else can we identify our emotions?
Sometimes it is difficult to identify what emotions we are having. One strategy to help us identify our emotions is to identify what kind of thoughts we are having (page 1). The way our body reacts can also give us clues to what emotion we might be experiencing. Additionally, noticing what behaviors we feel compelled to engage in can also help us understand what we might be feeling. Use the table below if you're struggling to identify your emotions.
Emotion Anger
Physical Feelings
Clenched jaw, tense shoulders, hot face, burning in stomach, increased heart rate
Common Behaviors
Lashing out; yelling; storming about; behaving impulsively; attacking
Sadness
Feeling heavy, weighted; chest tightness, lump in throat; pain in chest
Crying; reaching out to others for support; withdrawing
Anxiety
Heart racing, sweating, shaking, stomach turning, dizziness, dry mouth
Avoiding; over-preparing; seeking excessive reassurance
Guilt
Heaviness, sick feeling in stomach
Avoiding someone we think we've wronged; becoming overly apologetic
Why do we need emotions?
We might feel more comfortable with some emotions than others, but our emotions can be really useful tools if we know how to recognize and respond to them appropriately. Though emotions can become very intense at times, we don't want to totally get rid of them! Each emotion serves helpful functions. We want to learn skills to manage them when they become too intense and lead to problematic behavior. Below is a list of some ways emotions can be helpful. Can you brainstorm any other ways your emotions are helpful to you?
Emotion Anger
Why is this emotion useful? Can motivate us; can help us communicate with and influence others
Sadness Anxiety
Guilt Happiness
Can show us what is really important to us; can draw others to us to help us cope
Can alert us of danger or problems; can prepare our body to better cope with stress and threat; can save us time in getting us to act in important situations Can help us recognize when our behavior isn't in line with our values; can motivate us to change our behavior; can help us maintain social connection
Provides pleasure; helps us connect with others
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