THIS IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY RELATIONSHIP
THIS IS WHAT IS NOT WORKING FOR ME IN OUR RELATIONSHIP
FORM FOR THE WOMAN
List “not working for me” quickly, without filling in the other columns until later. Write down everything you can think of, even if you think it is trivial or not something you want to reveal.
|IMP[1] |MUST |WHAT IS WRONG |Correctable?[3] | Comments |
| |CHANGE[2] | | | |
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| | |I don’t feel loved, as indicated by:[4] | | |
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| | |Doesn’t listen to me | | |
| | |Does not express his emotions enough | | |
| | |Makes me wrong | | |
| | |Doesn’t respect me as shown by: | | |
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| | |He gets too angry and/or angry too often. | | |
| | |He’s mean. | | |
| | |He’s harsh with me. | | |
| | |We can’t talk out things. | | |
| | |He’s not romantic enough. | | |
| | |He’s not physically affectionate enough. | | |
| | |We never do anything. | | |
| | |He isn’t around enough. | | |
| | |He’s late. | | |
| | |He’s sloppy. | | |
| | |He doesn’t do his household work. | | |
| | |He is unkempt. | | |
| | |He’s just too out of shape and unattractive. | | |
| | |He refuses to go to a counselor with me. | | |
| | |He refuses to go to a counselor. | | |
| | |He drinks too much. | | |
| | |He’s irresponsible with money. | | |
|What I like or appreciate about my partner: |
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THIS IS WHAT IS NOT WORKING FOR ME IN OUR RELATIONSHIP
FORM FOR THE MAN
List “not working for me” quickly, without filling in the other columns until later. Write down everything you can think of, even if you think it is trivial or not something you want to reveal.
|IMP[5] |MUST |WHAT IS WRONG |Correctable?[7] | Comments |
| |CHANGE[6] | | | |
| | | | | |
| | | | | |
| | | | | |
| | |I don’t feel loved, as indicated by: | | |
| | | | | |
| | | | | |
| | |She doesn’t listen to me. | | |
| | |She over-expresses her emotions. | | |
| | |She’s irrational in decisions & in discussions. | | |
| | |She makes me wrong. | | |
| | |She doesn’t respect me as shown by: | | |
| | | | | |
| | |She gets too angry and/or angry too often. | | |
| | |She’s mean. | | |
| | |She’s harsh with me. | | |
| | |We can’t talk out things. | | |
| | |She demands things I can’t deliver. | | |
| | |She’s not physically affectionate enough. | | |
| | |She pressures me to go out and do something. | | |
| | |She complains about my not being around. | | |
| | |She’s late. | | |
| | |She criticizes me for being too sloppy. | | |
| | |She complains about:[8] | | |
| | |She doesn’t praise what I do. | | |
| | |She’s just too out of shape and unattractive. | | |
| | |She pressures me to go to a counselor. | | |
| | |She makes me feel less a man. | | |
| | |She’s irresponsible with money. | | |
|What I like or appreciate about my partner: |
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[1] On a scale from 1 to 10 how important is this, 10 being the most vitally important. (You need not rate anything a 10.)
[2] If you can live with this and accept it as part of the relationships, then you would prefer it would be changed but it is not a must. If you can’t live with it, then it must change.
[3] Is this a correctable condition? Can it be changed, not will this person choose to change – the latter is part of the discussion process to follow.
[4] List additional items on the back if necessary. If this is being done on the computer, simply add some row (under table, insert, rows).
[5] Rate, on a scale from 1 to 10 how important is this, 10 being the most vitally important. (You need not rate anything a 10.)
[6] If you can live with this and accept it as part of the relationships, then you would prefer it would be changed but it is not a must. If you can’t live with it, then it must change.
[7] Is this a correctable condition? Can it be changed, not will this person choose to change – the latter is part of the discussion process to follow.
[8] List additional items on the back if necessary. If this is being done on the computer, simply add some row (under table, insert, rows).
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