33 Hot Buttons Worksheet: :



: : 33 Hot Buttons Worksheet: :

Chances are you might already know the answers to some of these without asking her or finding. If you don't know, finding out the information is pretty easy. You can either ask directly, indirectly or just wait for her to directly/indirectly offer up the information.

Hot Button #1: How She Wants To Be Perceived (Deep Down Inside) (i.e. a good friend, a good mom, the person in charge, the person who does it all, the life of the party, etc)

Hot Button #2: Her H.I.P.S Hobbies/Interests/Passions/Spare Time Activities

(i.e. playing tennis, hanging out with friends, shopping, camping, watching reality shows, gardening, etc.)

Hot Button #3: Her Greatest Achievements & Accomplishments (and anything she's proud of)

(i.e. Employee of the month, 4.0 GPA, the ABC award, getting a raise, having a child, etc.)

Hot Button #4: Her "Most Amazing" Life Experiences

(i.e. The time she went bungee jumping, the days when she played softball, traveling to Singapore, her days in high school, various childhood memories, etc.)

Hot Button #5: The Best Compliments She Has Ever Heard

(i.e. teacher said she was the best student, her boss said she's the most creative person he ever hired, her softball coach said she has the heart of a lion and the toughest player he's ever coached, her best friend said she does it all, etc)

Hot Button #6: The Traits That She Likes About Herself

(i.e. caring, creative, adventurous, thoughtful, unique, etc.)

Hot Button #7: The Physical Traits That She Is Proud Of

(i.e. nice smile, sex legs, nice figure, stylish wardrobe, nice makeup, etc.)

Hot Button #8: The Important Things That Most People Overlook

(***Very Important: Even though this may include information you listed before, it deserves its own category. For example, if one of her proudest moments was winning the ABC Award [Hot Button #3], then be sure to list it here as well. You want to isolate things that everyone else overlooks because it allows you to rapidly build an intense connection.)

Hot Button #9: What Makes Her Unique/Special (unlike any other woman) (Note: Even though this may include information you listed before, it deserves its own category.)

Hot Button #10: Information that reveals her current perception of herself

Hot Button #11: What does she want to have?

Hot Button #12: What does she want to get rid of?

Hot Button #13: What would she want to accomplish in the future?

Hot Button #14: What traits do others like about her?

Hot Button #15: What physical traits does others like about her?

Hot Button #16: The experiences in her upbringing

Hot Button #17: The beliefs installed during her upbringing

Hot Button #18: Her recent experiences that had a lot of impact

Hot Button #19: How does she put those experiences in perspective?

* Hot Button #20: What are her different personas?

Hot Button #21: What is it about her life that she is tired of?

Hot Button #22: Information that reveals her strategies

Hot Button #23: Information that reveals her philosophies/beliefs

Hot Button #24: Information that reveals her fears

Hot Button #25: Information that reveals her perception of other women

Hot Button #26: Information that reveals her perception of you

Hot Button #27: Information that reveals her perception of men

Hot Button #28: Information that reveals her perception of life

Hot Button #29: Information that reveals her perception of people

Hot Button #30: Information that reveals her perception of how relationships typically operate

Hot Button #31: Information that reveals her perception of the perfect relationship

Hot Button #32: Information that reveals her perception of sex

Hot Button #33: Information that reveals her perception of the perfect man

So there you go, treat this as a starter list (or a brainstorm list) that allows you to think of other areas beyond the 33 hot buttons.

Although I typically promote getting this information for the purpose of becoming desirable & getting her aroused.

You'll find it useful for other skills and strategies such as: inspiring her, buying her the right gift, cheering her up, being a better partner, etc.

Although on the surface it may feel fun/sneaky/secretive to have conversations designed to extract this information. The real raw truth is pretty basic and direct and that is:

If you want to create that magical impression that you are the guy that understands her more than anyone!!! (...then it makes sense to be the guy who [actually] understands her more than anyone).

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