My Will and Wishes: Letter of Wishes - Plan your Funeral



My Will and Wishes: Letter of Wishes1Name2Birth Date3 Address4.My WillApproximate date signed OriginalWhere?CopyWhere?5My WishesLocation of any notes I wish to leave, inc details of passwords and usernames for computers and accounts (investment, bank, social media etc)6My PapersLocation of any important documents7Next of KinNameAddress8.Special FriendNameAddressRelationship9.End of life careSee NHS ChoicesInstructionsWhere?DocumentsWhere?10.Initial contactsFamily / Friends11.My bodyBury or CremateEmbalmYes /NoDress meI would like to be wearing:With meAnything I would like with me(good luck charms, trinkets etc)OrgansChoose to donate some / all / no organs12.TransportBlack Hearse, Horse Carriage, motorbike, friend’s car etc (add sample picture and supplier if available)13.CasketYour coffin preference: eg wood, wood effect, natural eco-friendly, simple, luxury (add sample picture and supplier if available)14.Carried by Paid bearers or friends/family? 15.ServiceStyle (Religious, secular, DIY, informal, etc)Dress(eg to wear black, your favourite colours etc)Timing(Service followed by burial, private cremation followed by public service, Life Celebration after quiet cremation?)Where(Church, Burial ground, crematorium?)Celebrant (Priest, friend, non-religious celebrant, family member?)Music(Hymns, songs, organ music, solos, musical works: list performer and piece of music, with links, as clearly as possible)Invite(List general groups, eg Book Club friends, colleagues from workplace)Order of ServiceStyle (religious, formal, natural, DIY etc: sample images and links if possible)FlowersColour and style, sample images and links)ReadingsAuthor, sourcePoems, QuotesAuthor, sourceSpeakers(Anyone who wants to? Just the celebrant?)PrayersAny specific15.Wake/Party (Village hall, club, hotel etc: name and location)WhereFoodDrink16.My LifeDetails of Your Life, including:Birth Circumstances, place etcFamily Early memoriesEducationSportsHobbiesGroups, clubWorkRelationships17I am proud of:Achievements18PeopleInfluences on me19PhotographsMy favourite picture of me (digital or paper copy)My favourite place (where, why, picture?)20.Resting placeBurial GroundAshes(Interred, scattered, where?)21.MementosWhat would you like people to remember you by? Jewellery, plant seeds etc22.MemorialStone memorial, Bench, tree etc, and wording? Where?SignedDatedUpdated(Remember to update this regularly, we can send you reminders if you wish) ................
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