The Words Of Our Mouth – October 24, 2010
The Words Of Our Mouth – October 24, 2010
That which comes out of the mouth is an expression of what is really in the heart.
In Matthew 12:34 the Lord Jesus clearly stated that it is not really a MOUTH PROBLEM, but it is a HEART PROBLEM: "for out of the abundance of the _____________ the _____________ speaketh." See also Matthew 12:35. Words are like FRUIT ("the fruit of our lips"). If the fruit is bad, something must be wrong with the root (MAN’S HEART). Remember, when wrong or filthy words flow out of a person's mouth, he is showing everyone a picture of his heart. The words that a person speaks reveal much about the state of that person’s heart.
Mat 12:34-35
(34) O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
(35) A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things.
The book of James has a great deal to say about the tongue and especially how important it is to "bridle" that little member (James 1:26; 3:1-12). A bridle is used to control a horse and hold him back and keep him in check. A man’s tongue is like a wild horse that must be controlled and held in check and restrained. We must not let it run loose! God is the One who can help us control the tongue as we trust Him and seek to please Him in all that we say.
(Jas 1:26) If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is vain.
Jas 3:3-10
(3) Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
(4) Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth.
(5) Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!
(6) And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
(7) For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind:
(8) But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
(9) Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
(10) Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
Wrong And Wicked Words
Words are important. How much can you say in a three-minute phone call? Much can be said! In three short minutes slow talkers can get in about 450 words. It is possible to whiz through 750 words in three minutes. How many words do you think come out of your mouth during an average day?
Words are powerful. Words can create close friendships or destroy friendships. They can prompt laughter or motivate tears. Words can hurt and harm and words can heal and help. Let us now consider how words can be used in the wrong way.
False Words
What does the Lord think of a lying tongue (Proverbs 6:16-17; 12:22)? __It is an abomination____
Pro 6:16-17
(16) These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
(17) A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
(Pro 12:22) Lying lips are abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are his delight.
This sin caused Ananias and Sapphira to be hurried away into eternity (Acts 5:1-10). Who is the liar’s parent (John 8:44)? __The Devil_______
(Joh 8:44) Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
Will the liar be punished (Proverbs 19:5,9)? How will he be punished (Revelation 21:8)? __Yes, They shall have their part in the lake of fire._____________________________
(Pro 19:5) A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he that speaketh lies shall not escape.
(Pro 19:9) A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he that speaketh lies shall perish.
(Rev 21:8) But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Liars and deceivers hide the truth, twist the truth, misrepresent the truth and lead others away from the truth. How truthful are you?
What always came out of the Saviour’s mouth (John 8:45-46)? __The Truth______
Joh 8:45-46
(45) And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
(46) Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me?
Perverse (Filthy) Words
The person who is Perverse__ in his lips is described as a _fool__ (Proverbs 19:1). What kind of words flow out of your mouth? corrupt words? improper words? swear words? rotten words? Do you swear and use filthy language in public? in private? Do you copy the language of your unsaved friends or are you a testimony to them by the words which you use and which you do not use?
(Pro 19:1) Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.
In the New Testament God tells us that no Corrupt__ (Ephesians 4:29) or Filthy____ (Colossians 3:8) communication should come out of the believer’s mouth! Don’t let the garbage and filth fly all over the place! Remember, our language reveals our heart!
(Eph 4:29) Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
(Col 3:8) But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
Harsh and Angry Words
Have you ever seen a person EXPLODE like a volcano in a fit of anger? When the human volcano blows, it usually explodes through the mouth! Usually the angrier the person gets the louder the words get and the louder the words get the angrier the person gets! Have you ever heard an argument get louder and louder until the two people begin talking with their fists?
"A _soft_ answer turneth away __wrath___" (Proverbs 15:1). Next time try using the weapon of soft words! Soft words quench anger’s fire! Loud, angry words only stir up wrath.
(Pro 15:1) A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
Gossipy Words
Gossip is a terrible weapon of destruction. The person who uses this weapon loves to reveal very personal or sensational facts about a person (and of course this person is never present when the gossiper spreads these rumors). The gossiper loves to do anything except mind his own business!
According to Proverbs 11:13, a talebearer __revealeth___ secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit ___concealeth____ the matter. There are some things that we are told or that we know about that are not meant to be repeated. There are some things that if said would only hurt and harm.
(Pro 11:13) A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.
Are there some things that we should not repeat (Proverbs17:9)?__Yes__ Can words of gossip hurt someone (Proverbs 26:22)?__Yes___ In this case a wound is inflicted even though no blood is drawn and no outward hurt is seen.
(Pro 17:9) He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.
(Pro 26:22) The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.
There is a simple way to kill gossip. Gossip can never survive unless there is someone to listen to it. The problem is that most people enjoy hearing the latest rumor and they eagerly devour the latest gossip. They are as guilty as the one who gossips. Here’s a suggestion the next time someone begins to share gossip with you. You can say, "My friend, let’s go to this person that you are talking about and let’s share this with him (her), and then after we share it all three of us can get down on our knees and pray about it!" Do you think this person would make it a habit to share gossip with you?
We must be careful never to gossip and never to receive gossip from others. Don’t give it out and don’t take it in!
Boastful Words
Boasting is telling how great someone is. There is nothing wrong with boasting in and of itself. For example, we can boast in the Lord and tell how great He is! The problem comes when we use words to praise ourselves and tell others how great we are! This is sinful pride!
Some very helpful advice about boasting is found in Proverbs 27:2--"Let another man praise_thee, and not thine own __mouth___." Praise is a beautiful garment, but though you may wear it, ANOTHER MUST PUT IT ON!
(Pro 27:2) Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips.
Flattering Words
What is better and more needful, rebuke or flattery (Proverbs 28:23)? ___rebuke__ The person who flatters always says nice things. He says things that a person wants to hear and he is unwilling to say things that a person needs to hear. He would rather speak smooth things than rough things (he does not want to cause any waves or create any problems). Often a flatterer praises another person too much (and often the praise is untrue or exaggerated).
(Pro 28:23) He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour than he that flattereth with the tongue.
Suppose you had cancer. What do you think the doctor should say?
"You are in excellent physical condition. Everything seems fine."
"You have a deadly cancer growing in you that must be removed immediately!"
The nice things and the pleasant things are not always the things we need to hear! In His Word God always tells us what we need to hear even if it is not what we would want to hear. A good friend is someone who tells us what we need to hear even though the truth sometimes hurts.
Slanderous Words
A person who slanders is one who makes false charges or false statements (or half-true statements) about another person, and these statements are meant to do harm!
Did Joseph and Potiphar enjoy a good friendship (Genesis 39:1-6)? _Yes___ Did a slanderous woman ruin this relationship (Genesis 39:7-20)? _Yes___ May we be careful to never accuse someone falsely. Would you want someone to attack you with words? If not, then don’t do this to others (see Matthew 7:12)!
Gen 39:1-6
(1) And Joseph was brought down to Egypt; and Potiphar, an officer of Pharaoh, captain of the guard, an Egyptian, bought him of the hands of the Ishmeelites, which had brought him down thither.
(2) And the LORD was with Joseph, and he was a prosperous man; and he was in the house of his master the Egyptian.
(3) And his master saw that the LORD was with him, and that the LORD made all that he did to prosper in his hand.
(4) And Joseph found grace in his sight, and he served him: and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he had he put into his hand.
(5) And it came to pass from the time that he had made him overseer in his house, and over all that he had, that the LORD blessed the Egyptian's house for Joseph's sake; and the blessing of the LORD was upon all that he had in the house, and in the field.
(6) And he left all that he had in Joseph's hand; and he knew not ought he had, save the bread which he did eat. And Joseph was a goodly person, and well favoured.
(7) And it came to pass after these things, that his master's wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said, Lie with me.
(8) But he refused, and said unto his master's wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand;
(9) There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?
(10) And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
(11) And it came to pass about this time, that Joseph went into the house to do his business; and there was none of the men of the house there within.
(12) And she caught him by his garment, saying, Lie with me: and he left his garment in her hand, and fled, and got him out.
(13) And it came to pass, when she saw that he had left his garment in her hand, and was fled forth,
(14) That she called unto the men of her house, and spake unto them, saying, See, he hath brought in an Hebrew unto us to mock us; he came in unto me to lie with me, and I cried with a loud voice:
(15) And it came to pass, when he heard that I lifted up my voice and cried, that he left his garment with me, and fled, and got him out.
(16) And she laid up his garment by her, until his lord came home.
(17) And she spake unto him according to these words, saying, The Hebrew servant, which thou hast brought unto us, came in unto me to mock me:
(18) And it came to pass, as I lifted up my voice and cried, that he left his garment with me, and fled out.
(19) And it came to pass, when his master heard the words of his wife, which she spake unto him, saying, After this manner did thy servant to me; that his wrath was kindled.
(20) And Joseph's master took him, and put him into the prison, a place where the king's prisoners were bound: and he was there in the prison.
(Mat 7:12) Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
Excessive Words
There is a real danger in the use of too many words: "In the __multitude___ of words there wanteth (lacketh) not _sin_ but he that refraineth his lips is _wise___" (Proverbs 10:19). The wise man learns to _spareth________ his words (Proverbs 17:27). The wise man learns to close his mouth (see Proverbs 17:28). HE IS A FOOL, NOT WHO HAS UNWISE THOUGHTS, BUT WHO UTTERS THEM. If you close your mouth they might think you are a fool but if you open your mouth you prove it!
(Pro 10:19) In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise.
(Pro 17:27) He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit.
Before we answer with our mouth we should _hear___ with our ears (Proverbs 18:13)! In James 1:19 we are told to be __swift_ (quick) to hear, ___slow___ to speak. God has given each person two ears and only one mouth. This seems to indicate that God wants us to do more listening than talking! It is very easy to interrupt someone and answer someone before we have really listened and thought carefully about something. Better to be a fool than to be a person who is __hasty_____ in his words (Proverbs 29:20). Some people are quick to open their mouth and let it all spill out (like when you turn over a garbage can!). How much better to close the mouth and guard very carefully that which comes out!
(Pro 18:13) He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.
(Jas 1:19) Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
(Pro 29:20) Seest thou a man that is hasty in his words? there is more hope of a fool than of him.
When it comes to talk, a good rule to follow is this: WEIGH IT BEFORE YOU SAY IT! (Think before you speak!) If after weighing your words, you determine that what you are about to say is true, kind, necessary and helpful, then say it. Remember, once the words go forth, you can never bring them back!
The Power Of Words To Hurt And To Heal
Have you ever heard the expression: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." Is this really true? Of course words will not break your bones or hurt you in a physical way, but can words really harm and hurt a person? Let’s see what the book of Proverbs says.
What damage can words do according to Proverbs 11:9? __destroy___________________
(Pro 11:9) An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.
According to Proverbs 11:11? ___city is overthrown_____________________
(Pro 11:11) By the blessing of the upright the city is exalted: but it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked.
Do you think you would be hurt if someone pierced you with a sword? _Yes___ Can the wrong kind of words hurt a person (Proverbs 12:18)? __yes_ (It’s possible for a person to speak daggers!)
(Pro 12:18) There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.
Who is the person who has destruction and comes to ruin (Proverbs 13:3)? ___One that opens his mouth.___
(Pro 13:3) He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
What causes a fool to be destroyed and trapped (Proverbs 18:7)? ___Mouth and lips_________
(Pro 18:7) A fool's mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul.
Not only can words harm and hurt, but they can also help and heal. "The tongue of the wise is _health___ (healing)" (Proverbs 12:18). "A wholesome tongue is a __tree___ of __life_ " (Proverbs 15:4), and this tree brings forth good and healthy fruit! "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, _sweet___ to the soul, and __health________ to the bones" (Proverbs 16:24)! As honey is to the taste, so good words are to the ears and to the soul! "The lips of the righteous _feed_ many" (Proverbs 10:21). The lips of the unrighteous constantly bring forth GARBAGE, and who would want to feed on garbage? But the words that come forth from righteous lips are healthy and wholesome and good for the soul!
(Pro 15:4) A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit.
(Pro 16:24) Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.
(Pro 10:21) The lips of the righteous feed many: but fools die for want of wisdom.
Can you think of any time in your life when you have been helped and strengthened by someone’s words? Have you ever been encouraged or cheered up by someone’s words? Have the words of concerned people ever kept you out of trouble?
How can a person keep his life according to Proverbs 13:3? __by keeping his mouth______
(Pro 13:3) He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
How can a person keep his soul from troubles (Proverbs 21:23)? _Keeping his mouth and tongue.__
(Pro 21:23) Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
Every believer needs to guard his mouth. It is like the gates of a city. If the gates are well guarded, the city is safe!
Prayers for the believer:
• (Psa 141:3) Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.
• (Psa 19:14) Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
Words are very powerful, whether for good or for evil. May God help us to use the powerful weapon of words for Him!
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