WINTER 2018 ISSUE

WINTER 2018 ISSUE

How to Deal with Snow Days Family-Friendly Winter Walks #REALTALK: Kids' Birthday Parties PLUS: Snow Photos!

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Volume 38, No. 1, 2018

INSIDE THIS ISSUE

ASK AN EXPERT Winter Eczema Help............................. 6

HOW TO DEAL Snow Days........................................... 9

Expanding Your Family....................... 10

#REALTALK Kids' Birthday Parties......................... 11

This is Not the Childhood I Knew-- and That's a Good Thing.................... 13

SAY CHEESE Let It Snow........................................ 12

FEATURES Family-Friendly Trails to Explore this Winter........................ 16

Your Map to Finding Your Chicago Public School........................ 17

Let It Be: Thoughts on Contentment vs. Happiness................ 18

New Year, New You: Moving Your Family Toward Change............... 20

How to Survive (and Even Enjoy) the January Purge.............................. 23

Best Play Spaces to Beat the Snowpocalypse............................ 24

Ready to Learn: Family Engagement's Role in School............. 26

From the Executive Director

Dear Members,

For some reason, winter always surprises me. It comes every year, yet when it does I'm scrambling to find matching mittens (then getting to the point where just two mittens, any two mittens, will do!), hats, and warm clothes. It's a process that is made even more difficult now that my daughter picks out her own clothes in the morning--meaning, I really need to clear out summer options from her drawers and closet to avoid having to attempt to logically explain to a 6-year-old why she can't wear a summer dress and capri pants to school on a 30-degree day...which makes me think I can really use the advice in this issue on embracing the January purge!

Also in this issue are tips from two NPN parents on finding the best CPS path for your child and your family. Thinking back to last winter, this was the time of year that my family was going through the CPS testing process with our oldest as she approached kindergarten. I felt lucky to be a part of NPN at that time, and took advantage of all of our resources and parent-to-parent feedback, as others were in the same boat. We ultimately found a school that's been a great fit for my daughter and our family--but we know that high school is right around the corner (and academic centers even earlier than that!). Thinking about long-term goals, as our parent-authors suggest, helps to keep it all in perspective.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth Knutson, Executive Director

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"I would say no matter the age, if your child is interested, go for it. Why not start teaching them some money management?"

"We started our son when he was 5. We give him $5/week. Of that, $1 he gives back to me to give to charity, and $1 goes in his piggy bank. The remaining $3 goes in his wallet, which he can do with as he pleases."

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"There's a book called The Opposite of Spoiled that has some great ideas for teaching kids about money."

"We just started this with our 8-year-old and twin 5-year-olds. Oldest gets $5/week and twins $3/week. They have to do `special chores' other than things we expect them to do daily. For example, oldest walks the dog and picks all the mulch out of grass. My daughter has to clear out the van of all water bottles, garbage, etc."

MEMBER SP TLIGHT

Samantha Goodman, NPN member since 2015 Co-Chair of the Moms Book Club

What are your favorite NPN events and why? When my baby was young, I loved my New Moms Group; it was a real lifeline during such a confusing and exciting time. Now I love the Moms Book Club, of course! We have great discussions and polite disagreements and a lot of fun talking about books, as well as our kids.

What is the best advice you'd give to new parents? Not every decision requires hours of online research. Instead, spend that time relaxing or doing something that you love.

What's the best thing about caring for toddlers in the winter? What's the worst? The best is more time for snuggles on the couch, making crafts or baking in the kitchen. The worst is getting out the door! So many layers and accessories are needed to keep everyone warm.

What's the funniest thing your kid has done in recent memory? My son is 2 and likes to run around the house wearing my husband's (clean) undies on his head like a hat.

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ASK AN EXPERT WINTER ECZEMA HELP Payal Patel, NPN member since 2014

STICK TO SOAPS, MOISTURIZERS, AND DETERGENTS THAT DO NOT CONTAIN FRAGRANCES OR PERFUMES.

As if winter didn't present enough challenges, it's tough on sensitive skin -- especially the 10 to 20 percent of children affected with eczema, also known as atopic dermatitis. It is an inflammatory skin condition that often causes severe itching and red, scaly rashes, and for many children, the winter season only makes it worse. The cold, dry air makes it harder to retain moisture in the skin. Keeping the heat turned up in the home can also make the air that much drier. Additionally, bundling up in coarse wool clothing can leave the skin very irritated and itchy.

Following the tips below will ensure a great starting point in getting through winter comfortably.

Daily soaking baths Take a 10-15 minute lukewarm soaking bath every day. This helps replenish water back into the skin. Bring toys, play games, make it fun! This will ensure kids will get as much soaking time as possible.

Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize After each soaking bath, gently pat dry the skin and apply a thick layer of moisturizer onto the skin. The key is to lock that replenished water into the skin and prevent it from evaporating. This is best done by applying the moisturizer within 3 minutes of getting out of the bath, and using thick emollients. The preferred agents for very dry skin are ointment-based moisturizers.

Fragrance-free products Children with eczema often have very sensitive skin. Stick to soaps, moisturizers, and detergents that do not contain fragrances or perfumes.

Comfortable clothing Try to avoid direct skin contact with rough articles of clothing such as wool-based sweaters. These are known to irritate the skin even more.

Photo courtesy Payal Patel

Identifying triggers Various allergies are known to trigger or worsen eczema. These include pollens, dust mites, animal dander, and molds. Even foods can make eczema flare up. Each child has different triggers so it is important to identify what triggers your child's eczema by talking to your child's healthcare provider.

The good news is that most kids will grow out of their eczema as they get older. Although there is no way to determine who will retain their eczema into adulthood, these tips will provide a solid foundation to achieving good skin care for the cold winter months.

Payal Patel is a board-certified Pediatric Allergy physician practicing in Lakeview. She lives in Southport Corridor with her husband, Anil; their two daughters, Sejal and Priyanka; and their dog Fraggle. As a recent transplant to Chicago, she enjoys exploring all of the wonderful things that the city has to offer, and dedicating every Sunday to the Bears!

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