PRELIMINARY PREMARITAL QUIZ:



PRELIMINARY PREMARITAL ASSESSMENT:



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1. My fiancé gives me immediate access into his or her life. In other words, I never have to struggle to find out what he or she is thinking.

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2. I have nothing in my past that will negatively impact my marriage.

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3. My fiancé has habits I don’t like.

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4. I can share positive and negative feelings with my fiancé.

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5. We already have some strong disagreements that never seem to get resolved.

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6. I have mental illness in my family line.

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7. We have similar styles of spending and saving.

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8. Furthering my education is very important to me.

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9. I immediately want to have kids.

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10. I sometimes feel pressured to participate in activities my fiancé enjoys.

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11. I believe I can change my fiancé likes and dislikes.

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12. I believe I can change my fiancé’s habits.

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13. I have an “easy going relationship” with my future “in-laws.”

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14. I have problems with my fiancé siblings.

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15. I realize that I will never be able to break, leave, or divorce myself from this covenanted relationship I am making before the Lord.

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16. I am looking very forward to sexual intimacy.

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17. I am very satisfied with the amount of affection I receive.

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18. I find myself competing with my fiance’s best friends for “quality time.”

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19. I treasure my fiancé s closest friends; I don’t find them to be a threat but a pleasure.

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20. I already have some concerns about the parenting skills of my fiancé.

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21. We have already decided how we are going to share household duties.

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22. Sometimes I find myself angry with my fiancé for several days.

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23. Sometimes I want to punish my spouse emotionally when I believe I have been wronged, misrepresented, or hear something painful.

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24. I have a biblical understanding of what love is.

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25. There is some debt I have not told my fiancé about.

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26. I have a problem with masturbation.

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27. I have a problem with alcohol.

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28. I have a problem with drugs, whether prescription or non-prescription.

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29. I have had a problem with sexual addiction in my past.

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29. I know the major biblical and theological positions of my spouse.

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30. We often talk about spiritual things.

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31. I have little or no disagreements about his biblical and theological views.

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32. We plan to worship and pro-actively serve as a member in the same local church.

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33. I often reflect how I can exemplify the characteristics of Jesus Christ in my personal life.

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34. I can honestly say that Jesus Christ is my “first” love.

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35. If you were to look at my Bible you can tell that I love God’s Word.

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36. I am regularly excited about the opportunity to study God’s Word on a daily basis.

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37. We consistently talk about our relationship with Jesus Christ.

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38. I regularly pray with my fiancé.

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39. I am willing to let go of my personal goals and plans if my fiancé does not support them and with no resentment towards him or her.

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40. I know exactly how my spouse wants to be loved.

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41. I am truly excited about loving my spouse the way he or she wants to be loved.

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42 I recognize that my singular ambition in life is to magnify Jesus Christ by loving God in my thoughts, activities, and pouring my life into others.

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43 I do not exaggerate in my daily conversations.

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44 I can honestly say that I do not lie.

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45. I like to be the center of attention.

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46. I’ve never been sexually molested.

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47. I’ve never been addicted to internet pornography.

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48. Past regrets don’t haunt me.

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49 I know what it means to be forgiven by the Lord.

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50. Happiness is a daily choice.

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51. I truly know my fiance’s temperament.

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52. My fiancé often nags me.

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53. My fiancé has a tendency to manipulate me into doing things I would not otherwise do.

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54. We will share every financial account, whether savings, checkings, or/and investments.

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55. We will never have a separate checking and/or savings account.

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56. I honestly realize I can’t change anything about my spouse.

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57. I like being in charge of the relationship.

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58. I tend to “go along” to “get along.”

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59. I easily get bored.

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60. I am pro-actively willing to set aside my dreams to fulfill the needs and desires of my future spouse.

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61. I am happy with my life right now.

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62. I’ve come to terms with my past.

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63. I find significance in what others think about me.

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64. I have a great relationship with my mom.

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65. I have great relationship with my dad.

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66. I am a good and thoughtful listener.

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67. I know joy.

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68. I have fulfilled every personal goal except for being married.

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69. I presently anticipate and exceed in meeting the needs of my fiancé.

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70. I tend to complain.

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71. It matters very much to me where we live.

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72. I love to entertain friends in my home.

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73. I want a big house when I have children.

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74. I rarely have people over my house.

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75. I struggle with jealousy.

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76. I tend to be envious of the success of my siblings, friends, or neighbors.

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77. Before God I realize that divorce is never an option.

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78. It is easy for me to forgive others.

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79. I tend to be victim of unfortunate circumstances.

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80. I love to spend money.

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81. I know how to clean my home.

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82. I love to cook and now how to cook.

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83. People think I am a messy person.

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84. Managing my household is going to be easy.

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85. I can’t wait till I am a homemaker and don’t have to work.

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86. Being a stay-at-home mom is something I can’t wait to do.

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87. My spouse really wants me to work even if we don’t have kids.

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88. My spouse wants me to work even after we have kids.

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89. I want to work even after I have kids.

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90. I am very willing to stay at home when I have kids even if that means that I must live modestly, have a smaller home, and never get the things I have always wanted.

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91. I like my personal things to be left alone.

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92. I have struggled with lesbianism or homosexuality in my past.

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93. People say that I tend to be a private person.

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94. I get “emotionally drained” when I am with other people.

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95. When I am arguing I know how to choose words carefully.

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96. I am personally offended when people disagree with me.

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97. I give the silent treatment when I am angry and/or hurt.

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98. I would rather pretend to agree rather than push an issue to avoid an argument.

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99. My parents provided me a good example of marriage.

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100. I like my home to be perfect.

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101. I have little difficulty expressing my love to others.

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102. I love indoor pets.

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103. I am willing to spend money first then deal with my consequences later.

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104. It is easy for me to love my fiancé the way he or she wants to be loved.

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105. If my circumstances were to never change I can honestly say I know “contentment.”

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106. People tend to say that I am a good listener.

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107. I am committed to moral purity (celibacy) with my fiancé until after we get married.

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108. My fiancé often embarrasses me.

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109. Are you happiest when you are with your fiance’s family.

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110. It is easy for me to forgive others.

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111. I struggle with resentment.

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112. I tend to be fearful.

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113. My best friend is a member of the opposite sex and my fiancé is okay with that.

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114. My best friend is jealous about my relationship with my fiancé.

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115. I can share everything with my fiancé.

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116. I have to hide “secrets” from my fiancé.

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117. I like to talk about my personal problems.

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118. I am always looking for a way to fix my fiancé s problems.

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119. I know when to “shut up.”

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120. I understand how my fiancé defines spiritual maturity.

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