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How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You
Leil Lowndes
CONTEMPORARY BOOKS A TRIBUNE COMPANY
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Lowndes, Leil.
How to make anyone fall in love with you / Leil Lowndes.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 0-8092-3211-1
1. Love. 2. Man-woman relationships. 3. Intimacy
(Psychology) 4. Sexual excitement. I. Title.
HQ801.L69 1996
306.7--dc20
96-14502
CIP
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Jacket design by Scott Rattray Interior design by Mary Lockwood
Excerpt from Obsession: Copyright ? 1995 by Debra McCarthy-Anderson and Carol Bruce-Thomas. All rights reserved. Reproduced with the permission of the publisher, Harlequin Books S.A.
Copyright ? 1996 by Leil Lowndes All rights reserved Published by Contemporary Books An imprint of NTC/Contemporary Publishing Company Two Prudential Plaza, Chicago, Illinois 60601-6790 Manufactured in the United States of America International Standard Book Number: 0-8092-3211-1 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
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To fulfill the promise of the title, How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You offers 85 techniques based on scientific studies into the nature of romantic love.
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CONTENTS
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Anyone? Yes, Practically Anyone
Science "Discovers" Sex
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How More Research Was Compiled
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How the Techniques Were Developed
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How I Tested the Techniques
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What Makes People Fall in Love? The Six Elements
What Makes People Fall in Love? The Six Elements
I. First Impressions II. Similar Character, Complementary Needs III. Equity IV. Ego V. Early-Date Gender-Menders VI. Rx for Sex
3 The Physical Side of Falling in Love
"Why Do My Insides Go All Funny?" "Does Somebody Have to Be Pea-Brained to Fall in Love with Me?" "Why Do We Fall in Love with One Person and Not Another?" "How Can These Little Things Start Love?"
4 Where Are All the Good Men and Women?
Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places
5 Does Love at First Sight Exist? Part One: First Impressions You Never Get a Second Chance at Love at First Sight 6 How to Make a Dynamite First Impression
First Impressions Last Forever
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First Impressions Last Forever
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Be Ready for Love--Always!
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Stay Psychologically "Fit to Kill"
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How to Ignite Love at First Sight
How Much Eye Contact Does It Take to Imitate Love?
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How to Get Sexy "Bedroom Eyes"
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How to Awaken Primal, Unsettling, Sexy Feelings in Your Quarry
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Naughty Eyes Are So Nice
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Your First Approach
The Gentle Art of Pickup (Not for Men Only)
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Hunters, Make the First Move . . . Fast
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Huntresses, Make the Fast Move . . . First
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First Moves That Work for Women
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Your First Body Language
Let Your Body Do the Talking
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When You Are Quarry
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The Word That Can Save Your Relationship
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"But This Is So Basic!"
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Your First Conversation
Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together
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Conversation Is Like Making Love
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Conversation Is Like Making Love Conversation Is Like Selling How to Know What Topics Turn Your Quarry On
How to Fool Your Quarry into Thinking You Two Are Already in Love Get Even Closer by Giving the Gift of Intimacy Make Your Lifestyle "Fit" Your Quarry's Lovemap
11 Your First Date
The Game Begins in Earnest "How Soon Should I Make My Move?" "Playing Hard to Get--Should I, or Shouldn't I?" The Scientifically Proved Best First Date Give Your Quarry First-Date Butterflies Plant the Seeds of Similarity First-Date Restaurant Smarts Hunters, Some Spit and Polish for Your P's and Q's Huntresses, Forgive His Foibles First-Date Duds "I Haven't Got a Thing to Wear"
Part Two: Similar Character, Complementary Needs I Want a Lover Just Like Dear Old Me (Well, Almost)!
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Want a Lover Just Like Dear Old Me (Well, Almost)! 12 "It's You and Me, Baby, Alone Against This Mad, Mad World"
Similarity . . . and a Touch of Difference (Just a Touch)
13 How to Establish Subconscious Similarity
How to Instantly Make Your Quarry Feel, "Why, We're Just Alike!" Words to Give Your Quarry "That Family Feeling" "We Even Speak the Same (Body) Language"
14 How to Establish Conscious Similarity
The Three Crucial Conscious Similarities Let's Talk About Our Relationship--Not!
15 How to Establish Complementary Needs
"I Got Just What You Need, Baby"
Part Three: Ego How Do You Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways 16 The World Revolves Around You, My Quarry
Ego Massage Is a Highly Skilled Craft
17 Step One: Silent Praise
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Step One: Silent Praise
Let Your Body Do the Praising
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Step Two: Empathy
"I Can Identify with That!"
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Lovers Share Intimate Details
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Lovers Have Private Jokes
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Step Three: Admiration
"Oh Honey, You Did an Absolutely Superb Job Slicing These
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Mushrooms"
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Step Four: The Implied Compliment
"You're Much Too Young to Remember This, But . . ."
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The Bull's-Eye Booster: "I Just Love What You Like About Yourself"
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Step Five: The Big Guns
"You Are the Most Fascinating Person I've Ever Met"
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"What Does Giving a Killer Compliment Do for Me?"
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Fine-Tuning the Ego Machine
"Wait a Minute. Does Everybody Like Compliments?"
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Knee-Jerk Praise: "What You Just Did Was Fabulous"
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Have the First Laugh
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Lovers Give Each Other Pet Names
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When Your Quarry Praises You
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23 Keeping the Love Coals Warm
"I Love the Way You Wrinkle Your Nose When You Laugh"
Part Four: Equity The WIIFM Principle of Love (What's in It for Me?) 24 Everybody's Got a Market Value, Baby
Why Is Finding Love Like Horse Trading?
What Currency "Buys" a Good Partner?
25 How Can I Use the Equity Principle to Find Love?
You Really Don't Want to Marry the Handsome Prince or the Beautiful Princess
"Why Don't I Want to Marry Up?
"What Happens if Inequity Strikes After We're Married?"
26 How Important Are Looks?
What Type of Looks Do Women Like?
What Type of Looks Do Men Like?
"How Can I Make My Quarry Think I'm Better Looking?"
How to Beef Up Your Odds on Making the Kill
27 Pursuing Rich and Famous Prey
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