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Are You HIS Type?

Find out How Men Really See You... ...and What You Need to Do to Attract Your Perfect Man!

There are four archetypal women who roam the dating and relationship jungle.

Which type are you?

Take the following short quiz to see what TYPE of woman you are and understand why you keep attracting the same guy with a different face, again and again, and keep getting the same bad results. Once you discover your type, you can then understand what it will take to experience a powerful, intimate relationship with a quality guy.

Review each belief statement below and indicate, on a scale of one to five, which thought/belief best describes your thinking most accurately when you get triggered by a dating disappointment.

5 = This is always true for me. 4 = This is often true for me. 3 = This is somewhat true for me.

2 = This is rarely true for me. 1 = This is never true for me.

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____ "Men are intimidated by me."

Section 1

____ "Most men aren't attracted to successful women."

____ "I'm so done playing games."

____ "This is not worth the trouble."

____ "Dating is a waste of time. Does he really think I would go out with him?"

____ "I'm accomplished, and that's what is important."

____ "It's all good or all bad. He's in or he's out. I need to know where I stand. There really is no in between."

____ "If I allow myself to be vulnerable, I put myself in a position of weakness--and that will get me nowhere."

____ "He's got so much potential."

Section 2

____ "I'm going to give him a second chance. After all, he's SOOO much better than any guy I have ever dated before."

____ "Why are guys always interested in being my friend?"

____ "Why do guys always ask me for advice about the girls they're dating?"

____ "Guys never give back what I put forth."

____ "Why do I always date men who aren't that into me? I feel like I'm the one who does all the work."

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Section 3

____ "You only live once! I'm just living in the moment, for the moment."

____ "I just keep getting humiliated by men and making bad choices."

____ "Ugh...why did I do that?" ____ "All guys are going to hurt me anyway, so why bother getting

attached?" ____ "No one really cares anyway." ____ "I've done a lot of bad things and made a lot of mistakes." ____ "I still feel like crying when I think about that..." ____ "I'm embarrassed about my past."

Section 4

____ "I have to protect myself. I'll never go through that again." ____ "I don't think I can survive another break-up." ____ "I'll never let that hurt/pain/disappointment happen again." ____ "Men can't be trusted." ____ "They all say that, don't they?" ____ "I'm picky--really picky." ____ "I don't want to appear too needy. That's not attractive at

all." ____ "How could I have been so stupid/na?ve/gullible?" ____ "I'm so loving, I have so much to give...but every time, I end

up getting hurt because of it."

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Section 5

____ "Dating is a wonderful opportunity, and the purpose is to live and experience it all without judgment."

____ "I don't see things as good or bad; things just are." ____ "There is no need to control my life; I'm comfortable with how

things naturally seem to unfold." ____ "I always trust my intuition over facts." ____ "There is power in partnership; together we can create miracles, even if we're not necessarily a good match." ____ "The dating game cannot be won or lost, only played." ____ "No matter what appears to be, it's always a win for me." ____ "Everything always works out perfectly for my highest good." ____ "I continue to learn more about who I am and what life is

about." ____ "I am connected to a Universal source, even when I initially

get disappointed." ____ "Success in dating and relationships comes from within, and it's

always up to me to feel successful." ____ "I continually get better and better; the past doesn't define

who I am, and I don't react based on my past experiences."

Add up your scores and enter them below.

____- Section 1

____- Section 2

____- Section 3

____- Section 4

____- Section 5

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How did you rank? Which section above received the highest score?

If you ranked highest in Section 1, go to page 6. If you ranked highest in Section 2, go to page 9. If you ranked highest in Section 3, go to page 12. If you ranked highest in Section 4, go to page 15. If you ranked highest in Section 5, go to page 18. Go to the relevant page to find out your DATING ARCHETYPE. Next, learn more about the dating behaviors, beliefs, and mistakes your archetype makes; how it serves you; how it doesn't serve you; and what you need to do to next to get to attract a quality man and find love now.

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Section 1: Tough Girl

If your highest score was Section 1, your ARCHETYPE IS THE TOUGH GIRL. Here's what you can learn about yourself and how it's holding you back from finding love now with a quality, alpha male.

Your Beliefs

Many Tough Girls are "black-and-white" thinkers, judging everything, everyone, and every experience as either good or bad. Tough Girls can be perceived as aloof or as women who like to "play games." Many are workaholics and subscribe to the idea that "If men don't like me the way I am, then it's their loss." They may hear that they are "intimidating" to men. They often say that men who are attracted to them are "not [my] type." The Tough Girl will wonder, silently to herself, "Why have I been successful at everything but dating?"

How This Belief Serves You

You get to feel safe, and you are "right" about everything related to dating and relationship. (For example, dating IS hard. There ARE no good men in my town.) You stay in control. You get to tell the world that you're "trying" and that the circumstances beyond your control are what's keeping you stuck. You feel good at work; it's where you feel like you're in control. So being busy at work is a great reason to isolate, not have "time" to date, but get credit for trying. Men never live up to your expectations, so you will never be rejected, disappointed or heartbroken.

The Dating with Dignity Principle You Lose Sight Of

Femininity is vulnerability. There is no need to control my life. Things are unfolding perfectly for me, and I am safe.

The Consequences of Holding On to This Belief

You will continue to attract men who are not your "type," and you will be at risk for missing out on the good guys. You may convince

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yourself that you don't have to "settle." But in reality, you're simply keeping a wall around you that prevents you not only from connecting with men but from feeling connected in other areas of your life as well. Finally, you may suffer from exhaustion and burnout, waking up one day to realize that "work won't ever love you back."

Your Goal

Take off the "boxing gloves" and turn on your femininity.

What Interferes with Your Goal

Fear of getting hurt. Fear of being out of control. Fear of having to give up your safety and independence if a man is in your life. Looking for evidence in your life, the media and other outside sources that you are "right" about all your beliefs pertaining to men, dating, relationships, femininity, and love.

Next Steps

Take a few minutes to journal on one of the three belief statements below that most resonates with you, noticing how the past is impacting your present dating results. Where did you first learn this belief? How is it keeping you safe? What would it take to leave this belief in the past? Make a decision to leave the past in the past.

1. Being vulnerable equals being helpless. 2. Feminine equals weak. 3. I need to protect myself or I will get taken advantage of.

Something you're doing is repelling the very men you're trying to attract. Here's how to find out exactly what that "something" is...

Take our proven, effective, D-Factor Date-Ability Assessment so that:

You STOP repelling awesome, relationship-ready men with critical dating mistakes you don't even know you're making

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and START drawing these great men toward you like a giant magnet. You have the skills and dating know-how to get the sexy, successful, and available men you want to adore you and fall in love with you to become addicted to you and want to commit to you. The D-Factor Assessment is the Number 1 Tool in the Entire DWD Arsenal. The VIP program with the highest demand (by far) and a success rate that is "stupidly high," the D-Factor is proven science. A shockingly high percentage of the women who take it go from being un-dateable to ENGAGED. After you take the D-Factor, one of our private coaches will go over your results with you. You will discover the exact things you do, say, and think that literally repel men and contribute to your lackluster love life. AND you'll find out what you can do: the exact steps you need to take to find love now. To learn how you can change your beliefs and leave the Tough Girl Archetype behind, click here to take our proven effective D-Factor, Date-Ability Assessment.

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