So Who Do You Say That I Am - Warren Lynn
So Who Do You Say That I Am?
The Dilemma of Pastoral Expectations
The Rev. W. Darwin Collins
Jesus’ question to the disciples of “who do you say that I am” sought to break the code of silence surrounding personal expectations. The response to Jesus’ question revealed a wide range of thoughts, finally revealing the hopes and dreams of the disciples that he really was the messiah, the Christ.
I pray that no one holds such a similarly high expectation of present ministers called into Christ’s ministry, but at times, I do wonder. Everyone has expectations about the pastor, but seldom do they speak them until a problem arises and they become an avalanche of complaints and disappointments.
Expectations can serve a positive function as a motivation to reach beyond our present comforts and abilities. They become problematic when they are secretly held and not communicated with one another in the church. For pastors, expectations arise from three primary sources: the congregation, the wider church, and personally.
The expectations of the congregation for their pastor give occasion for most of the public and volatile problems. What formally was referred to as the honeymoon period seems now to have become the period of probation when a new pastor is given time to see if she can discover what the lay leaders recognize as the real needs of the minister. These commonly are: to build a vital youth group or children’s ministry, to bring in young families, to challenge the members for more financial support (in a non-threatening way), and to care for the needs of every member so as to keep them happy.
The wider church holds some other expectations, namely of a personal code of ethics that will enable ministry and sharing of God’s love, rather than manipulation and abuse that detract from that same love. Regions and the general church partners expect a desire to be knowledgeable about and participate in the ministry and mission of the wider church. Maintaining standing requires certain clearly defined expectations that differ by region, but include spiritual growth, educational advancement and a commitment to becoming anti-racist leaders within the church. These wider church expectations generally are the most clearly defined in policies by the General Commission on Ministry and regional commissions on ministry.
Perhaps the most problematic, since they remain a constant in a pastor’s life are the personal expectations a pastor develops for himself. These expectations do differ with each individual, but they are powerful. They develop over years of dreams and hopes for what she may accomplish for God and Christ in her ministry. They are formed by our impressions of heroes and heroines in ministry. Often they are unrealistic images of ideals with shortcomings filtered through memories. Like many of those expectations held by congregations, these personal expectations are seldom spoken, lest the pastor be embarrassed by sounding ambitious or boastful.
Opportunities are available to discuss these often hidden expectations through the search committee, pastoral relations committee, elders, regional staff or colleagues. They need to be spoken clearly and discussed to become blessings, not land mines.
A healthy and vital ministry for pastors, congregations and the wider church requires a willingness to join with Jesus in boldly asking the questions of each other, “So who do you say that I am … or expect me to be?”
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