Past History
Question List Table of Contents
1. Past History
2. Family Background
3. Relationships
4. Spiritual Profile
5. Emotional Profile
6. Intellectual Profile
7. Physical Profile
8. Future Aspirations
9. Money Perspectives
10. Random Facts
Reasons for this List:
1. To understand better who I am
I also took the Tickle Tests to this end. Socrates advice to "know thyself" is still applicable today. There are great advantages to knowing yourself well; it is often considered a mark of maturity.
2. To gain a better understanding of relationships
(a) In general
Knowing such topics gives me a good idea of overall how well I know another person. The depth of the questions our conversation consists of might also indicate this level. It is a form of brainstorming questions to ask to get to know someone. I am fairly awkward in social situations. For those P&P fans, it is my attempt to prepare even before I "practice" as Lizzy instructs Darcy to do (hey, I'm an engineer, what can I say?-take comfort, unlike Mr. Collins I have not prepared a list of compliments!).
(b) As regards a courting/dating relationship
The more objective measure of how many of these I could answer about someone prevents my heart from getting way ahead of where the relationship is. It also gives me a reference to remember all those facts about "the lady" I would forget otherwise (I know, how unromantic-but I know my own weakness).
(d) As regards those I am specifically ministering to
Well, other than the general comments, knowing these things can help me know how I am uniquely suited to ministering to someone. It also allows me to be aware of my weaknesses so that I do not leave them out to dry in some area.
3. As a tool for those who read it to use if they desire
I hope some of you will use it for your own purposes, whether they are those reasons above, or for others.
I am certain there will be many more questions to add to this list, so I will update this list when the amount becomes substantial, but for now, this is it; it is a good start. If you have suggestions or comments, e-mail them to me!
Past History
What is your full name? Did you ever change it? Do you have any nicknames?
When is your birthday?
Where were you born?
Did you have a blanket or baby?
Did you suck your thumb for a long time?
What type of toys did you play with as a toddler/young kid?
What did your room look like when you was little?
What games did you play when you were little?
Were you ever home-schooled?
What elementary school did you go to? Did you like your teachers?
Were you more of an unruly schoolboy or teacher's pet?
Were you more of rough and tumble or fragile?
Did you ever go to camp? Where? Did you get homesick?
What sports have you played during your lifetime?
What clubs have you been involved in? Did you join many of them?
Did you ever play an instrument?
Did you watch a lot of movies/tv? What were your favorite shows?
Did you go to the mall or shop a lot?
What are events which affected you dramatically?
What was your high school experience like? Did you enjoy it? Do you have regrets?
What sort of jobs have you worked in? Did you like them or do it for money?
What were the chores you were good at?
Where have you been in the world? Do you like to travel?
What type of places did you grow up in? How well off was your family? How do you like to use your leisure time? How strong is your educational background? How do you feel about politics?
What is your major or occupation? Or what do you do for a living?
What was your most awkward moment in High School?
What type of friends do you generally hang out with?
What is your first memory?
Do you have a funny story?
Do you like telling stories?
Do you tell serious stories?
Family Background
What number child were you? How many siblings do you have? What are their names?
Do you like being the oldest, middle, youngest child?
How is your relationship with your parents? Do you act under their authority?
Was there a time when you lived without direct emotional support from your parents?
How connected are you with your parents? Do you keep up with them closely?
Are your parents more overprotective or aloof? What are some of your parents weaknesses?
When you interact with your parents, can you approach on an adult to adult basis?
How connected are you with your grandparents/extended family?
What was your favorite time spent with your mother/father/other members?
How are your relationships with her siblings? Do you fight much?
Relationships
Past Stuff
Did you have any crushes when you were little? Why did you like them?
What relationships have you been involved in? How serious were they?
Has you moved on? Were you hurt? How long has it been since the last one?
Have you been kissed?
How afraid are you of commitment?
Do you have good role models for a marriage relationship?
In general what are your motivations for getting in a relationship? Split into Intrinsic motives ("Who we are as a couple") Instrumental motives ("What other person can do for you")External motives ("Least personal, externally applied reasons for you to marry")
Are you in this relationship to be rebellious (are my or her parents against it)? Are you in the relationship to escape something? How lonely are you by yourself? Do you have significant influences saying "get in a relationship?"
General Views
How much have you thought about getting in a relationship?
Are you "needy"? Do you talk a lot about money matters/really look to be provided for?
Do I see her as lower both emotionally and psychologically/think she desperately need me?
How much am I focused on external appearances (herself or myself)? Do my feelings vary greatly based on her appearance?
How jealous am I? (Not a good thing)
How do I view the role of sex in a healthy relationship?
Do I give favors demanding that they are returned?
Do I try to rush the relationship?
Communication
How well do I communicate my feelings/thoughts (coherence/holding the train of thought)?
How committed am I to communicate things, especially problems?
How well do I listen? Do I always have to be right?
What do I do when things are not going my way/I do not get what I want?
Do I compliment people?
Future dreams
Do I have my wedding/ring/whatever picked out?
What is my idea of the ideal woman? What roles in movies/books epitomize them?
Do I believe in more of a fairy tale knight or have a realistic view of a wife?
What type of family do I want/how many kids?
Do I have baby names picked out?
Spiritual Profile
Past
What are my greatest strengths and weaknesses?
When and how did I become a Christian?
What are major reasons for why I believe? Have I taken time to work these out?
Are there any major milestones in my relationship with Christ that I note?
Am I involved with any sort of campus ministry/church/denomination in the area?
Present
Where am I in my walk? (May or may not help-How long have I walked with Christ?)
What is God working on in my life?
What does my relationship with Christ look like (what actions are visible?)
Do I insist on asserting my own independence vs. relying on Christ? (Control?)
Do I look to Christ in making decisions? Do I think for myself and make my own decisions about things?
Do I know how and have experience in leading a Bible study/other men?
Do I know how to be a good host?
Am I humble?
Do I have a servant heart?
What do I think my spiritual gifts are?
Do I complain much?
Do I struggle with lying?
Future
Where is God leading me?
What talents has God given me?
Emotional Profile
What are my greatest strengths and weaknesses?
Do I have large mood swings? Do I get upset about small things?
What makes me mad, sad, happy, joyful, peaceful, contented/satisfied?
Do I use my emotions to make decisions?
Am I "high maintenance" (i.e.: desire a lot of attention to how I am doing?)
What do I fear?
How easily do I adapt to change?
Intellectual Profile
What are my greatest strengths and weaknesses?
Do I use my logic to make decisions?
Do I look at life optimistically or negatively?
Do I use illustrations or arguments to define/express my ideas?
Do I like to discuss/debate more abstract ideas?
Am I "witty"?
Can I be spontaneous? Am I an initiator?
Am I very curious?
Physical Profile
How physically attractive am I? Describe yourself.
What are my greatest strengths and weaknesses?
Do I have a good smile that am I willing to use?
Blonde, brunette, black or redhead?
How much do I laugh?
Am I insecure about the way I look?
Have I ever broken any bones/had stitches/operations?
Am I generally athletic or less active?
What sports do you play?
Would I consider my hygiene good or bad? Am I more lazy or obsessive about it?
Do I go for endurance or for speed?
Do I have any major or chronic medical conditions?
What color palate fits my body type?
What size clothes do I wear?
How clean am I around the house?
Future Aspirations
Where do I think I will be in 10 years?
Career
What do I want to do in the short term and long term future?
What areas interest me? Why?
How set am I on that career path?
Lifestyle
Do I want to live outside the US?
What size town would I prefer to live in?
How would you describe your ideal home?
How luxurious vs. poverty stricken lifestyle will I be satisfied with?
Money Perspectives
Can I handle money matters? How much am I financially independent?
Am I in debt? If I am in debt, how much debt am I in, and why am I in it?
Am I in general a spender or a saver?
Do I tithe? Where does the money I donate go?
How many credit cards do I have?
What would you buy if you had 100, 1000, 100000, 1million dollars to spend/if won it?
Random Facts
What is my favorite color/book/author/movie/sport/hobby/restaurant? Why?
What is your favorite old tv show, lingerie, cartoon, ice cream, season of the year, day of the week, thing to do at beach, on rainy day, vacation type and spot, eye color in another person, movie quote, game to play, sports team, way to eat chicken, sound to make (with demo), word, food, dessert, candy, type of drink, kind of music, Olympic sport, Christmas/New Years tradition, type of firework, Disney Character?
Am I more of a realist/dreamer? Thinker/feeler? Introverted/extroverted?
Would I consider myself mostly sanguine, melancholy, choleric, or phlegmatic?
Who are my heroes?
Where am I the most ticklish?
What is "ideal weather" for me?
What type of weather do I dislike?
What are my political views?
What time of day do I thrive in?
What movie characters do you see yourself in?
Weirdest thing you have ever eaten?
If could change the mascots name, what would you name him?
If you could be any animal what would you be?
Dogs or cats?
What color best describes your personality and why?
Where would you want to go on vacation, if you could go anywhere?
What did you want to be when you grew up?
MOUNTAIN dew or mountain DEW?
What have you always dreamed of inventing?
What was your first pet, and its name?
Artist, singer or musician?
Deaf, blind, or mute?
Morning or even person?
Body odor or foot odor worse?
Mountains or the beach?
What is the worst injury you have ever had?
What do you call your grandparents?
Which character would you want at your side from the Wizard of Oz?
What is the best movie trilogy Indiana Jones, LOTR, Star Wars, Back to the Future?
If you could be named something else, would you and what name?
How often do you workout?
Which came first the chicken or the egg?
Why did the chicken cross the road?
Have you ever had a near death encounter?
Have you ever been in a play?
Who is your ideal prince charming from Disney, ideal princess from Disney movie?
Who are you closest to, your mom or your dad and why?
First thing you notice in the opposite sex (physical or personality wise?)
Ideal date person/place?
In what situation were you the most afraid?
Do you consider yourself a procrastinator or disciplined?
Most embarrassing moment?
What is your life motto and why?
Why did you come to Auburn?
What convinced you to choose your major?
What is your deepest darkest secret?
How did your last relationship end?
Describe the time when you first asked someone out?
What is the meaning of life?
Describe the first three things you want in your future spouse?
How do you choose your best friends?
What are you passionate about?
What is your most annoying quirk?
What do you think are your most annoying habit is?
................
................
In order to avoid copyright disputes, this page is only a partial summary.
To fulfill the demand for quickly locating and searching documents.
It is intelligent file search solution for home and business.
Related download
- new world beginnings 33 000b c a d 1769
- past history
- excerpts from animal farm 1946 by george orwell
- anglo saxon writing assignment
- history enhanced scope and sequence whi
- s6 y 11 modern history contestability of the past
- old testament quotations in paul s letters
- westward expansion manifest destiny dbq
- comparison of major contract types under secretary of
Related searches
- grade 11 history past papers
- past surgical history form
- the past is history quote
- aice us history past papers
- history igcse past papers
- past ap us history exams
- ap us history past frq
- ap us history past exams
- cie history past paper
- a level history past papers
- history kcse past papers
- past black history month themes