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Hello there! I'm Dominee, the err... hm... the Princess of Self Love! (I don't think I've quite worked my way up to Queen.) I am a huge advocate of self love. I want everyone to feel it. I want to wave my magic wand (... er... or would it be scepter?) and help you on your way to having a massive amount of love and respect for who you are right now. You deserve it.

You absolutely, totally, and completely deserve to look in the mirror love what you see. So the big question!

What is self love? Self Love is an easy concept: Loving exactly who you are, where you are, in every way. Your body, your spirit, your mind, everything. You let yourself see the beautiful, sparkly, shiny light that is you. You have high self-esteem, you feel good about who you are, and you love your body in all of its imperfect glory.

That's a tall order, huh?

It's hard to love everything. It's hard to move past the mistakes you've made in the past, the way others have treated you or perceived you, the physical imperfections that you see every day in the mirror. It's possible. I promise. When your life is lacking self love you'll see a whole host of problems in your life. Maybe you feel like a doormat because everyone treats you badly and takes advantage of you. Maybe you feel lonely and isolated because you don't let anyone get close to you. You might suffer from body image issues, hating what you see and what your body

looks like, or maybe your self-esteem is so low that you are hard pressed to like anything about yourself.

The first step to fixing all of those things, and believe me, it's like the first step in a long path of many steps, is wanting to change, to make your life different. You have to believe that you're worth the effort and that you deserve to be happy. Sometimes it's a really hard path. It's surprising how hard it is to stay positive, and to love yourself when it doesn't come naturally. Here are 26 steps to help you on your way.

Accept everything about yourself.

Right now, I could tell you that you should love and accept yourself just how you are, and that's true to some extent. You are deserving of love just as you are in this moment, no matter how flawed or broken you perceive yourself to be.

Look at yourself and look at your life and ask yourself: What's stopping you from accepting yourself right now?

Sit with that answer and feel it out. If there's something that you don't love about yourself, accept that it's part of you but also accept that you have the power to change it. Accept exactly who, and how, you are, but also be willing and open to changing those things that need changed.

All of the power lies within you.

Boundaries are something that you need.

It is okay to tell people "no". It is okay to stand up for yourself and speak out when someone is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated.

Sometimes in life we come across people who push our boundaries, or make us wish that we had boundaries to begin with. You know the ones, the ones that we allow to put us down because we don't want to be confrontational or cause problems. The ones that say or do things that rub us the wrong way and make us feel uncomfortable. Who take from us without giving back and make us feel used. We all know someone like that. You might let it go, you might make excuses, even justify it and blame yourself, but there's something that you ought to know:

No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable in your own skin.

Make boundaries and stick to them.

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