Early Signs of a Toxic Relationship

[Pages:2]Early Signs of a Toxic Relationship

WARM-UP

1. Discuss the following quote in pairs or small groups. "People should fall in love with their eyes closed." ? Andy Warhol a. What does it mean? b. Do you agree or disagree with it? c. Have you ever experienced something similar? 2. Watch the first part of the video (up to 01.00') and check if you were right.

LISTENING

3. In pairs, discuss: a. What is a healthy relationship? And a toxic one? b. How do you know that you are in a toxic relationship?

4. Watch the video and check if your answers are mentioned. 5. Watch the video again and make notes about the seven signs.

a. Sign 1: b. Sign 2: c. Sign 3: d. Sign 4: e. Sign 5: f. Sign 6: g. Sign 7: 6. Watch the video and answer the questions below: a. How do you know when someone has not got over their ex? b. Why is it important to get over someone before entering a relationship again? c. Why is honesty important in a relationship? d. Is it necessary to always say the truth? e. What is "love bombing"? f. What is "frequent monitoring"? g. How do you know if your partner is being possessive? h. Why do toxic people isolate their partners? i. What is the "hot and cold" technique? j. Is fighting in a relationship normal?

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Comentado [AEP1]: They carry an ex-baggage.

Comentado [AEP2]: Constant lies.

Comentado [AEP3]: Love bombs you.

Comentado [AEP4]: Frequent monitoring.

Comentado [AEP5]: Isolation.

Comentado [AEP6]: Hot and cold method.

Comentado [AEP7]: Constantly starting over.

Comentado [AEP8]: "If you find yourself constantly consoling your partner as they mourn over their ex, then it's a sign they haven't moved on yet."

Comentado [AEP9]: "They need time to grieve and heal over the loss of their ex before they are ready to enter a relationship again. But when you're in love, it's easy to get hopeful and become blind to the fact that your partner isn't emotionally invested in you when their heart still belongs elsewhere. Ultimately, you'll end up being the one getting hurt."

Comentado [AEP10]: "A healthy relationship is built on honesty, understanding, and open communication, but your partner is only holding you back from going in that direct, but they choose not to tell you their true feelings and intentions."

Comentado [AEP11]: "There's no harm in telling an occasional white lie if it comes from a selfless place. But if you find your partner constantly telling you lies even over small matters, then it's time to re-evaluate how much you can trust them."

Comentado [AEP12]: "Love bombing is a technique that emotional manipulators use to get what they want. It involves offering you intense attention and bombarding you with many compliments."

Comentado [AEP13]: "Checking in is important to make sure you and your partner are on the same page, but if your partner is constantly bugging you, then they are stepping over the line and invading your sense of privacy."

Comentado [AEP14]: "If you always feel like you need

to ask for permission before attending events with

friends or to hang out with family, then your partner

may be possessive.

Although it's sweet if your partner is protective of you,

there's the difference between being caring versus

being cleaned."

...

Comentado [AEP15]: "They may also try to stir up drama between you and your family and friends so you...

Comentado [AEP16]: "If your partner withdraws from you when upset them but comes running back to you a..t.

Comentado [AEP17]: "Fighting is normal and expected in any relationship, but if you have a common pattern ...

SPEAKING 7. In pairs or small groups, answer the following questions: a. Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? b. How did you know it was toxic? c. Was it easy or difficult to get out of it? Why? d. Were any of the signs above present during your relationship? If so, how did you manage them? e. Do you know someone who might be in a toxic relationship? If so, why do you think the relationship is toxic? f. What should people do to avoid being in a toxic relationship?

GO BEYOND 8. Using the information provided in the video, make a poster. Include as much information as possible and also provide phone numbers or websites that people can use if they are experiencing this type of relationship.

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