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Podcast episode 5: Audio Blog. 7 signs you've met The One [Pause] SYNOPSIS: So many people ask- I've had "good relationships" but how do I know if I've met my soulmate? Today's episode is a helpful checklist: 7 signs you've met The One for you. Welcome to another Audio Blog episode of STS Podcast. This article was very popular on my blog and i wanted to update it and share with you here. So here we go - 7 signs you've met The One 1) You're Not Focusing on His "Potential"-He is who he is and you love him. If he didn't change one bit, you'd be happy to be with him for the rest of your life. That's it... no if, and's or but's to this sign. 2) Who You Are Is Good Enough - You realize that you are enough exactly as you are right now... and so does he. He loves you and is awed by your presence. He finds you smart, sexy, and fun to be with and you feel cherished and safe with

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him. This doesn't mean you don't try to grow and evolve... in fact, you are committed to ongoing growth, as is he!

3) You Manage Conflict Well- Studies show that the healthiest relationships deal with their share of arguments and when you do, you do your best to fight fair.

When you two have a disagreement or argue, if you are with the right person for you, you are both committed to communicating clearly and respectfully as possible and then moving on with resolution. Sure, neither of you is "perfect" nor sometimes in your human-ness, one of you may "lose it" for a moment by trying to be right. But there's no verbal or physical abuse or massive control issues. And how much a couple disagrees isn't the issue, unless they don't fight at all. It's how a couple manages conflicts that determines how well the relationship works.

4) There's Minimal Drama--or None at All- So when I say that there's not a lot of "drama" in your relationship, as I said before, I don't mean that the two of you never argue.

But when you do, you do your best to be fair. You admit when you're wrong, you listen to each other, you acknowledge one another's good points, and you apologize when you cross lines. It's not that you have to be perfect, but if this person is "The One," then you are at least trying to make your conflict work for your relationship rather than against it. Part of your mutual clear intention is to learn from your conflicts and grow stronger as a couple.

So if you two are dealing with constant drama, where one of you is trying to create high emotions to manipulate the other or where there's constant turbulence without some sort of resolution, then be careful about fully committing to the relationship at this point. High drama is a definite red flag when it comes to long-term relationship success.

5) He wants the same type of relationship that you do- Opposites may attract, but they rarely make for a good long-term relationship. Compatibility really is key when it comes to creating a deep and lasting connection between two

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people. Of course, the two of you are not twins, and you'll be different in a lot of ways, but your preferences will be the same.

For example, if you want to begin preparing for the future and building toward certain life and career goals, like buying a house and having children or travelling the world, but your partner mainly wants to make enough money so that he or she can party this weekend, then you two are probably working with fairly different priorities.

And the opposite it is true, too: If your priorities match up well, then you two have a much better chance of long-term happiness and fulfilment together. Don't try to cajole or manipulate him into what you want. He is who he is.

6) You Respect the Person Deeply - Mutual respect is crucial for a healthy relationship. Without that respect, there's simply no way to create and build a secure foundation so that you can enjoy all of the benefits of a deep and strong and growing and evolving relationship.

And when you respect your partner and he or she respects you, the relationship has a strong chance at thriving, and all the aspects of your connection blossom. The communication improves. The commitment deepens. The trust multiplies. The pleasure and satisfaction levels go through the roof.

And that all begins with a mutual respect that emerges because you like each other and because you appreciate the way you live your individual lives. One way to find out a lot about him quickly? Travel with him- you'll learn a lot more than you expected! And then watch how he is with servers in restaurants. Is he abrupt, rude and condescending, never saying "Thank You" when given a drink or a plate of food? Or does he look them in the eyes and is respectful and kind and gracious when served? This says a LOT about a person!

7) You want to be together a lot- It's no secret that when Johnny and I met, we were soooo into each other and quickly, and we did not want to spend one moment away from each other! I remember just a few months after we met, I went to visit my family in Florida, and as soon as I arrived to my Granny's home

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and put my suitcase in the guestroom, Johnny called to make sure I was there and safe! And I'll never forget, after many phone calls with Johnny during my visit (he and I just wanted to be together all the time!), my dear Granny saying, with her lilting Southern drawl, "Ya'll got it BAD." So as you try to figure out whether you've found "The One," take a look at this list. While you may also have a few more vital issues that need to be in alignment (research shows, for example that religion, child-rearing, how you relate to money, and in-laws are THE four biggies) if you can check off each of the above items, then you owe it to yourself to allow the relationship to become all that it can possibly be. Don't let old non-supportive habits get in your way. Grow yourself now, do the inner excavation and clearing and learning about yourself and relationships NOW, so that when he shows up, you'll be ready for a conscious and glorious and BETTER relationship than ever before- and you won't sabotage the good thing you have right in front of you! You can leave comments and get show notes at 5 Johnny and I do our best to answer all your comments. Have a beautiful day/night, we look forward to connecting with you on the next episode of single to soulmate.

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