Jen Hasseler -> i just saw your question on the board, i'm ...
SEX CHAT with DUCKY
April 29th, 2008
SEX POSITIONS
Jen Hasseler -> i just saw your question on the board, i'm not aware of any whip cream like item... anyone else?
ducky -> whip cream?
Donna&Wes -> Wes typing .. Donna sitting by
Jen Hasseler -> the closest thing i can think of is the fantasy foam and i think it's gross.
Jen Hasseler -> donna was looking for a whipped topping-like product.
Jen Hasseler -> for a customer.
ducky -> Wes is at the helm!
Donna&Wes -> well that’s what they were looking for
Donna&Wes -> lol ... Always
Jen Hasseler -> it's a good idea, but i don't think we have it.
ducky -> Any kind of "whipped" product is tough...
ducky -> They require oil which will not work for those using condoms
Jen Hasseler -> ahh... i did not know that!
ducky -> Ok... I'm gonna dig in with tonight's topic...
Jen Hasseler -> we should come up with a good definition quick.
spicyprincess -> what's the topic Ducky?
ducky -> Sex positions!
spicyprincess -> Alan says "yes!"
ducky -> Do ya'll get questions about sex positions?
Donna&Wes -> you have my attention
ducky -> If so, what are they asking?
spicyprincess -> only about if there are good ones to hit the g-spot
SharonCanada -> nope, i don't
Jen Hasseler -> i don't, but people are fascinated by the positions cards.
ducky -> ok...
ducky -> how about people saying they are in a rut?
spicyprincess -> the position cards are beautiful, and they cause a lot of giggling
shomey -> No not really. I mean I told Rick tonight why mess with what works, lol
Donna&Wes -> comfortable positions for pregnant ladies
ducky -> Karen! :)
ducky -> ok... I have a list here of stuff you might want to think about when coaching customers...
spicyprincess -> I kinda agree with Karen
shomey -> See, why mess with perfection
shomey -> LOL
ducky -> But first I want to point out that a sex position question can often times be masking another question...
Jen Hasseler -> absolutely.
Jen Hasseler -> good point
ducky -> like how can I spice things up...
ducky -> or why am I not comfortable?
spicyprincess -> or I am not having orgasms
ducky -> Or my body hurts?
ducky -> Dana - yes!
ducky -> So it's always good to read between the lines...
ducky -> ...and ask more questions...
shomey -> Well I do agree with this.
ducky -> ...because a position question can be rather vague
Rachel -> I always recommend the wedge and ramp for comfort
Donna&Wes -> I ask ... but mainly cause I wanna know
spicyprincess -> you have to be careful though not to read on their boundaries...not too much info
ducky -> The wedge is amazing... but it's only available for hostesses, right?
Rachel -> and a fun way to spice things up
Jen Hasseler -> right ducky
spicyprincess -> that was "tread" on their boundaries
Rachel -> Yep Booking seed
shomey -> right.
Jen Hasseler -> we do offer the inflatable position pillow though.
shomey -> I liked read better Dana.
shomey -> LOL
ducky -> dana - you are right... that's why I am stacking your knowledge...
ducky -> Oral sex positions…
ducky -> Think about the curve of his penis in regards to the curve of your throat.
shomey -> Well that I would love to know about Ducky.
spicyprincess -> That's a harder one...
ducky -> Standing face to penis… a woman’s throat will curve down, while most penis’ curve up…
Jen Hasseler -> hmm....
ducky -> If she were to move the direction of her body to match their respective curves… oral sex is much more comfortable for her throat.
shomey -> Is that why theirs the gag reflex
spicyprincess -> That's why 69 works, is that what you’re saying?
ducky -> dana - yes!
ducky -> the gag reflex is very important
ducky -> it keeps you from choking on your food and dieing!
shomey -> But see 69 is confusing to me.
shomey -> LOLOLOLOL
Jen Hasseler -> let's hear it karen
spicyprincess -> The only problem with that is that two people are NOT paying the same amount of attention and someone gets the short shrift
shomey -> right, dana, exactly.
ducky -> 69 does not mean both people are giving... one can just hover
shomey -> I hate 68
ducky -> lol
SharonCanada -> lol
shomey -> ooops 69
Donna&Wes -> hey for good oral I'll stand on my head
ducky -> The same can be true for the curve of our vaginal canal and the curve of his penis… this is why some positions just don’t feel good with a particular partner…
ducky -> We may gravitate to a specific position because it is compatible with our respective curves. But then we get bored…
Donna&Wes -> makes sense
shomey -> When I'm having an orgasm I don't ever get bored
ducky -> so get your customers to envision their partners curve... and how they can change positions to match it
spicyprincess -> Boredom is an issue.... unless its just great!! then I am like Karen, don't mess with me
chrisp -> Is there a position that has been known to work with fibromyalgia or osteoarthritis
ducky -> well you bring up a good point....
shomey -> Exactly Dana, exactly. I love you.
spicyprincess -> I really like that tip, about thinking about the curve
ducky -> chris I'll get to your Q - I see it!
ducky -> A good sex position is one you can maintain...
ducky -> a lot of the position sex guides and books ....
shomey -> Exactly on my back and just enjoying life.
ducky -> give positions that are impossible for the average person to maintain
shomey -> Rick calls it lazy and I call it ecstasy
ducky -> it's good to remind people to put pillows under knees, to support bad backs, to arch her back.... etc...
spicyprincess -> Yep! And then people look at those books and say "I can't do that" and they give up trying new things all together
ducky -> Oh SHomey.... :)
shomey -> O.K. I'll stop
shomey -> But its true.
ducky -> exatly... they are counting on you to give them the REAL scoop on sex...
chrisp -> forgot about the pillows
shomey -> The real scoop is whatever works for them.
ducky -> She’s on top position…
ducky -> I want to make one thing very clear here… every woman, no matter how big or small looks HOT when she’s on top.
spicyprincess -> This is a really great new way to talk about this subject, especially since I am focusing on how to save money (budget) byt having a great, romantic date in
shomey -> Have you looked at my mirror
ducky -> Women don’t realize it, but our breast look incredible from this position.
ducky -> The under view of our breast is amazing! But how would we know that – we are always looking from the other direction!
Donna&Wes -> I agree
ducky -> This is why strippers are always on an elevated platform. It makes our boobs look beautiful. And out tummies look smaller.
shomey -> Well you definitely have to under me to see them from underneath.
ducky -> I highly recommend, even if you don’t like this position….
ducky -> Every once in a while get on top, shake your hair out and just give it to him. Hop up and down a few times and you are guaranteed to blow his mind.
ducky -> Tell women as often as possible, how beautiful they look from this position. The need to know this!
ducky -> Plus she can reach her clit and she can show him really how to touch her in this position. A really sexy exchange,
spicyprincess -> I wish I could get all women to just try getting under a woman, just to see
shomey -> Well I'm there.
spicyprincess -> Oops, sorry
ducky -> Any woman can stand on a chair... or put a mirror on the floor
Donna&Wes -> guy perspective ... throw your head back a little too
shomey -> Oops did I say that outloud
shomey -> LOL Wes
ducky -> it really is a beautiful angle... a great view of the female form
spicyprincess -> But it's not really the same as getting what it looks and feels like during sex
spicyprincess -> a mirror is SO clinical
shomey -> See I'm not comfortable in my own skin so I find this hard to swallow
spicyprincess -> and also, women are so warped when looking at themselves
ducky -> A mirror to look at your own tits!
ducky -> I love it!
spicyprincess -> much easier for them to see that another woman is beautiful
shomey -> Like I said you haven't seen my mirror
ducky -> True...
ducky -> Missionary position gets a bad rap.
Donna&Wes -> no really .. the tits perk up higher and it gives the visual impression that he is doing fantastic
spicyprincess -> Missionary position ROCKS!
ducky -> Benefits include full body contact and intimacy of being face to face.
shomey -> I love love love missionary
spicyprincess -> We didn't say that!
ducky -> If he has a beer belly and can get his thrusts right, he can use his belly to push against her clit in missionary.
ducky -> Beer belly guys lose their minds when they find out their belly is a sex tool!
Jen Hasseler -> my husband can do that with his pelvic bone. :)
spicyprincess -> That is SUCH a good tip
Jen Hasseler -> no beer belly!
ducky -> She can also put her heels on his shoulders to more g spot connection during penetration.
chrisp -> lots of beer belly's in Wi
ducky -> If she is not flexible or string enough, the Sex Sling or Super Sex Sling will make it easier for them.
Jen Hasseler -> Lmao Chris!!!
Tina_MN -> oh yeah thats my fav position
spicyprincess -> Most women can't hold that position for long though
ducky -> Chris- lol!
Tina_MN -> lol
ducky -> If she is not flexible or string enough, the Sex Sling or Super Sex Sling will make it easier for them.
shomey -> I want my toes to curl
spicyprincess -> I have never seen the sling in person
spicyprincess -> I'm so conservative in weird ways
ducky -> Pascale brought the sling to the last NYC meeting... it's GREAT!
ducky -> The bad points of missionary is that for shy people all that face to face attention can be too intimate. They don’t want the distraction of someone watching them during intercourse. That’s ok.
shomey -> But thats o.k. Dana
spicyprincess -> A sling or Swing-I don't think I'd ever use one so I don't sell my customers on them
shomey -> Oh no watching, Rick has to close his eyes.
SharonCanada -> they'll ask if they want them spicy
ducky -> You should reconsider the super sling
spicyprincess -> Hmmm
chrisp -> I thought it looked like it would be more painful for arthritis people
shomey -> I can't concentrate if he's looking at me. It makes me uncomfortable.
Donna&Wes -> no no no .. the visuals are one of the best parts
ducky -> But it can be good to talk about the shy factor. It helps people feel normal in their need to avoid missionary.
ducky -> Another possible bad point of missionary is that because he needs both hands to hold his body weight during this position...
ducky -> ...it’s important that the female feels empowered to reach down and guide his entry, touch herself during intercourse or hold a toy for clit sensation. He can’t do that for her.
spicyprincess -> One of the great things about watching though, is that it creates intimacy, friendship and laughter during sex can be so fabulous
ducky -> Ultimately there are a TON of positions a person can try. The key is for the position to be comfortable for each lover’s body.
Donna&Wes -> If he needs both hands durin missionary
ducky -> They need to listen to their own body.
spicyprincess -> Also, sex isn't all about penetration, which leads to all sorts of fun and interesting positions
ducky -> They need to respond to signals from their lover's body.
ducky -> Amen to that Dana!
ducky -> If it’s not comfortable, they cannot maintain it and cannot reach orgasm.
ducky -> So often women give oral in the most uncomfortable position...
spicyprincess -> How would you bring up the conversation about positions during your demo?
ducky -> leaning over him, holding body weight with one hand...
shomey -> Oh yea, Ducky
ducky -> I think the deck of cards are a great intro
spicyprincess -> While talking about a particular toy, like a bullet?
spicyprincess -> Hmmmm
spicyprincess -> Food for thought
ducky -> Life circumstances can put our bodies in pain. An injury, a bad back, a wound, a pregnancy… sex can be a healing element when someone is hurt…
ducky -> Especially when one partner goes out of their way to make the ailing partner comfortable.
Donna&Wes -> preach on Ducky
spicyprincess -> I have arthritis that acts up when I work too much
ducky -> Be aware of body size issues… some positions are not possible for some people of size.
ducky -> Other people of size have a remarkable amount of muscle and great endurance during sex play…
JulieH -> Me too Dana
shomey -> Yes Dana you do, I saw you at one convention in so much pain, I felt so bad for you.
spicyprincess -> We have learned to adapt
ducky -> Yes... those personal ailments make a great intro to talking from your heart about positions!
ducky -> Surprise Massager is a great vibrator for a person of size or person who has trouble with reach due to disability…
spicyprincess -> I think it makes us more open to talking and working out what feels good.
shomey -> Gosh that is so true Ducky.
JulieH -> it really does bring you closer and it is easier to let your partner know what hurts and what he can do instead that you like
ducky -> That vibe has extra reach and a flexible arm attachment
shomey -> Ducky I know this isn't on subject but it truly warms my heart to know that you have our backs with regards to all this part of our business.
ducky -> it can reach around a big belly or reach when arms are to short or injured
ducky -> I also always tell people who want more variety to really think about the furniture in their home…
ducky -> Look for soft spots and furniture that can support various positions.
ducky -> Counter tops. Over-stuffed furniture. Staircases. Pool tables.
ducky -> Encourage people to squirrel away a little bottle of lube in areas around their house where they want to have sex…
ducky -> In their glove box...
spicyprincess -> It's like the flex-o-pleaser
ducky -> in their purse
spicyprincess -> Which is more expensive, and so my product of choice'
ducky -> YES! flex-o-pleaser is even better... longer reach!
ducky -> Thanks.
spicyprincess -> and at $79, better for us
Jen Hasseler -> what page is the flex o pleaser on?
ducky -> Keep a bottle of silicone lube in the shower so they can have spontaneous sex in there too.
ducky -> I really do think the deck of cards is supreme...
Jen Hasseler -> wow - how many speeds dana?
shomey -> Hot damn I never thought of that, gosh where has my head been.
ducky -> I know we also carry a positions DVD and book.
spicyprincess -> I keep silicone lube in the bathroom for my hair and to make the shower curtain move easier
Jen Hasseler -> i use it for skin moisturizer after shaving!
spicyprincess -> 8 speeds, 5 functions
ducky -> Oh... Dana... shower curtain! Love it.
Tina_MN -> u lube your shower curtain? wtf
spicyprincess -> what can I say, practical, that's me
ducky -> A quick tip when showing the cards....
ducky -> Have your lover pick a card! Ask him/her two months later and they will be drawn to a totally different card…
ducky -> It’s fun and a flirty way to initiate sex.
Tina_MN -> is that so you and hubby are slippery when wet or what? lol
ducky -> Ok kitten pies....
spicyprincess -> No, just do the curtain closes and doesn't get all tangled
ducky -> this session flew by!
ducky -> Check out my latest POST-able for a great little blurb on positions that you can blast out to your customers…
spicyprincess -> I love the ideas about the cards and talking more about positions and curves
Tina_MN -> Thanks Ducky!
ducky -> I love you and adore you....
SharonCanada -> thank you ducky!
spicyprincess -> Thanks, Ducky
Donna&Wes -> can I add something about positions?
JulieH -> thanks Ducky!
ducky -> I'm on the message boards every day!
chrisp -> thanks ducky
ducky -> wes bring it on!
Donna&Wes -> you can free up a hand pretty easy in missionary
ducky -> how?
Donna&Wes -> place your stronger hand behind the neck of your lover .. it gives you good leverage
Tina_MN -> WOOOHOOO go Wes its your birthday lol
Donna&Wes -> lol .. Donna didn't marry me for my math skills
ducky -> thanks wes!
SharonCanada -> rofl
ducky -> You rule!
JulieH -> Tina...You remind me so much of my best friend
Tina_MN -> Its all in the pants baby
Tina_MN -> lol
Donna&Wes -> no problem... ask me anytime you want a guy view
shomey -> Ducky thanks so much
ducky -> Have a good night every one! xoxo - Ducky
Tina_MN -> bye ducky
JulieH -> night Ducky!
Tina_MN -> muah
SharonCanada -> night ducky!
Donna&Wes -> night Ducky
[Disconnect] ducky
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