Jen Hasseler -> i just saw your question on the board, i'm ...



SEX CHAT with DUCKY

April 29th, 2008

SEX POSITIONS

Jen Hasseler -> i just saw your question on the board, i'm not aware of any whip cream like item... anyone else?

ducky -> whip cream?

Donna&Wes -> Wes typing .. Donna sitting by

Jen Hasseler -> the closest thing i can think of is the fantasy foam and i think it's gross.

Jen Hasseler -> donna was looking for a whipped topping-like product.

Jen Hasseler -> for a customer.

ducky -> Wes is at the helm!

Donna&Wes -> well that’s what they were looking for

Donna&Wes -> lol ... Always

Jen Hasseler -> it's a good idea, but i don't think we have it.

ducky -> Any kind of "whipped" product is tough...

ducky -> They require oil which will not work for those using condoms

Jen Hasseler -> ahh... i did not know that!

ducky -> Ok... I'm gonna dig in with tonight's topic...

Jen Hasseler -> we should come up with a good definition quick.

spicyprincess -> what's the topic Ducky?

ducky -> Sex positions!

spicyprincess -> Alan says "yes!"

ducky -> Do ya'll get questions about sex positions?

Donna&Wes -> you have my attention

ducky -> If so, what are they asking?

spicyprincess -> only about if there are good ones to hit the g-spot

SharonCanada -> nope, i don't

Jen Hasseler -> i don't, but people are fascinated by the positions cards.

ducky -> ok...

ducky -> how about people saying they are in a rut?

spicyprincess -> the position cards are beautiful, and they cause a lot of giggling

shomey -> No not really. I mean I told Rick tonight why mess with what works, lol

Donna&Wes -> comfortable positions for pregnant ladies

ducky -> Karen! :)

ducky -> ok... I have a list here of stuff you might want to think about when coaching customers...

spicyprincess -> I kinda agree with Karen

shomey -> See, why mess with perfection

shomey -> LOL

ducky -> But first I want to point out that a sex position question can often times be masking another question...

Jen Hasseler -> absolutely.

Jen Hasseler -> good point

ducky -> like how can I spice things up...

ducky -> or why am I not comfortable?

spicyprincess -> or I am not having orgasms

ducky -> Or my body hurts?

ducky -> Dana - yes!

ducky -> So it's always good to read between the lines...

ducky -> ...and ask more questions...

shomey -> Well I do agree with this.

ducky -> ...because a position question can be rather vague

Rachel -> I always recommend the wedge and ramp for comfort

Donna&Wes -> I ask ... but mainly cause I wanna know

spicyprincess -> you have to be careful though not to read on their boundaries...not too much info

ducky -> The wedge is amazing... but it's only available for hostesses, right?

Rachel -> and a fun way to spice things up

Jen Hasseler -> right ducky

spicyprincess -> that was "tread" on their boundaries

Rachel -> Yep Booking seed

shomey -> right.

Jen Hasseler -> we do offer the inflatable position pillow though.

shomey -> I liked read better Dana.

shomey -> LOL

ducky -> dana - you are right... that's why I am stacking your knowledge...

ducky -> Oral sex positions…

ducky -> Think about the curve of his penis in regards to the curve of your throat.

shomey -> Well that I would love to know about Ducky.

spicyprincess -> That's a harder one...

ducky -> Standing face to penis… a woman’s throat will curve down, while most penis’ curve up…

Jen Hasseler -> hmm....

ducky -> If she were to move the direction of her body to match their respective curves… oral sex is much more comfortable for her throat.

shomey -> Is that why theirs the gag reflex

spicyprincess -> That's why 69 works, is that what you’re saying?

ducky -> dana - yes!

ducky -> the gag reflex is very important

ducky -> it keeps you from choking on your food and dieing!

shomey -> But see 69 is confusing to me.

shomey -> LOLOLOLOL

Jen Hasseler -> let's hear it karen

spicyprincess -> The only problem with that is that two people are NOT paying the same amount of attention and someone gets the short shrift

shomey -> right, dana, exactly.

ducky -> 69 does not mean both people are giving... one can just hover

shomey -> I hate 68

ducky -> lol

SharonCanada -> lol

shomey -> ooops 69

Donna&Wes -> hey for good oral I'll stand on my head

ducky -> The same can be true for the curve of our vaginal canal and the curve of his penis… this is why some positions just don’t feel good with a particular partner…

ducky -> We may gravitate to a specific position because it is compatible with our respective curves. But then we get bored…

Donna&Wes -> makes sense

shomey -> When I'm having an orgasm I don't ever get bored

ducky -> so get your customers to envision their partners curve... and how they can change positions to match it

spicyprincess -> Boredom is an issue.... unless its just great!! then I am like Karen, don't mess with me

chrisp -> Is there a position that has been known to work with fibromyalgia or osteoarthritis

ducky -> well you bring up a good point....

shomey -> Exactly Dana, exactly. I love you.

spicyprincess -> I really like that tip, about thinking about the curve

ducky -> chris I'll get to your Q - I see it!

ducky -> A good sex position is one you can maintain...

ducky -> a lot of the position sex guides and books ....

shomey -> Exactly on my back and just enjoying life.

ducky -> give positions that are impossible for the average person to maintain

shomey -> Rick calls it lazy and I call it ecstasy

ducky -> it's good to remind people to put pillows under knees, to support bad backs, to arch her back.... etc...

spicyprincess -> Yep! And then people look at those books and say "I can't do that" and they give up trying new things all together

ducky -> Oh SHomey.... :)

shomey -> O.K. I'll stop

shomey -> But its true.

ducky -> exatly... they are counting on you to give them the REAL scoop on sex...

chrisp -> forgot about the pillows

shomey -> The real scoop is whatever works for them.

ducky -> She’s on top position…

ducky -> I want to make one thing very clear here… every woman, no matter how big or small looks HOT when she’s on top.

spicyprincess -> This is a really great new way to talk about this subject, especially since I am focusing on how to save money (budget) byt having a great, romantic date in

shomey -> Have you looked at my mirror

ducky -> Women don’t realize it, but our breast look incredible from this position.

ducky -> The under view of our breast is amazing! But how would we know that – we are always looking from the other direction!

Donna&Wes -> I agree

ducky -> This is why strippers are always on an elevated platform. It makes our boobs look beautiful. And out tummies look smaller.

shomey -> Well you definitely have to under me to see them from underneath.

ducky -> I highly recommend, even if you don’t like this position….

ducky -> Every once in a while get on top, shake your hair out and just give it to him. Hop up and down a few times and you are guaranteed to blow his mind.

ducky -> Tell women as often as possible, how beautiful they look from this position. The need to know this!

ducky -> Plus she can reach her clit and she can show him really how to touch her in this position. A really sexy exchange,

spicyprincess -> I wish I could get all women to just try getting under a woman, just to see

shomey -> Well I'm there.

spicyprincess -> Oops, sorry

ducky -> Any woman can stand on a chair... or put a mirror on the floor

Donna&Wes -> guy perspective ... throw your head back a little too

shomey -> Oops did I say that outloud

shomey -> LOL Wes

ducky -> it really is a beautiful angle... a great view of the female form

spicyprincess -> But it's not really the same as getting what it looks and feels like during sex

spicyprincess -> a mirror is SO clinical

shomey -> See I'm not comfortable in my own skin so I find this hard to swallow

spicyprincess -> and also, women are so warped when looking at themselves

ducky -> A mirror to look at your own tits!

ducky -> I love it!

spicyprincess -> much easier for them to see that another woman is beautiful

shomey -> Like I said you haven't seen my mirror

ducky -> True...

ducky -> Missionary position gets a bad rap.

Donna&Wes -> no really .. the tits perk up higher and it gives the visual impression that he is doing fantastic

spicyprincess -> Missionary position ROCKS!

ducky -> Benefits include full body contact and intimacy of being face to face.

shomey -> I love love love missionary

spicyprincess -> We didn't say that!

ducky -> If he has a beer belly and can get his thrusts right, he can use his belly to push against her clit in missionary.

ducky -> Beer belly guys lose their minds when they find out their belly is a sex tool!

Jen Hasseler -> my husband can do that with his pelvic bone. :)

spicyprincess -> That is SUCH a good tip

Jen Hasseler -> no beer belly!

ducky -> She can also put her heels on his shoulders to more g spot connection during penetration.

chrisp -> lots of beer belly's in Wi

ducky -> If she is not flexible or string enough, the Sex Sling or Super Sex Sling will make it easier for them.

Jen Hasseler -> Lmao Chris!!!

Tina_MN -> oh yeah thats my fav position

spicyprincess -> Most women can't hold that position for long though

ducky -> Chris- lol!

Tina_MN -> lol

ducky -> If she is not flexible or string enough, the Sex Sling or Super Sex Sling will make it easier for them.

shomey -> I want my toes to curl

spicyprincess -> I have never seen the sling in person

spicyprincess -> I'm so conservative in weird ways

ducky -> Pascale brought the sling to the last NYC meeting... it's GREAT!

ducky -> The bad points of missionary is that for shy people all that face to face attention can be too intimate. They don’t want the distraction of someone watching them during intercourse. That’s ok.

shomey -> But thats o.k. Dana

spicyprincess -> A sling or Swing-I don't think I'd ever use one so I don't sell my customers on them

shomey -> Oh no watching, Rick has to close his eyes.

SharonCanada -> they'll ask if they want them spicy

ducky -> You should reconsider the super sling

spicyprincess -> Hmmm

chrisp -> I thought it looked like it would be more painful for arthritis people

shomey -> I can't concentrate if he's looking at me. It makes me uncomfortable.

Donna&Wes -> no no no .. the visuals are one of the best parts

ducky -> But it can be good to talk about the shy factor. It helps people feel normal in their need to avoid missionary.

ducky -> Another possible bad point of missionary is that because he needs both hands to hold his body weight during this position...

ducky -> ...it’s important that the female feels empowered to reach down and guide his entry, touch herself during intercourse or hold a toy for clit sensation. He can’t do that for her.

spicyprincess -> One of the great things about watching though, is that it creates intimacy, friendship and laughter during sex can be so fabulous

ducky -> Ultimately there are a TON of positions a person can try. The key is for the position to be comfortable for each lover’s body.

Donna&Wes -> If he needs both hands durin missionary

ducky -> They need to listen to their own body.

spicyprincess -> Also, sex isn't all about penetration, which leads to all sorts of fun and interesting positions

ducky -> They need to respond to signals from their lover's body.

ducky -> Amen to that Dana!

ducky -> If it’s not comfortable, they cannot maintain it and cannot reach orgasm.

ducky -> So often women give oral in the most uncomfortable position...

spicyprincess -> How would you bring up the conversation about positions during your demo?

ducky -> leaning over him, holding body weight with one hand...

shomey -> Oh yea, Ducky

ducky -> I think the deck of cards are a great intro

spicyprincess -> While talking about a particular toy, like a bullet?

spicyprincess -> Hmmmm

spicyprincess -> Food for thought

ducky -> Life circumstances can put our bodies in pain. An injury, a bad back, a wound, a pregnancy… sex can be a healing element when someone is hurt…

ducky -> Especially when one partner goes out of their way to make the ailing partner comfortable.

Donna&Wes -> preach on Ducky

spicyprincess -> I have arthritis that acts up when I work too much

ducky -> Be aware of body size issues… some positions are not possible for some people of size.

ducky -> Other people of size have a remarkable amount of muscle and great endurance during sex play…

JulieH -> Me too Dana

shomey -> Yes Dana you do, I saw you at one convention in so much pain, I felt so bad for you.

spicyprincess -> We have learned to adapt

ducky -> Yes... those personal ailments make a great intro to talking from your heart about positions!

ducky -> Surprise Massager is a great vibrator for a person of size or person who has trouble with reach due to disability…

spicyprincess -> I think it makes us more open to talking and working out what feels good.

shomey -> Gosh that is so true Ducky.

JulieH -> it really does bring you closer and it is easier to let your partner know what hurts and what he can do instead that you like

ducky -> That vibe has extra reach and a flexible arm attachment

shomey -> Ducky I know this isn't on subject but it truly warms my heart to know that you have our backs with regards to all this part of our business.

ducky -> it can reach around a big belly or reach when arms are to short or injured

ducky -> I also always tell people who want more variety to really think about the furniture in their home…

ducky -> Look for soft spots and furniture that can support various positions.

ducky -> Counter tops. Over-stuffed furniture. Staircases. Pool tables.

ducky -> Encourage people to squirrel away a little bottle of lube in areas around their house where they want to have sex…

ducky -> In their glove box...

spicyprincess -> It's like the flex-o-pleaser

ducky -> in their purse

spicyprincess -> Which is more expensive, and so my product of choice'

ducky -> YES! flex-o-pleaser is even better... longer reach!

ducky -> Thanks.

spicyprincess -> and at $79, better for us

Jen Hasseler -> what page is the flex o pleaser on?

ducky -> Keep a bottle of silicone lube in the shower so they can have spontaneous sex in there too.

ducky -> I really do think the deck of cards is supreme...

Jen Hasseler -> wow - how many speeds dana?

shomey -> Hot damn I never thought of that, gosh where has my head been.

ducky -> I know we also carry a positions DVD and book.

spicyprincess -> I keep silicone lube in the bathroom for my hair and to make the shower curtain move easier

Jen Hasseler -> i use it for skin moisturizer after shaving!

spicyprincess -> 8 speeds, 5 functions

ducky -> Oh... Dana... shower curtain! Love it.

Tina_MN -> u lube your shower curtain? wtf

spicyprincess -> what can I say, practical, that's me

ducky -> A quick tip when showing the cards....

ducky -> Have your lover pick a card! Ask him/her two months later and they will be drawn to a totally different card…

ducky -> It’s fun and a flirty way to initiate sex.

Tina_MN -> is that so you and hubby are slippery when wet or what? lol

ducky -> Ok kitten pies....

spicyprincess -> No, just do the curtain closes and doesn't get all tangled

ducky -> this session flew by!

ducky -> Check out my latest POST-able for a great little blurb on positions that you can blast out to your customers…

spicyprincess -> I love the ideas about the cards and talking more about positions and curves

Tina_MN -> Thanks Ducky!

ducky -> I love you and adore you....

SharonCanada -> thank you ducky!

spicyprincess -> Thanks, Ducky

Donna&Wes -> can I add something about positions?

JulieH -> thanks Ducky!

ducky -> I'm on the message boards every day!

chrisp -> thanks ducky

ducky -> wes bring it on!

Donna&Wes -> you can free up a hand pretty easy in missionary

ducky -> how?

Donna&Wes -> place your stronger hand behind the neck of your lover .. it gives you good leverage

Tina_MN -> WOOOHOOO go Wes its your birthday lol

Donna&Wes -> lol .. Donna didn't marry me for my math skills

ducky -> thanks wes!

SharonCanada -> rofl

ducky -> You rule!

JulieH -> Tina...You remind me so much of my best friend

Tina_MN -> Its all in the pants baby

Tina_MN -> lol

Donna&Wes -> no problem... ask me anytime you want a guy view

shomey -> Ducky thanks so much

ducky -> Have a good night every one! xoxo - Ducky

Tina_MN -> bye ducky

JulieH -> night Ducky!

Tina_MN -> muah

SharonCanada -> night ducky!

Donna&Wes -> night Ducky

[Disconnect] ducky

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