VITA Coaching T3 MSM3 Practice Sexual Archetypes

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TRIMESTER 3 l MEN'S SEXUALITY 3

Sexual Archetypes

Practice Guide

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Sexual Archetypes

This process lets a man examine his sexual desires of who he wants to be in the bedroom, and gets him the question:

? Who am I in the bedroom? ? Who do I show up as when I have sex?

It also lets him look at his expectations of who his lover or partner wants him to be.

In the lover/partner piece, he can either work with his current or dream lover/partner.

Practice Key Points:

The setup is four pillows in a diamond shape.

He starts on the center pillow, and looking at the pillow across himself, he will see himself as he wants to be sexual. You can ask him:

? Who are you during sex? ? Who are you in the bedroom?

Let him see how he shows up, how he fucks, and who he is in the bedroom. Let him describe this man, how he feels, and acts.

Then he will move over to that pillow and embody him. Let him explain what it feels like being who he currently is sexual. He will describe how he feels inside. If he hasn't had sex for a long time or isn't currently having sex, it can be who he is around his sexuality/dating/ wants to have sex.

He will then move back to the original cushion, turn to the pillow on the left and feel who his lover or dream lover desires him to be in the bedroom. Let him express what he sees and feels in this man. How he has sex, what he is doing, and how he shows up sexually.

He will then move to that pillow, embrace it and describe what it feels like in his body to be the man that his partner wants him to be? how that feels when he inhabits it.

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Then moves back to the original pillow, turns to the right, and sees himself as he most craves to be sexual. If he could be anyone or any way in the world, what would that look and feel like? What would he perceive? Let him describe that.

He will then move to that pillow, embody that and express how that feels in his body and how he experiences being how he'd most want to be sexual.

He will then move back to the original pillow, meditate, and integrate.

He will end the process by integrating with you: ? What did he acquire? ? What are his next moves in sexuality? ? How does he aspire to grow and evolve sexually? ? How will this improve how he makes love and approaches his sexual practices? ? How will this change how he makes love and approaches his sexual practices?

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