What conditions do I put on my love for you

When you need salt, sugar won't do. - Yiddish saying. Couple question: Do I give you sugarcoated or honeyed words when you need the salt of my thoughts and feelings? How do I feel about my answer? priest/religious question: Do I give my people sugarcoated or honeyed words when they need the salt of my thoughts and feelings? How do I feel about ... ................
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