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Discovering My S.H.A.P.E.

Everyone is unique, but everyone is the same in that they have been made on purpose and for a purpose by God. There are so many things that make you, you, and this S.H.A.P.E. tool is designed to help you discover and understand how the different parts of you can ultimately be used by God in really cool and unique ways.

S – SPIRITUAL GIFTS

Spiritual Gifts Inventory

“God has given each of you a gift from His great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another.” 1 Peter 4:10

Use the questions below to find out what your spiritual gifts are. Answer the questions as honestly as possible by circling a number:

1= Never 2= Sometimes 3= It Depends 4= Usually 5= Always

1. I have little fear in leading people where God wants them to go.

1 2 3 4 5

2. I love helping others when they are having problems.

1 2 3 4 5

3. I enjoy telling my neighbors about all the great things God has done in my life.

1 2 3 4 5

4. I believe anything is possible, and encourage others to believe this, as well.

1 2 3 4 5

5. I believe that everything I own is a gift from God.

1 2 3 4 5

6. I have learned a lot from listening in church and in my small group.

1 2 3 4 5

7. When things seem unorganized, I usually step up and take charge to organize.

1 2 3 4 5

8. I enjoy spending time with people who are sick or in the hospital.

1 2 3 4 5

9. I prefer to do the little “behind-the-scenes” tasks.

1 2 3 4 5

10. I am good at making plans and making things happen.

1 2 3 4 5

11. I feel happy when I can help others through a hard time.

1 2 3 4 5

12. Many people become interested when I talk about my faith.

1 2 3 4 5

13. Even when others have doubts, I trust that God can do the impossible.

1 2 3 4 5

14. I enjoy giving money to a good cause.

1 2 3 4 5

15. People turn to me when they don’t understand a Bible verse.

1 2 3 4 5

16. People seem to enjoy following my lead and do it often.

1 2 3 4 5

17. I like to help other people without getting anything in return.

1 2 3 4 5

18. If I see something needs to be done, I step in and do it.

1 2 3 4 5

19. I believe God is calling me to be a missionary.

1 2 3 4 5

20. I can see the good in almost every situation, even when it seems really bad.

1 2 3 4 5

21. I get sad when I think about all the people who do not know Jesus.

1 2 3 4 5

22. I tend to think more positively than those around me.

1 2 3 4 5

23. I can give money to the church because I know that God will meet my needs.

1 2 3 4 5

24. I get good grades in school.

1 2 3 4 5

25. I enjoy having others follow my lead in certain situations.

1 2 3 4 5

26. I like to cheer up people who are in a tough situation.

1 2 3 4 5

27. I prefer to do things that don’t attract a lot of attention.

1 2 3 4 5

SPIRITUAL GIFT INVENTORY ANSWERS

Now, let’s add up the totals and find out what spiritual gifts you have! Place your answers in the answer sheet below, add up the totals from each row (horizontally), and put the total in the TOTALS column. Then circle your three highest totals.

|answers |totals |

|1. ________ |10. ________ |19. ________ |A. ________ |

|2. ________ |11. ________ |20. ________ |B. ________ |

|3. ________ |12. ________ |21. ________ |C. ________ |

|4. ________ |13. ________ |22. ________ |D. ________ |

|5. ________ |14. ________ |23. ________ |E. ________ |

|6. ________ |15. ________ |24. ________ |F. ________ |

|7. ________ |16. ________ |25. ________ |G. ________ |

|8. ________ |17. ________ |26. ________ |H. ________ |

|9. ________ |18. ________ |27. ________ |I. ________ |

*Remember: This test is NOT a definite, conclusive measure of your spiritual gifts. Do not rule out the possibility of having other spiritual gifts. As you continue to grow in Christ, you will strengthen and redefine these gifts and discover what else God has in store for you.

SPIRITUAL GIFTS:

|Apostleship | |

|Encouragement | |

|Evangelism | |

|Faith | |

|Giving | |

|Knowledge | |

|Leadership | |

|Mercy | |

|Serving | |

SPIRITUAL GIFTS DEFINITIONS:

A. APOSTLESHIP – Romans 15:20

You are able to start new groups and organizations. You encourage and inspire others to develop their faith. You are like a modern-day missionary.

EXAMPLE – Getting your friends together during lunch to talk about God or pray.

B. ENCOURAGEMENT – Acts 14:22

You are able to make others feel better, especially when they are going through a hard time. Even when you don’t know what to say or how to act, you still try to help others and be there for them.

EXAMPLE – Spending time with a friend who is going is having a bad day.

C. EVANGELISM – Acts 8:26-31

You are able to share your faith with non-Christians without making them feel uncomfortable or awkward. When you talk to others about God, they often become interested and want to know more.

EXAMPLE – Telling a friend about God or inviting him/her to JHM on the weekends.

D. FAITH – Ephesians 3:20

You are able to trust God when things seem impossible. You are confident in His power and feel assured that He will fulfill His promises. When facing a scary or difficult situation, you are able to depend on God to help you.

EXAMPLE – Trusting that God will help you when you are in need.

E. GIVING – Hebrews 11:1-3

You are able to give to the church so that it may grow and help others. You enjoy giving above and beyond your 10% tithe whenever possible. You give without complaint and are cheerful about it.

EXAMPLE– Giving your allowance to support someone on a mission trip.

F. KNOWLEDGE – Philippians 1:9-10

You are able to understand Biblical truths and see how to apply them to everyday life. You are able to provide information and insight to others that helps make good decisions for the church.

EXAMPLE – Sharing with your c-group about what the story/verse really means.

G. LEADERSHIP – Exodus 18:16

You are able to motivate and give direction to others without coming across as bossy or controlling. You can help large groups work together without much struggling or fighting.

EXAMPLE – Involved in Strive or being student leader on a PEACE trip.

H. MERCY – Luke 10:37

You are able to understand and feel sympathy towards others who are going through a hard time. You are caring and considerate toward their feelings and try your best to help them.

EXAMPLE – Helping a friend whose parents are getting a divorce.

I. SERVING – Galatians 6:2

You are able to help others with small tasks so that they are able to work more efficiently. You enjoy doing the background work without getting much attention or recognition.

EXAMPLE – Helping clean up after church on the weekend.

H - HEART

Heart Check

“So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31

Do a HEART check, being as honest with yourself as possible. Make a mark where you would fall on the range from Strongly Disagree to Strongly Agree after reading each statement.

1. I would feel comfortable giving a speech in front of hundreds of people.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

2. I enjoy playing sports.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

3. Math or science is one of my favorite subjects in school.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

4. My room is very neat and organized.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

5. I often get to the end or win most video games.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

6. I love going to the mountains to ski or snowboard.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

7. I can see myself serving with little babies for a ministry.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

8. I am blessed with the ability to play a musical instrument.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

9. I would really like to volunteer in an elderly home on a regular basis.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

10. I normally share well with my siblings and/or friends.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

11. I love animals in all shapes and sizes.

________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

12. I have saved my allowance/money up to donate to a good cause.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

13. If a friend is sad or hurt, I like to be there to listen to them and make them happy.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

14. I am a good cook/baker.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

15. Drawing/painting/art makes me excited.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

16. Memorizing verses and sharing them with others is something I’m good at.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

17. I like helping/caring for others when they are sick/ill.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

18. I have shared my testimony with someone outside of my family.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

19. I would LOVE to go on a mission trip overseas.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

20. I have what I would consider a special talent.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

21. When I see people less fortunate than me, I really want to help them somehow.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

22. I would love to be in a play or school drama.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

23. I’ve stood up for a friend who was being teased or bullied.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

24. Reading a good book relaxes me.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

25. I have had to stand alone, as a Christian, for what I believe in.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Strongly Disagree Strongly Agree

A - ABILITIES

“There are different abilities to perform service ...” - 1 Corinthians 12:6

Carefully go through this list of abilities and check what you feel you are naturally good at. Remember to be honest with yourself. Then, circle your top 3 abilities. Have fun!

|Acting/drama |Mechanical operating |

|Animal care |Mentoring |

|Archery |Musical instrument |

|Art |Organizing |

|Athletic |Painting |

|Baseball/softball |Photography |

|Basketball |Planning |

|Biking (motor, mountain) |Poetry |

|Calligraphy |PowerPoint |

|Cheerleading |Prayer |

|Cleaning |Promoting |

|Coaching |Reading |

|Comedy |Recall |

|Computers |Repair work |

|Construction |Research |

|Cooking |Running |

|Counseling |Scrapbooking |

|Counting |Sewing |

|Dancing |Singing |

|Debating |Skateboarding |

|Decorating |Skating (ice, roller) |

|Designing |Skiing/snowboarding |

|Drawing |Soccer |

|Editing |Speech |

|Encouraging |Swimming |

|Entertaining |Talking |

|Evaluating |Teaching |

|Film |Technology |

|Football |Tennis |

|Gardening |Typing |

|Golf |Water sports |

|Gymnastics |Welcoming |

|Hairstyling/cosmetics |Writing |

|Hockey (field, ice, roller) |Video games |

|Lacrosse |Videography |

|Languages/linguistics |Other: _______________________ |

|Listening |Other: _______________________ |

|Magic | |

P - Personality

Put a check mark next to the phrases that match your personality. Put the total number you checked in the box; the box with the highest number is your main personality type. At the bottom write your top 2 personality types.

|___________ |___________ |

|___Daring and unafraid in new situations. |___Talks a lot and tells exciting stories. |

|___Likes to be a leader. Often tells others how to do things. |___Likes to have lots of fun with others. |

|___Ready to take on any kind of challenge. |___Enjoys being in groups. Likes to perform. |

|___Firm and serious about what is expected |___Full of energy and always eager to play. |

|___Makes decisions quickly. |___Always happy and sees the good in everything. |

|( |( |

|___________ |_______________________ |

|___Neat and tidy and notices little details. |___Always loyal and faithful to friends. |

|___Sticks with something until it’s done… doesn’t like to quit in the |___Listens carefully to others. |

|middle. |___Likes to help others. Feels sad when others are hurt. |

|___Asks a lot of questions. |___Peacemaker. Doesn’t like it when others argue. Wants everyone to get |

|___Likes things done the same way. |along. |

|___Says things just the way they are. |___Patient and willing to wait. |

|( |( |

TOP 2 SCORES: ____________________ and _____________________

Lion

(Choleric/Dominance)

Strengths– Visionary, practical, productive, strong-willed, independent, decisive, leader

Weaknesses– Cold, domineering, unemotional self-sufficient, unforgiving, sarcastic, cruel

Otter

(Sanguine/Influence)

Strengths– Outgoing, responsive, warm, friendly, talkative, enthusiastic, compassionate

Weaknesses– Undisciplined, unproductive, exaggerates, egocentric, unstable

Golden Retriever

(Phlegmatic/Steadiness)

Strengths– Calm, easy-going, dependable, quiet, objective, diplomatic, humorous

Weaknesses– Selfish, stingy, procrastinator, unmotivated, indecisive, fearful, worrier

Beaver

(Melancholy/Compliance)

Strengths– Analytical, self-disciplined, industrious, organized, aesthetic, sacrificing

Weaknesses– Moody, self-centered, touchy, negative, unsociable, critical, revengeful

Often you’ll find that people have a primary character type and a secondary type. Take a look at yourself. Which one is your primary and which one is your secondary? Some naturally go together and make for a wonderful set of strengths. Also, be sensitive to the weaknesses in yourself and in others.

“There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but the same God works all of them in all men.” - 1 Corinthians 12:4–6

E - Experiences

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” - Romans 8:28

Use the following worksheet to help you understand how God can use your experiences to make you the person He wants you to be! Mark “Yes” or “No” to the following questions.

| |Have you ever: |Yes |No |

|1 |made a great play in sports or won a big game? | | |

|2 |had someone say thank you for helping them out? | | |

|3 |been told "I love you"? | | |

|4 |received an A+ on a school test or project? | | |

|5 |gone to camp? | | |

|6 |worked as part of team to complete a big project? | | |

|7 |helped out someone who needed help? | | |

|8 |had someone tell you, you did a great job? | | |

|9 |been on a PEACE trip? | | |

|10 |brought someone to Christ? | | |

| | |Yes |No |

|1 |made a bad play in sports or lost a big game? | | |

|2 |had someone you love die? | | |

|3 |received an F on a quiz or a test? | | |

|4 |had surgery or stayed in the hospital? | | |

|5 |had your parents divorce? | | |

|6 |had to move to a new school where you didn’t know anyone? | | |

| | |Yes |No |

|7 |had your feelings hurt by something someone said? | | |

|8 |broken a bone or needed stitches? | | |

|9 |had someone tell you they were disappointed in you? | | |

|10 |missed a meal because you couldn't afford food? | | |

1. Go back and circle the two things in the first group of 10 that made you the happiest.

2. Go back and circle the two things in the second group of 10 that made you the saddest.

God uses all of our experiences - the good ones and the bad ones – to make us who He wants us to be! We need to realize that God will sometimes let us go through tough things in life to help us grow into the person he wants us to be. God promise us that He will use even the "bad" things that happen to us to make something good. Remember to trust God because He is in control!

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