Discipleship - An Imperative to the Ministry of Baseball ...
MINOR LEAGUE
CHAPEL MINISTER’S HANDBOOK
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction - Discipleship Imperative
Ministry Description and Responsibilities
Ministry Description
Spanish Speaking Ministry
Code Of Conduct and Policies
Partnership Agreement
Code of Conduct and Policies
Financial Policy
Spring Training Guidelines
Ministry at the Ballpark
Baseball Culture
Chapel Service
Player Rep Expectations
Speaking Opportunity For Players
Effective Teaching
Substitute Speaker
Player Evaluation (Form)
Player Contact Info (Form)
Player Involvement
Preparing a Testimony/Worksheet (Print off for Players)
Evaluating Speaking Requests (Print off for Players)
Speaking Request (Form)
Testimony Card Information (Print off for Players)
Reference
Baptismal Service
Pre-Marital Counseling and Wedding Ceremony
Grief Counseling
False Doctrine
DISCIPLESHIP IS IMPERATIVE TO BASEBALL CHAPEL
The following handbook is prepared for the purpose of making disciple makers. While there are procedures and policies included, our vision is environmental and relational. We encourage you to create two distinct environments using your gifts, abilities, experiences and personality.
First, create an environment of relationships, progressing from the first handshake to ongoing ministry such as chapel services, group bible studies, lunch or golf.
View this environment as you in front of them, progressing to you along side them.
“We proclaim him, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone perfect in Christ” (Colossians 1:28).
Second, create an environment for established relationships. These are more intimate and interactive, such as one on one studies and training to share their faith.
View this environment as you along side them, progressing to them in front of others.
“And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust
to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others” (2Timothy 2:2).
It is evident throughout the Gospels that Jesus intentionally created environments in which
He engaged His disciples. In John 15, Jesus gives us a glimpse into the progression and multiplication of His relationships, first with His Father and second with His disciples.
Invitation – Jesus initiated relationships
“You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit—fruit that will last… If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you” (15:16,19).
Intimacy – Jesus nurtured relationships
“As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love… Greater love has no one than this that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command” (15:9,13-14).
Instruction – Jesus taught relationship
“I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you” (15:15).
Independence – Jesus empowers us in relationships
“When the Counselor comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who goes out from the Father, he will testify about me” (15: 26).
Ministry Description
and Responsibilities
MINISTRY DESCRIPTION
“Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, serving as overseers—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock” (1Peter 5:2-3).
As a Baseball Chapel Minister you are called by God and appointed by Baseball Chapel as the spiritual leader of the team. Your contact should not be limited to only those who attend chapel, but attempt to converse with every member of the team and develop a friendly rapport with each player, coach, manager, and team personnel. Be available, serve, and challenge their spiritual growth.
Chapel Services (view Chapel Service Guidelines)
▪ You are expected to conduct all home chapels. Conduct separate chapels for home team, visiting team and offer to meet with umpires. (view Baseball Culture)
▪ In order to take advantage of any and every opportunity God provides us, you are required to be present at the ballpark for each Sunday home game, even in instances where they choose to conduct chapel for the home and/or visiting team on Saturday.
▪ Fill out chapel reports online within a day after the chapel service.
▪ Submit the name and contact information of one person to be called in the event an emergency prevents you from making it to chapel. Review in advance with this person the key policies and other information. (view Substitute Speaker Info)
▪ Arrive 3 hours prior to the scheduled start of the game each Sunday.
▪ Before each season, identify at least one player to serve as chapel rep and review expectations. (view Player Rep Expectations)
▪ Contact visiting team chapel rep to discuss schedule prior to Sunday morning.
▪ Insure chapels never run over the time allotted; double check the schedule.
Discipleship
▪ Be at the ballpark once a week in addition to Sunday.
▪ Be aware of the different forms of communication that people respond to and be prepared to use the form each player utilizes.
▪ Make an effort to speak to each chapel attendee to understand where he is spiritually.
▪ Make every opportunity to grow deeper with at least one player per year.
▪ Provide opportunities for players (view Speaking Opportunities for Players) to share their faith and distribute helpful information to players. (view Evaluating Speaking Requests)
▪ Assist players in writing and practicing their testimony and developing a testimony baseball card. (view Preparing a Testimony and Testimony Card Order Form)
▪ Be available for ministry in the off-season: disciple a player/lead studies in your area.
▪ Develop relationships with the manager, clubbies, umpires attendant, security, minor league director/dept. , PR director/dept. Interact with other personnel on a regular basis.
Communication
▪ Major League Minister will be in touch via phone calls, emails and periodic visits.
▪ Respond to specific information as requested by BC in a timely manner.
▪ Contact other chapel ministers in your affiliate when players on your team move up or down and swap information about each player’s level of maturity and contact info. This is critical, as you have the ability to set up a relationship quickly.
▪ File in our secure web location the following information for those attending chapel: off-season contact info; names of those planning to play winter ball in Latin America; names of those who request help in finding a church home. (view Player Contact Form)
▪ File annual documents: partnership agreement, gift disclosure, profile update.
Ministry to Latino Players
▪ Because of the large percentage of Latinos in baseball, it is important to have someone who speaks Spanish fluently minister to these players.
Women’s Ministry
▪ Provide the women’s ministry leader with contacts and personally introduce her to key team personnel such as office staff, parking lot and security guards, family lounge coordinator.
▪ Discuss procedures/protocol regarding entering the ballpark, parking passes, admittance to family lounge, etc.
▪ If necessary, walk her through the website login procedure, how to report, print chapel handouts and order materials.
▪ Discuss the materials and topics she plans to use with the women.
▪ Generally you will be more informed and up to date with trades, so it is important that you communicate personnel changes with her. Information regarding players’ wives and children will be invaluable to her.
▪ As you meet new players ask for contact info of the wives/girlfriends and pass along to her.
▪ Communicate regularly with her regarding the ministry and offer assistance when needed.
Spring Training Ministry
▪ Provide chapel services starting on the first Sunday of full squad workouts.
▪ If there is a Bible study established (as there is in Arizona and some Florida cities), inform players of dates/time and encourage them to attend; if there is no study, work with the major league minister to establish one.
▪ Minor league players should be invited to attend the Bible study established in February (they may need transportation) or you might arrange a weekly study at the team hotel.
▪ During Extended Spring and Instructional League, if there are no Sunday games or workouts, offer chapel on Saturday or Monday morning and/or hold a mid-week Bible study at the team hotel. Also, encourage players to attend church on Sunday and provide transportation if possible.
MINISTERING TO SPANISH SPEAKING PLAYERS
Teams try to provide for practical needs of players who come from Latin America. This includes legal document assistance, English classes, financial planning, medical assistance, and housing. The following are suggestions of things you can do to assist these players, but help them to become independent. Help them to understand the culture and learn about theirs. Also, it is very important to realize that each Latin American country has a unique culture.
Provide Chapel Services/Bible Studies in Spanish
▪ Give them a Spanish Bible and show them what to read and how to use it.
▪ Print Spanish materials off the BC website and order Spanish materials.
▪ It is important to know that many of these men are illiterate (25% have attended high school compared to their American counterpart of whom 75% have attended college).
Housing
▪ Help them find housing with Christian families. However, since many teams actively pursue this, be certain to discuss this with the GM first to be sure he is ok with you arranging housing.
▪ Make sure the situation is healthy and the players are not being taken advantage of. There was an instance where four Latino players were living in an unfinished basement sleeping on the floor.
Transportation
▪ Help them get their drivers license (and perhaps teach them to drive). Recommend a mechanic if they have a vehicle or how to purchase a good used car if they are interested.
▪ Take them to a bank if they want to open an account, or to Wal-mart to buy money orders.
▪ Drive them to store for groceries, clothes, etc.
▪ Take them to doctor, dentist, barber.
▪ They may need to go to a Laundromat, or perhaps take them to your house for a meal and let them do their laundry. You may need to teach them how to do laundry since in most of their countries, their clothes would be washed by hand by their mother.
▪ If they have their own car, suggest places they might go for some of the above.
Holidays
▪ They might enjoy celebrating holidays such as July 4th with you. Learn about their own holidays and if they fall during the season, celebrate with them.
Code of Conduct and Policies
PARTNERSHIP AGREEMENT
My desire to partner in ministry with Baseball Chapel is indicated by the following commitments:
My Commitment to Christ
I have acknowledged that I am a sinner and have, through faith, received God’s gift of eternal life and forgiveness for my sins by personally trusting solely upon Jesus Christ’s finished work on the cross, not my works, thereby receiving Christ as my Savior and Lord.
My Commitment to the Scriptures
I believe God’s Word is the ultimate authority concerning faith in God and living before Him for individual believers and for the body of Christ. I strive to use sound judgment based on biblical principles. I agree with the statement of faith adopted by Baseball Chapel without reservation and will refrain from advocating contrary doctrines. I am committed to disciple-making from the Word of God.
My Commitment to a Godly Life
I desire to live my life in grateful response to God’s love and therefore seek to enhance my relationship with Him and to exemplify my love for Him. This includes seeking to live a life that demonstrates spiritual growth and honors God in my personal habits. I strive to live by the qualifications for leadership outlined in 1 Timothy 3:1-12 and Titus 1:6-9 and participate in a local church.
My Commitment to Baseball Chapel
Partnership with the People of Baseball Chapel
I acknowledge that God has led me to partnership with this ministry and I will be accountable to those whom He has placed in leadership. I realize this role is pastoral and recognize God has placed great responsibility on those called to shepherd His flock. I understand that I am a steward of God’s work and will carry out responsibilities to the best of my ability and giftedness. I will submit to leadership’s direction, insofar as they do not violate clear teaching of Scripture. I agree to comply with the policies of Baseball Chapel, including the financial policy which prohibits me from soliciting, accepting or borrowing funds or gifts from active baseball personnel for personal or ministry support. If anything prevents me from fulfilling the expectations I will take the initiative to resign. As a representative of Baseball Chapel and of the Lord I commit to conduct myself in a godly and professional manner before players and other personnel, adhering to the Baseball Chapel code of conduct.
Prayer for the Ministry of Baseball Chapel
I commit to uphold the ministry and leadership of Baseball Chapel in prayer and solicit others to pray for me as I minister to the team I have been called to serve.
Peace in the Family of Baseball Chapel
I will pursue unity and peace. I realize issues occasionally arise that are not central to the gospel
and understand it is necessary to keep non-essential issues from becoming divisive and agree not to
major on them in my teaching with Baseball Chapel. If there are decisions or policies made by
leadership with which I do not understand or agree with, I will go to them directly and make my
concerns know rather than going to others (especially players) with the possibility of sowing seeds
of discord. I will guard against slander, gossip, strife and bitterness in disagreements with others,. I
understand that Baseball Chapel has been raised up by God and granted access by Major League
and Minor League Baseball. Therefore, if Baseball Chapel determines for any reason that another
should serve in my place I will not attempt to hold on to what is the Lord’s ministry.
CODE OF CONDUCT AND POLICIES
Access to ballparks is a privilege entrusted to Baseball Chapel by Minor League Baseball and must never be abused. Your personal appearance and conduct must present an image worthy of a minister and your reputation must be above reproach. Any compromise of integrity will negatively impact Baseball Chapel. Violation of the following policies will result in your suspension and possible dismissal from Baseball Chapel.
Asking or Accepting
Do not ask for or accept anything, including autographs or equipment. A special need should be taken to the team; do not ask players directly. Do not eat or drink anything in the clubhouse even if offered by a player or clubhouse person, politely decline. See separate financial policy.
Baptism
One-on-one discipleship is required before a Baseball Chapel Minister can conduct a baptism. This discipleship need only be one study, but must include a direct affirmation of the necessity of repenting from sins and a commitment to follow Jesus Christ in obedience to His commands. Expenses related to a baptismal service should be covered by the individual, which should be made clear before you agree to participate.
Clubhouse
You are only permitted in the clubhouse from the period between 3 ½ hours before until 45 minutes (or an hour in some cases) prior to the scheduled start of a game. You must never be in the clubhouse when it is officially closed – this includes during rain delays. We prefer that once batting practice begins, you vacate and not return to the clubhouse except if it is necessary to conduct chapel after BP. Post-game visits to the clubhouse should be extremely rare and only if there is a compelling reason. Training room and players lounge are always off limits and even if players invite you in, league rules prohibit it, so stay out. If a situation necessitates that you violate these rules, (i.e. if a tragedy occurs and you are asked to meet with the team or the team moves the time slot for chapel making in necessary to conduct chapel later than normal) you must report this to our office so we are aware of the incident and the reason. Never take a camera into the clubhouse. Turn your cell phone off while in the clubhouse. Be sure everyone understands you are available, but be very careful not to be intrusive. At no time should you loiter and do not sit down on the couches or at a player’s locker. Under no circumstance should you ever reach into a player’s locker. If a player wants to show you something ask him to get it; if he tells you to take something out of his locker, ask a team official to get it for you. If someone requests counseling, look for another time/ place to meet. Defer to a reporter who is waiting to interview a player with whom you are talking- respect their need to get work done and do not allow a player to use you as a “shield” from the media.
Communion
Because of the variety of denominations represented among chapel attendees and the possibility of having non-believers feeling singled out, communion is not to be offered during any chapel service. If you wish to celebrate The Lord’s Supper at some point during the season, prepare the believers for a special time of fellowship apart from the chapel service.
Confidentiality
Never discuss anything said by players and baseball personnel or anything you see and hear in the clubhouse or give information about players (phone #, etc.) to anyone other than BC staff.
Credential/ID
The Baseball Chapel ID badge is an official credential authorized by Minor League Baseball and must be worn and visible at all times at the ballpark. Although this credential allows you entrance to your minor league ballpark, you should still stop in at the office to say hello, let them know you are there and build relationships. Never give it to anyone else for any reason. This ID badge is not a recognized credential in the Major Leagues or Spring Training.
Dress Code
Never wear shorts, jeans, t-shirts, sandals or tennis shoes while ministering at the ballpark.
Field / Dugout / Press Box
If you are on the field or in the dugout prior to the game, wait until batting practice is over to approach players and staff. During batting practice, stay away from the area immediately around the batting cage and be careful of thrown baseballs and players swinging bats. Do not engage players in long conversations. Do not take a camera on the field. The same hours apply to the field and dugout that apply to the clubhouse – you must vacate 45-60 minutes before game-time. Do not sit in the press box or eat in the pressroom without approval from the team.
Guests/Substitute Speakers
Under no circumstance are you to bring anyone to restricted areas of the ballpark (field, clubhouse, dugout, tunnels/concourses near clubhouses, etc.). This includes friends, family, ministry associates. You are expected to conduct all home chapels including playoffs yourself and no allowance is made for the use of a guest speaker. You must submit the name and contact information of one person to be called in the event of a last-minute emergency which prevents you from making it to chapel. In the rare instance that you have an illness or family problem causing you to miss a home chapel, you must inform our office in advance of the name of the person you would like to have substitute.
Logo
Weekly chapel handouts re to be printed on the BC logo paper we make available to you. Business cards listing all men serving Baseball Chapel in your affiliate are also provided for your use. You are not to print the BC logo on any other material or apparel without written permission from our office.
Media Access/Interviews
Our purpose is to serve the players who desire to worship God, but are unable to attend church services. We do not seek publicity for the ministry and must protect the privacy of those attending chapel. Therefore, it is our policy not to allow members of the media or any type of recording device, such as cameras and video or audio recorders in any chapel service or bible study. All requests by members of the media to sit in on chapel for the purpose of doing a news story must be denied. Explain that we provide a private setting for the team to conduct services and this is not an opportunity for media under any circumstance. If a member of the media contacts you asking to write a story about Baseball Chapel or wanting to feature your role, inform them it is the policy of the ministry not to grant interviews and refer them to our office. Direct them to the player who serves as your team’s chapel rep, but do not provide names of others who attend chapel. You should not allow them to photograph you or take images of Baseball Chapel activity. This includes requests by team broadcasters and publications.
Sunday Presence
The baseball community have come to expect the presence of BC at ballparks each Sunday during the season. In order to take advantage of any and every opportunity God provides us, it is required that you be present at the ballpark for each Sunday home game (even in instances where they have chosen to conduct chapel for the home and/or visiting team on Saturday).
Umpires
The NEW POLICY which must be adhered to exactly, is that you must ask each umpire if he wishes to participate and each umpire must give you an affirmation. One umpire cannot speak for his partner(s). IF each umpire says yes, then you may conduct chapel and/or prayer in the umpire’s dressing room. BUT if just one umpire says no, then you must ask the other umpire(s) to go outside their dressing room for chapel/prayer. The weekly chapel report form will now contain a section whereby you must confirm that you received an affirmation from each umpire if you conducted chapel in the umpires dressing room.
Unity In an effort to preserve unity among those we minister, you are to refrain from propagating any teaching or practice that may cause division. People of many different backgrounds, teaching, influences and experiences serve with Baseball Chapel and make up our “congregation”, therefore perspectives on various matters differ. While all must agree with our doctrinal statement, there are differing views on various scriptural teachings. Be understanding, sensitive, kind and loving with others who may disagree with your stance on an issue. The spirit of this policy does not require one to evade questions from those who inquire about these issues. It is not meant to forbid an expression of personal conviction, but rather to enable us to concentrate on achieving the primary purpose of promoting the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Weddings
Several sessions of premarital counseling are required before a Baseball Chapel Minister can officiate at a couple’s wedding. The length (minimum two hours) and content of this counseling may vary given the age and previous marital status of the couple. Counseling should address God’s perspective on the most common areas of marital problems: communication, sexual intimacy, finances and extended family issues (a significant issue with baseball couples). Expenses should be covered by the couple. Make that clear before you agree to participate.
FINANCIAL POLICY
Adopted by unanimous consent of the Board of Directors in 2001
Baseball Chapel ministers and their spouses are not to solicit, accept, or borrow funds or gifts from active baseball players/personnel or their foundations for personal or ministry support. You are also not permitted to involve baseball personnel in investments or network marketing.
There is, however, an allowance for unsolicited gifts of cash or materials up to $500 (including gifts given to your family), but the total of such gifts may not exceed $2,000 per calendar year. All such gifts must be reported annually.
Anyone wishing to make financial contributions should be made aware that all donations support the needs of the entire ministry and instructed to make checks to Baseball Chapel and sent to 1586 Gulf Blvd, #2503 Clearwater, FL 33767.
Purpose of the Financial Policy
▪ You are appointed by and serve under the direction of Baseball Chapel.
▪ Players should not ever be in a position to question your motive. Allowing gifts directly to individuals the potential for and the appearance of improper motive exists.
▪ It is unhealthy for those serving with us to be in an environment that enables them to compromise ethics. Without this policy there is a greater likelihood of financial abuse, especially given the current salary structure in baseball, especially in the major leagues and the large bonuses being paid to rookies.
SPRING TRAINING GUIDELINES
If you make a trip to spring training, have fun, represent Christ well and adhere to the following guidelines:
▪ Let your major league minister know your plans.
▪ You will not have access to major league camp and you are not to seek access.
▪ Contact the minor league spring training chapel guy to let him know you are coming. He can show you around minor league spring camp, where to park, introduce you to key people, and let you know what access you might have to the minor league players. Ask him if you can sit in on chapel, but do not ask to speak as this is his responsibility. Meet the manager and coaches your team for the upcoming season.
▪ Players are on the field from early morning to the late afternoon. Once games start, their days become much longer. Generally it is best to meet players just outside the clubhouse.
▪ If you are issued access to minor league camp you must wear it when on the premises. Regardless of how long your trip is, only request a credential for 2 days. During all other days you are at the minor league complex, stay in the restricted areas and do not attempt to go anywhere fans are not permitted.
▪ Players in major league camp whom you have a relationship with should be met with away from the field. You could ask the Spring Training chapel guy to pass your cell # to specific players you want to contact and allow them to contact you if they have time to get together during your trip.
▪ If you wish to watch a major league game you should not ask players for tickets.
▪ Spring Training is a casual place, but we still adhere to our policies, including dress code in all instances when you are at the minor league facility to see players/staff/ etc.
Ballpark Ministry
BASEBALL CULTURE
How do we approach those in this unique environment?
“Serve those who want what you have to offer and love those who don’t” (Walt Wiley)
Be aware, sensitive to, and respectful of people’s time - remember they are on the job. Since we minister to everyone we come in contact with, get to know the names of as many people as possible around the ballpark. Ask for names, write them down, remember them, even keep them on an index card in your pocket and as you arrive at the ballpark - review it.
Front Office
▪ Most Minor League teams are independently owned and Major League teams sign contracts to partner with minor league affiliates and they own the player’s contracts.
▪ The Minor League office is a very busy place and while it is an informal atmosphere, it is professional and there is a protocol when you enter the ballpark. Introduce yourself to everyone as the “chapel guy” rather than the minister or chaplain.
▪ BC has issued you a credential from Minor League Baseball which grants you access, but as a courtesy, check in with the General Manager (GM) when you are at the ballpark. Try to develop good rapport with the GM but respect his time and know when to back off. At the beginning of the season ask where to park on game days, how to get to each clubhouse and where you will have chapel. If chapel is held in the dugout it is important to ask the GM if the music can be turned down for that short time.
▪ Because we minister in their work place, we may hear about management decisions and player’s salaries. Avoid discussions concerning these areas. Relationships will be compromised if you comment on player/management issues.
Security
▪ You will most likely see guards in these areas: Parking Lot – a friendly greeting using the persons name can go a long way when building relationships. Gate - you will get to know the gate security very well over the course of the summer. Clubhouse – discuss any access issues with the GM not the security guards.
Clubhouse
▪ Be aware of the culture you are walking into. It is not Sunday School. Clubhouses have dirty magazines sitting around and what comes out of many players’ mouths is offensive. We are there to encourage not condemn. We are in their workplace and many, in fact a majority of people in there wish we were not around - a minister makes them feel uncomfortable.
▪ The clubhouse attendant (clubby) is very busy and practically lives at the ballpark. They have tremendous responsibility and get little credit for what they do, so they need encouragement. They run the clubhouse and tend to be protective of their territory, so it is important to get to know them. Invite them to chapel.
▪ One of the first things to find out is when it is ok to be in the clubhouse and when it is not. Do not enter the clubhouse earlier than 3 hours before the scheduled game time. Leave the clubhouse 1 hour before scheduled game time (even when the game is delayed). Be aware of the time and leave the clubhouse before you are asked to leave.
▪ Turn your cell phone off while in the clubhouse.
▪ When chapel is held after BP it is understood that you may need to be there. But leave the clubhouse immediately after chapel and conduct any conversations outside.
Home Clubhouse
Players
▪ All minor league players are professional ball players. Never ask them when they will go pro, as this is offensive to them.
▪ The players are very guarded because nearly everyone around them wants a piece of them. The clubhouse is their sanctuary while at the ballpark.
▪ Be relational but do not be intrusive. Do not try to fit in, especially by telling them stories about your athletic days or picking up a bat or glove. It is refreshing to players to have someone who does not discuss baseball with them - let them bring it up.
▪ Do not approach players if they are undressing, or interrupt them if they are playing cards, dominos, etc.
▪ Let players prepare for their job. Become familiar with the surroundings. When we’re in the clubhouse, try to seek out the ones who don’t come to chapel just to say hello.
▪ Be careful not to engage in lengthy conversations at a player’s locker. This can often make non-chapel players feel intruded upon and sometimes makes it uncomfortable for the player you are speaking with. Suggest to a player wanting to have a discussion that you move to a corner of the dugout or another location.
▪ Do not spend too much time in the clubhouse. If the player you are looking for is not there, leave and come back later. The one who lingers is typically called a green fly.
▪ Never ask for or take things from the players. You are there to serve, not to be served. Do not give them any reason to think you are there for anything but to encourage and equip them. Lockers are totally off limits. Even if the player tells you to get something from his locker, politely decline or ask the clubby. Lockers are “sacred.”
▪ There a few places which are completely off-limits to you including the training room, food room, bathroom and weight room (unless chapel is held in these venues).
▪ If the food area or training room are in the middle of the clubhouse stay away from.
▪ Never take any food or drink from the clubhouse even if offered to you.
▪ Refrain from using baseball slang (i.e. “sweet dinger last night you really popped that one out of here.” or “man, you’ve got a great heater”), just say ‘nice game’.
▪ Do not use the player’s nicknames unless they tell you to.
▪ After we gain the respect of management and players there is often the temptation to feel that we have earned certain rights. However, we have a responsibility to maintain integrity and keep the respect of those we serve. Therefore, guard against becoming too comfortable and taking liberties. Remain low-key and humble and do not call attention to yourself.
Manager/Coaching Staff
▪ Talk with the manager and let him know that you are there to serve. Reassure him that you will be mindful of the time so chapel does not interfere with their schedule. Ask him to pull you aside if there is anything that needs to be changed and let him know that you will not be offended if he asks you to alter your practice.
▪ Do not refer to them as “COACH.” call them by their first names. Baseball is an informal game. Even referring to them as “sir” or “Mr.” sounds odd to them. Feel comfortable using their first names. However, if the manager is a much older man, you might ask him how he prefers you to address him.
▪ Let the manager know that you are willing to meet with him and the coaches earlier if they desire to attend chapel but can’t make it at the normal time.
▪ Many coaches attend chapel; many do not. The pitching coach is usually in the bullpen with a pitcher most of the afternoon before the game. Home chapel is generally after batting practice (BP) and that is also the time when players and the hitting coach are in the cages. You will have a revolving door in chapel. Do not let it discourage you.
▪ Be aware of the schedule including report time, stretch, BP and infield. Rainy days will be different, they will hit in the cages. Some Managers cancel BP on Sundays. The manager will usually post the times in the clubhouse. Often, if Saturday game is rained out a double-header is scheduled for Sunday, so check for the best time to hold chapel.
▪ Rovers are coaches who travel to all the minor league affiliates to instruct the players and watch the coaches. They usually stand out because they dress in the major league uniform not the minor league team’s uniform. Treat them as any other coach.
Trainer
▪ He may be the busiest guy in the clubhouse. Build a relationship, be available, but be very careful of his time. If the trainer is a Christian, be intentional about other ways to encourage him because he will rarely have time for chapel.
Visiting Clubhouse
▪ Be aware of the time team busses arrive at the ballpark and the schedule for stretch, BP and infield.
▪ The first and most important thing to do concerning the visiting team is get the name of the player rep. If there is no name listed on your web menu, call the minister for that team and ask who you should look for. Google the player or look him up on the team’s website for his jersey number and see what he looks like to make it easier to find him.
▪ Most players and coaches do not know our terminology, so do not ask them who is the “chapel rep.” It is much more relational to introduce yourself to a player, engage in a brief conversation and most likely he will lead you to the guy with whom you need to speak. You can also introduce yourself to the manager and ask him who you should talk to in order to set up a time for chapel.
▪ Usually the visiting team chapel is held in a different location than the home chapel. Establish the time for your home team chapel before setting a time with the other team.
▪ Get to know the clubby (different than the home clubby). He will be an asset to you because he sets up the player’s lockers, so he will be familiar with their names and can point you in the direction of the player you are seeking. He is part of your organization, not the visiting team, so he will be there for every home game.
Umpires
▪ These men are on the road the entire season and rarely see their family.
▪ They room and travel together. They can be a tight knit group or things can be tense if they do not get along (they do not choose partners, but are assigned to work together).
▪ They want to get to the big leagues as bad as the players.
▪ Generally, they do not arrive until one hour before the game.
▪ At some of the lower levels the umpires do not dress at the field and come straight to the ballpark, which makes it very difficult to have ministry opportunities.
▪ Never comment on any of their calls.
▪ Do not call them “UMP”, “BLUE” or “REF”
▪ Some umpires appreciate you stopping by midweek to say hello. Invite them to eat, golf, take them home-made cookies.
▪ Do not pray that God will help them see calls clearly! (It’s been done)
▪ Knock on the door to let them know you are available and invite them to meet in a location other than their dressing room.
▪ Some umpires who did not wish to participate in a brief chapel or prayer time but feel pressured to participate when another umpire says yes to your offer and thus “trapped” in their own room, therefore you are absolutely not to conduct services, including prayer, in the umpires room.
▪ You may enter the room to talk briefly (2-3 minutes) and ask them if they have anything you can be praying about for them after you leave.
▪ They are most open to having you pray for them and their families and perhaps read a short passage of scripture. However, some would like the whole chapel message.
Umpire’s Attendant
▪ The attendant is generally an assistant clubby. He can be a real asset when it comes to meeting umpires. If you develop a friendly rapport, you can let him know when you will be by the room on Sunday and he can let the umpires know.
▪ Welcome them to stay for chapel with the umpires.
▪ Give him your cell phone number.
▪ Do not post your name/number in the room or leave the box of books without his ok.
▪ Access to the major league umpires is usually gained through the security guard at the door, not through the clubby.
Field/Dugouts/Practice areas
▪ During batting practice it is generally acceptable to be in the dugout, around the dirt track in front of the dugout and backstop. Stay away from the batting cage and do not step on any tarps covering the grass. Be very careful as players are warming up: players are swinging bats and balls are being hit and thrown, often missing their target.
▪ Do not touch bats, gloves or other equipment.
▪ Do not take gum, seeds, water, etc. from the dugout. These are for the players only.
▪ The bullpen and hitting tunnels/cages under the stadium may be a place for chapel, but any other times stay away from this area.
▪ Do not hinder your ministry by requesting photos with the players. While you may enjoy the game and appreciate the players’ abilities we are to serve only.
Chapel Services - Home/Visitors/Umpires/Ballpark Personnel
▪ Establish the chapel time for your team first, then the visiting team, then the umpires.
▪ Some attend chapel as a rabbit’s foot but at least they are being exposed to the Word.
▪ There will be guys who do not know how to navigate through the bible, so use the handout to mark the page of the bible you plan to refer to or direct them to the specific page number in the bible provided by BC. Also, since some may not know there are different versions use the same version as the BC Bible.
▪ No media except team broadcasters are allowed in chapel. (view Media Policy)
▪ You will lose the audience and some credibility if you use baseball stories, acronyms, illustrations, sermon titles and so on (Like “How To Hit Satan’s Curve Ball” or “Hit A Home Run For Jesus”). Keep it under 15 minutes, even believers get antsy around the 12-minute mark. There are managers and coaches who think it is a big distraction, so never infringe on the baseball schedule (BP, meetings, etc)
▪ Do not pray for a win or to beat the other team.
▪ Do not have players sign in, but record the names of the players for home chapels, and enter them correctly on your chapel reports online.
▪ Do not feel pressured to list the names by the first chapel, but by the second or third chapel you should know their names. If you have a relationship with a key player you may get a roster and have him inconspicuously check off the players in attendance.
▪ Avoid the use of derogatory slang - words that may be commonly used by players but have no place within Baseball Chapel.
▪ Refrain from using Christian terminology unless you explain the meaning.
Relationships with Players/Coaches/Wives
Communication
▪ Be sure to get contact information from your player rep(s).
▪ Never give out personal contact information, not even e-mail addresses without permission (with the exception of contact info Baseball Chapel has you gather from the players).
▪ Do not get discouraged if they do not return calls.
▪ Most players utilize text messaging for communication, but don’t over-do it.
▪ It is not normal for players to initiate contact, so it will be important for you to make the first move. Encourage, but do not smother.
▪ Contact them periodically in the off-season, but use discernment based on the relationship.
Outside Requests
▪ Direct media to the clubs media department. Even if they are a Christian media outlet.
▪ There will be times when a ministry knows your BC role and will ask for a player to speak. If you have a player that can share his faith in front of a group, encourage him to do so and give him a copy of the document we prepared to help players deal with speaking requests. (view Evaluating Speaking Requests)
Family Time
▪ Do not contact married players the day before or the day after a road trip.
▪ Never call players before 11:00 am unless they ask you to.
▪ Be aware of their schedule. Children may stay up until 11 pm or midnight. Players are up late and sleep late then go to the ballpark. Wives have the brunt of the household.
▪ Do not get discouraged if your requests for studies or ministry time are turned down. The families protect what little time they have together.
▪ Easter is a time when the players may be on the road or their families may not yet be in for the season. This would be a good time to invite families or players to church and/or lunch/dinner. Fourth of July is another good time for ministry.
Wives/Girlfriends
▪ We encourage you to help find a qualified women to minister to the wives/ girlfriends.
▪ At the lower levels, most players are not married. Girlfriends visit, but very few live in the city with the players during the summer. When they are there, do not be surprised at the fact that players (even some Christians) live with their girlfriends.
▪ Many wives move every few months and have to start fresh building relationships.
▪ They are the ones who most often deal with logistics, especially if they have children.
▪ They will want to know: Areas to live, Hospitals, Doctors, Churches (with childcare), shopping, Restaurants, Grocery stores, and directions to the ballpark.
▪ The women enjoy watching their husbands and boyfriends play. There is downtime during the game to chat, but be aware of when their man is on the field pitching or hitting. Do not park yourself in their section unless you are invited to sit with them.
Other Opportunities
▪ Seek opportunities to serve those who do not attend chapel in times of need (injury, bereavement, etc). Use cards, notes, books, visits, etc.
▪ Get to know booster club members, but know that most are avid fans and want the closeness and relationships for personal reasons, not ministry. They serve the players, but they can be intrusive and possessive. Do not talk about who attends or does not attend chapel. Direct them to players for questions pertaining to ministry. They generally have a BBQ at least once a season for the players to mingle with people outside their culture.
▪ Most teams have a welcome dinner or banquet to introduce the team to the community. This could be a great introduction to the team not just the Christian guys. Acquire the date and time from the GM and make yourself available for the invocation if he desires. If you do attend, check the team's website, or local newspaper for the roster/photos so you can be familiar with the names and faces of the players.
▪ Many minor league ball clubs have host homes for the players during the season. Contact the front office for information about hosting players. You or people from your church may consider being a host family.
▪ In the case of an emergency on the field or if a player is taken to the hospital, let the front office know you are available. If it is a serious injury, and he is taken into the training room and if the trainer allows it, you may visit with the player to pray. Hospital visits are a great way to show how we care for the players and their families. If you hear of a front office staff member who is ill, fulfill that need for encouragement.
▪ Team events such as a welcome banquet, BBQs, golf tournaments or player appearances occur throughout the season. Do not invite yourself to these events.
▪ Never use players’ names or your relationship with them to advance your own agenda. Because of what we do for the team, we may be asked to speak or participate in church related events and that is fine. Use your association to spread the gospel, but use your position for the glory of God, not yourself. While we serve the organizations, it may be that they do not recognize us as the “Team Chaplain”. We must explain our position to others as serving with Baseball Chapel and assigned to your particular organization.
One-on-One
▪ The focus of our ministry is discipleship. If you invest time equipping one player you have had a great ministry for that season. There is going to be a far greater impact if we equip a few players than if we try to get as many into chapel as possible.
▪ If players are interested in Bible studies, suggest holding them at the ballpark. Players often arrive at the ballpark early in the afternoon; they often eat at the ballpark, which may be a good time for the studies.
▪ Although relationships are built, we are to make disciples of Jesus Christ not disciples of Baseball Chapel or of us personally. These men will be moving on to different organizations or moving up and down so it is vital to contact the other Baseball Chapel Minister where they are heading and let them know what kind of disciple he is getting.
CHAPEL SERVICE GUIDELINES
Topics featured in the weekly handouts are selected and written by the BC staff featuring issues we believe our audience must be exposed to throughout the season. While you must copy and distribute the BC handout at each chapel service, you are not required to speak on those topics. (view Chapel Topic Schedule)
Handouts (copy on logo paper we provide)
Handouts are posted on the website early in the year for you to review in advance. If you have any question about the content please contact our office. Before chapel, mark the passage in the bible with the handout. The back panel is generally left blank for you to put an outline of your message, announcement, prayer requests, etc. Make enough copies for both chapels, umpires, and to give to others you see at the ballpark on a regular basis.
Distribute Bibles
Reference the page number of the text you will use to make it easy to quickly turn to. Bibles are NIV English/Spanish New Testaments w/Psalms and Proverbs. If you speak from an Old Testament passage please print out and distribute the text. Consider finding a place where you can store the Bibles at the ballpark instead of carrying them back and forth each week, but be sure to take them home with you at the end of the season.
Scripture Reading
Involve different players by asking someone to read the Scripture verse on the handout at the start of chapel, but be sure to ask in advance since many are uncomfortable reading aloud.
Prayer
Open and close in prayer. Ask for prayer requests. Some more mature players feel comfortable opening in prayer, but always ask in advance - never put them on the spot.
Message
It is imperative to influence people with God's Word and present a message that is relevant and challenges Christ-like living. Messages must be targeted to Christians and non-Christians. Since time constraints limit us to 12-15 minute chapels, messages must be concise and focus on one main point, with a challenge to practical application. (view Effective Teaching) Avoid divisive issues so that you can focus on foundational Christian doctrine. Issues related to particular denominations or controversial issues (spiritual gifts, mode of baptism, election) will cause players to lose focus on the main message: the centrality of Jesus Christ. Specific weeks must be targeted for an evangelistic message with an offer to respond. Messages should not be targeted to prepare them to play that day, but should challenge and encourage them in their relationship with Jesus. (view Baseball Culture)
Watch Your Time
Making players late for batting practice or a meeting can cause management to deny the opportunity for chapel and cause problems for our ministry beyond your team. Never run over the time you have been allotted. Schedules often change at the last minute so be flexible and adapt on the spot. Be prepared in advance to cut your message down to 5 minutes if necessary.
CHAPEL REP EXPECTATIONS
You need to sit down with players whom you ask to serve as Chapel Reps prior to the season. Discuss the expectations you have of him which are far more than just working out a time for chapel each Sunday. Discuss the importance of discipleship and your desire to encourage and equip him in his relationship with Christ. Specific issues to discuss with him include:
▪ Ask for his cell number and email address and enter them in the critical information form. Discuss how he best communicates since many players now prefer texting. Talk about how much contact he feels comfortable having you initiate. Put his number in your phone right away and call him then ask him to save your number so he recognizes you when you call. Let him know that his number will be given to the Baseball Chapel staff and to the chapel guys in your league to contact him to coordinate chapel times in their city.
▪ Remind him how crucial it is chapel services or bible studies never interfere with BP, meetings, etc. Ask him to double-check schedules each week with the bench coach to make sure he knows what time chapel must end. Tell him not to hesitate to give you a signal or even stop you or another chapel minister if there is ever a danger of running over.
▪ Encourage him to personally invite players, trainers, coaches, clubbies, etc. to chapel in addition to posting the chapel time in a visible place. Ask him to make an announcement right before chapel and make a final sweep through the clubhouse to remind those who generally attend. If he is one of the first to arrive at chapel and parks himself in a chair until you begin, that will almost guarantee fewer players attend.
▪ Get his input on your plan for the content of a bible study during the season. Find out what day will work best for the team and what is the best location for it to be held. Work out a plan to best encourage him to invite teammates to attend.
▪ Ask for his involvement in the chapel service: open in prayer, read Scripture, share his testimony at a chapel where you plan to present the gospel.
▪ Encourage him to pray for his teammates by name. Ask him to pray for you as you prepare to lead each chapel and study.
▪ Exhort him to set an example in speech and actions both in and out of the clubhouse .
▪ Depending on his level of spiritual maturity, encourage him to lead a bible study on the road and supply him with materials to do so.
▪ Ask about his comfort level sharing his faith and work with him to provide opportunities to do so based on what you learn from him. Work with him on sharing his testimony and encourage and help him to prepare a testimony baseball card.
▪ Invite him to make suggestions to BC staff members on ways to improve the ministry.
SPEAKING OPPORTUNITIES FOR PLAYERS
Participating in outreach events is a part of the process of making disciple makers. Proactively seek opportunities that allow players to use their platform and encourage their participation. The event itself is not important, but the growth the player will experience by sharing his faith.
▪ If you have regular outreach events in place, do not assume that all Christian players you approach will be a fit for that particular outreach. Ask about his desires and giftedness.
▪ Early on in a player’s walk he may recognize the necessity to share his story, but has no clue how to put it together. Players can explain the fundamentals of the game easily, but struggle to speak about their faith. We have prepared several documents to assist players. (view Preparing Your Testimony and Evaluating Speaking Requests)
▪ Players do not have to be mature in their faith to participate. They can attend and observe a more mature player or just answer questions. A good way to give young believers confidence when they share is to use an interview approach by asking them a set of predetermined questions. They can be available for autographs. Testimony baseball cards are good to have for this. (view Testimony Baseball Cards)
▪ Though some players are young in their faith, they are competitive by nature and can be challenged and stretched. Don’t send them out to the wolves, but guide them to events that you know will build confidence, then stretch them some more. Challenge those who are comfortable speaking to share a devotion/message before sharing their testimony.
Ballpark Outreaches
Many teams have events such as faith day and some work with Third Coast Sports to promote a day at the ballpark which churches use as an outreach to hear testimonies from the players. You can have an active role in this event or just be there for the players to help and encourage them. You may be asked to serve as a liaison for the players and to have an active role during the event by giving the plan of salvation and/or invitation in addition to introducing the players.
Baseball Clinics
There are opportunities for churches and other organizations to use clinics as an outreach in which players can teach the fundamentals of the game and also share their faith.
School Events
You can set these up rather easily if there is a player looking for places to share with young people. You may also be approached by those in charge of school events looking for a player to come and speak. These events may include Christian School chapels or classroom visits, assemblies, and after school or lunchtime functions put on by campus ministries. Q&A, testimonies and maybe autographs can be a part of these events.
Church Events
Youth groups, men’s breakfast, Sunday evening services, VBS or other church functions can be ideal venues for players to share their faith. Events like these are also ideal to talk about the ministry of Baseball Chapel (show BC informational video) and then have a player speak.
EFFECTIVE TEACHING
1st Century Principles For Reaching The 21st Century (Acts 17:16-34)
Notes from a message by Greg Laurie
Our job is not to make the Bible relevant. You need to believe it is relevant and work at communicating it better. Below are eight principles to follow:
1. Effective communication must begin with a God-given burden.
2. The effective communicator must know the people he is speaking to.
Know what they are being influenced by. Take time to hear their questions and issues. We are more known for what we are against than for what we are for - Jesus.
3. You must be culturally relevant. Build bridges, use technology. So many young people today have no biblical reference so you need to explain and define. Use biblical language, but explain it. Don’t assume people, especially young people, know what you mean when you refer to Adam and Eve or Noah’s ark, etc. Luke 16:8 says the enemy is more shrewd in their message than we are.
4. You must arouse the interest of the listener (Acts 17:22-23)
5. Our message must be biblical. We need to unpack the Word. There is a place for illustrations, but some make that the focal point of their message and not the Word. People will develop an appetite for what you feed them.
6. Our message must focus on Christ and Him crucified and risen. (Acts 17:31).
Spurgeon said in his sermons he always made a b-line to the cross.
7. Paul preached the whole gospel (Acts 17:30-31). He spoke of judgment and repentance. Don’t leave out hell, especially in evangelistic messages. To make someone appreciate the good news, they need to understand the bad news.
8. Leave the results to God. God holds us accountable for faithfulness, not results. Do God’s work, God’s way, in God’s power.
SUBSTITUTE SPEAKER INFORMATION
Please read the following information and the BC doctrinal statement on our website prior to your speaking date.
Prepare
Be certain you understand what time to be at the ballpark, what access you will need, where to go, which player to coordinate time with, which areas are off-limits. Prepare your message with this specific audience in mind. Print BC handouts to be distributed at chapel to both teams.
Speak From God’s Word
We are committed to presenting God’s Word. Turn to the text of your message and ask players to follow along (give page #) in the Bibles we supply, which are English/Spanish NIV New Testaments w/Psalms/Proverbs. Since not everyone attending is a Christian, be sure to let them know within the context of your message what it means to know Christ. Regardless of what your topic is, make it clear what it means to be a believer. Don’t try to cram a one-hour Bible study into a 15-minute service or you will overwhelm these guys. Don’t talk over their head; they don’t need to know the Greek meaning of words. Give some practical application for them and challenge them at the end. Drive home one point leaving them with something to think about and they’ll remember it.
Don’t Be Controversial
A 15-minute chapel service is not the time to touch on issues that divide the body of Christ. Making statements about a particular denomination or controversial issues will only drive some players away and keep them from hearing the Gospel. Make the most of your opportunity.
Treat Players Like Anyone Else
Don't try to “fit in” or talk about your interest as a fan. Talking about their relationship with Christ rather than their career is refreshing to them. You do not need to psych them up; our goal is to lift up Jesus Christ. Don’t discuss how the team is doing or anything that may indicate to them that you are just another fan wanting to talk about baseball. Relax and be yourself and allow God to speak through you.
Watch Your Time
Don’t run over the time allotted. Making players late for batting practice will cause serious problems for our ministry. Schedules often change at the last minute so be flexible and adapt. Be prepared to give your message in 5 minutes if necessary. Time is very limited, so introduce yourself and do not elaborate on your background. Use every second you have inThe Word.
Do Not
-bring guests, a camera, a recorder, baseball cards, etc.
-ask/solicit players for anything (speaking appearances, autographs, etc).
-pass anything out without prior approval from us (including your business card).
-wear shorts, jeans, tennis shoes, t-shirts or a baseball cap (we recommend casual slacks and a collared shirt).
PLAYER EVALUATION
This is a tool to evaluate the guys you are intentional with. The intent is not to judge – but to try and get an idea of where each person is in his spiritual journey.
Feed those who are Hungry. Love those who are not.
Place the names of the players in the appropriate category and place the corresponding number(s) next to the name according to their participation.
1- Chapel
2- Bible Study
3- one-on-one
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OFF-SEASON CONTACT INFORMATION
NAME: _______________________________________________________________
SPOUSE’S NAME: (if married)____________________________________________
HOME STREET ADDRESS: ________________________________________________
CITY: ____________________________STATE: ______________ZIP: ____________
COUNTRY(if outside the U.S.A.): ____________________________
CELL PHONE: Area Code_________ Number________-____________
HOME PHONE: Area Code_________Number________-____________
E-MAIL ADDRESS: ______________________________@______________________
WINTER BALL: Country: _____________________ Team: ____________________
We encourage you to attend church regularly during the off-season so you may worship The Lord and have fellowship with other believers. If you don’t have a home church and would like us to help recommend one in your area, please indicate below and we will contact you.
Many players are involved in Bible studies with other players during the off-season, so
if you would like information regarding a study in your area please check the box below.
__________Yes, I would like a church recommendation.
__________Yes, I would like information about Bible studies.
Other Comments: ______________________________________________________________
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If this form is not collected mail to Baseball Chapel, PO Box 302, Springfield, PA 19064-0302
Player Involvement
PREPARING YOUR TESTIMONY
“Be ready at all times to answer anyone who asks you to explain the hope that you have in you, but do it with gentleness and respect.” (1 Peter 3:15)
Everyone who has accepted Jesus Christ as personal Savior has a testimony. Every day presents opportunities to tell someone else about your relationship with the Lord. You may initiate the conversation or you may respond to a question which opens the door for you to tell someone what God has done for you and what He can do in their life.
PRAY
Ask the Holy Spirit to direct and use your story for God’s glory.
PLAN CONTENT
▪ Point of Conversion: when you confessed to God your need to be saved from eternal separation and placed your faith in Jesus Christ.
▪ Point of Dedication: Some who accept Christ at an early age build their testimony around a point later in their life when they totally surrendered their life to Christ. Emphasize that Jesus died on the cross to pay for your sins, and that He loves you so much He would have died for you, individually.
▪ How Christ Has Changed Your Life: What areas have changed? What biblical principles have made a difference in your marriage, your thought life, your behavior, your priorities?
▪ The Need For Christ: Show them their need like Peter did in Acts 2. He explained who Christ was, why He had to die and what His death accomplished. Emphasize that each person needs to decide for himself.
▪ Use Scripture: Be sure to highlight a few verses that hold special meaning to you and that will validate your point. Include salvation texts such as: Romans 3:23; 5:6-8; 10:9-10; 10:13; John 3 is also a good passage as are the Scriptures used in the Four Spiritual Laws.
PRESENTATION:
▪ Be Yourself: Don’t try to be someone you are not; don’t use a lot of religious jargon and don’t assume that everyone in the audience is a Christian.
▪ Be Relational: Don’t preach - share how God changed your life and how He can change their life.
▪ Be Positive: Don’t tear down other people or attack a denomination.
TESTIMONY WORKSHEET
Theme (what one point you don’t want the audience to forget)
Attention Getter (joke, bold statement, personal experience)
Background (growing up, life as a ball player)
(people listen because you are a pro athlete. Share some of your experiences with them)
Events leading up to your decision to become a follower of Christ
(what was happening in your life and how God began to draw you towards himself)
Your decision
(be specific - where were you, how did it happen, how did you respond)
Following your decision (how has God worked in your life)
How can others meet Jesus Christ like you did
*use Scripture
*show the need for Christ
*Challenge them to make a personal decision
*Give them an opportunity to receive Christ
*Urge them to tell someone and get plugged in for follow up
EVALUATING SPEAKING REQUESTS
Requests for involvement with various ministries come in the form of interviews, appearances, speaking engagements, autograph signings, and financial commitments. Baseball Chapel wants to provide you with Biblical and practical principles to use in evaluating requests.
▪ Avoid quick decisions. Pray for wisdom in considering each request and ask if this is the best place to spend your time. (James 1:5).
▪ Consult mature believers who are experienced whom you have confidence in (Proverbs 15:22). Your Baseball Chapel Minister is familiar with the religious community in his area.
▪ If you are married, discuss it with your wife before making any commitment. Pray about the specific opportunity with her. Some marriages get stressed more because of the constant demands on your time. On home stands, your biggest ministry need might be time spent with your family. Your wife is often more in tune with your struggles as a husband and father and God may use her to keep you from neglecting your responsibilities at home for the sake of “doing ministry.”
▪ Check their website to learn about the ministry and it’s leadership. Request a doctrinal statement, read it and ask any pertinent questions. If you are considering a financial donation, ask for financial information. Any hesitancy to disclose this information should be cause for concern.
▪ Helpful information to acquire when considering a ministry opportunity includes:
• What is the purpose of the event (evangelistic, motivational, fund raiser, etc.)?
• Who are the other participants?
• How much total time are they asking of you and how much time will you have to speak?
• Do they want you to deliver a message or will it be in an interview or Q&A format?
• Who is the audience (men, kids, father-son, etc.)?
• What would be appropriate to wear?
• Is there a Bible translation (NIV, NASV, KJV, etc.) to prefer that you use?
• Are you expected to sign autographs or pose with people for photographs?
• Will any media be present?
• Are you expected to cover your own expenses if travel is involved? You may be asked if you have a speaking fee. Many players leave an honorarium to the discretion of the event host. Some players have asked that honorariums be directed to Baseball Chapel or another ministry.
▪ Helpful information to acquire when considering a ministry opportunity includes: In preparation for speaking opportunities, we encourage you to write out your testimony of faith in Jesus Christ (1 Peter 3:15). A simple 3-point outline is ideal. The pattern used by Paul in Galatians 1:13-24 is before conversion (vv. 13-14), conversion (15-16a), after conversion (16b 24). You can order baseball testimony cards that you can use at speaking opportunities and in replying to fan mail. The card has an action photo on front and your testimony of faith in Christ on the back. We can show you samples, help you prepare your testimony and assist in placing your order.
▪ Be careful when giving out your address/phone number. If you do, make it clear you want it kept confidential. To eliminate any problem is to ask people to contact to your Chapel guy.
▪ Be cautious of ministries that want you to connect them with your teammates or other athletes. Do not give out contact information for teammates and other players without their permission.
SPEAKING REQUEST INFORMATION
TYPE OF EVENT (Be specific): _____________________________________________
OGANIZATION or CHURCH: _____________________________________________
DATE OF EVENT: ___________________ TIME: _____________________________
LOCATION OF EVENT (include site and city/state): ___________________________
TIME OF PROGRAM / SERVICE / DINNER BEGINS: __________________________
TIME SPEAKER SHARES: ______________
LENGTH OF TALK: ___________________
TYPE OF TALK (testimony, Q&A, interview, message) ___________________________
THEME / TOPIC: __________________________________________________________
EXPECTED ATTENDANCE AND TARGET AUDIENCE (specific age group or type): ___________________________________________________________________________
NEAREST MAJOR AIRPORT (if needed): DISTANCE FROM AIRPORT TO VENUE:
FINANCES (How much do you plan to invest in honorarium + expenses): _____________
WHAT IS THE PLAN FOR FOLLOW-UP OF DECISIONS: EXPLAIN. ____________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________
CONTACT NAME: _________________________________
ADDRESS:__________________________________________________________________
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PHONE NUMBER: __________________________________
E-MAIL ADDRESS: _________________________________
MISCELLANEOUS INFO : __________________________________________________
TESTIMONY CARD ORDER FORM
To submit an order, please email Steve Sisco: discipleship@
Requirements
1. Your Photo (minimum 300 dpi)
2. Your Testimony (Word file or any text file, 300 words max)
If you need help writing your testimony, Baseball Chapel can help. We have a document called “Preparing Your Testimony” that will walk you through the process. Ask your Chapel guy to print a copy for you from his web menu. Visit for examples of testimonies written by other players.
3. Shipping Address
4. Billing Address
5. Choose Standard (3-5 weeks) or Rush Order (3-5 days with no gloss coating)
6. Cost
1,000 cards - approximately $100 ($300 for rush order)
add $50 for each additional 1,000 cards ($75 for rush orders)
Note: Baseball Chapel is willing to cover the cost of an additional 1,000 cards for minor league players for standard orders (not rush orders).
Suggested bio information
Date of Birth:
Place of Birth: or Hometown:
Bats:
Throws:
Wife’s name:
Child’s name(s):
School/College:
Year drafted:
Reference
BAPTISMAL SERVICE GUIDELINES
Occasionally, Baseball Chapel ministers are asked to perform baptisms. The following guidelines and policies are provided for your convenience; however, you may decline the opportunity if your personal conviction prohibits you from performing the ordinance.
Biblical Principles:
▪ In the last of His instructions to the disciples, Jesus commanded that they make disciples and baptize them in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit (Matt 28:19-20). As a result, baptism is recognized as one of the most important ordinances of the Christian faith. It is recognized as an imperative aspect of the discipleship process. Ministers are encouraged to assist and/or conduct baptismal services in conjunction with their local church.
▪ Baptism has been established as a symbol of spiritual cleansing through divine forgiveness and the death of “the old life” of believers in order to identify with Christ in His death and resurrection (Rom 6:3-4; 1 Cor 12:13; Gal 3:26-27; Col 2:12). It represents a recognition of the atoning death of Jesus Christ and an admission that a relationship with God only occurs through Jesus. Therefore, preparation for the baptismal service must include a confirmation of these beliefs on the part of the person to be baptized.
▪ The Biblical requirement for salvation is repentance from sins followed by baptism (Acts 2:41; 8:12; 10:47-48). We recognize the ordinance of baptism as a symbol for identifying oneself with the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ. As such, it is a public profession of faith identifying the new believer before the community of believers, the Body of Christ. Baptism is not salvific, but does represent obedience to the commands of Jesus Christ.
Baseball Chapel Policies:
▪ One-on-one discipleship is required before a Baseball Chapel Minister can conduct a baptism. This discipleship need only be one study, but must include a direct affirmation of the necessity of repenting from sins and a commitment to follow Jesus Christ in obedience to His commands.
▪ Expenses related to a baptismal service should be covered by the individual, which should be made clear before you agree to participate.
Practical Suggestions:
Invited Guests – Because baptism is an outward affirmation of an inward change, it is meant to be a public affirmation of faith in Jesus Christ. Because baptism is an outward declaration of a decision to follow Jesus Christ, it is essential to have other believers present at the service. These believers should be challenged to help this new believer to follow Jesus Christ.
Location – Baptism services can be done in a variety of locations, swimming pool, beach, lake. Baptism should be done, however, through your local church (if available) or a solid Bible-based church. We recommend a person be fully “immersed” unless a physical limitation prohibits this.
Outline For A Baptismal Service (15 – 30 minutes)
A combination of formality/informality will provide for the most powerful service. We want those present to understand the significance of the ordinance of baptism in the history of the church, yet we want to personalize it for the greatest impact on the lives of those present.
1) Welcome and Opening Prayer
2) Brief Explanation of Baptism
3) Time of Worship (if the group is large enough)
4) Reading of Scripture
5) Brief Message about Baptism and it’s significance
6) Presentation of the candidate(s) for Baptism – Affirmation of Faith; A series of questions should be asked:
1) Do you profess belief in Jesus Christ today?
2) Do you acknowledge that sin has separated you from a relationship with God, but with this act you are signifying your willingness to follow Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?
3) Do you trust in Christ alone for your salvation?
4) Will you do all that you can to uphold the public affirmation of faith that you make today, living for Christ daily, putting him first in all aspects of your life?
5) A question for the witnesses present: Will you do all that you can to love, support , and hold this person accountable to the affirmation of faith (he/she) makes today?
7) Baptism of the candidate(s) –
“I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit … ”
8)Time of Prayer and Thanksgiving
9)Benediction
Verses that can be used in the service:
Acts 2:41; 8:12; 10:47-48; Rom 6:3-4; 1 Cor 12:13; Gal 3:26-27; Col 2:12.
Baseball Chapel’s Ministry to Those Planning to Marry
Couples often ask someone from Baseball Chapel to conduct premarital counseling and/or their wedding ceremony. These guidelines and policies are provided for your reference; however, you may decline requests if your personal conviction keeps you from performing the ceremony. Since we do not provide ordination or licensure, you must be possess an ordination/license certificate.
Biblical Principles
▪ There are 3 possible marriages in a spiritual context: a union between two believers in Jesus Christ, a union between two unbelievers, and a union between a believer and unbeliever. While God recognizes all marriages, He warns against marriages in the third situation – between a believer and an unbeliever (2 Cor 6:14-18; Deut 7:3-4; Neh 13:23-27). Therefore, you have the freedom to participate in marriages of the first two categories but cannot assist, beyond initial counseling, in marriages of the third category.
▪ One boundary God has set forth for our protection and happiness is the prohibition of sex outside of marriage (Heb 13:4; Eph 5:3). Studies demonstrate that couples waiting until marriage to enjoy God’s gift of sex generally have a more stable and intimate relationship. Couples, especially believers, should be challenged to abstain from sexual activity until they can enjoy it in the context of marriage with God’s blessing (1 Cor 7:2-5; Songs 7:10-13). Some couples advocate living together while refraining from sex. While the practical difficulties are obvious, believers need to be reminded of God’s command to avoid the appearance of evil (Rom 14:16; 1 Thes 5:22).
▪ Whether a marriage is between believers or unbelievers, it is important that Jesus Christ is represented accurately (Col 3:17, 23; 1 Cor 10:31). This can be reflected in your role in officiating or through input you provide regarding vows, readings, prayers, and other aspects of the ceremony. The fact that an unbelieving couple would ask you to have a role in their wedding indicates some measure of sensitivity to God and His truths.
Baseball Chapel Policies:
▪ Ideally, 3-6 one-hour sessions of premarital counseling are required before you can officiate at a couple’s wedding. Length and content of counseling may vary given the age and prior marital status. Counseling should address God’s perspective on the most common areas of marital problems: communication, sexual intimacy, finances and extended family issues.
▪ Expenses related to premarital counseling or officiating a wedding ceremony should be covered by the couple and you should make that clear before you agree to participate.
Practical Suggestions:
▪ When asked to provide premarital counseling and/or officiating a wedding ceremony, plan an initial meeting with the couple before accepting or declining. This first meeting is an ideal opportunity to discuss the spiritual condition of each individual. Important items that may need to be discussed are the approval of their parents and their previous marital status. Also ask why they aren’t asking their pastor to perform the ceremony.
▪ If you are officiating a ceremony out of your home state, check with appropriate government officials regarding any credentials you may need to obtain.
▪ Materials we recommend as tools for premarital and marital counseling include:
The Complete Marriage Book by David and Jan Stoop
Strengthening your Marriage by Wayne Mack
A Lasting Promise by Scott Stanley (book on Communication)
The Complete Financial Guide for Young Couples by Larry Burkett (book on Finances)
Intended for Pleasure by Ed Wheat (book on Sexual Intimacy)
WEDDING CEREMONY TEMPLATE
Pastor and groom enter
Processional
Opening Remarks
Dearly beloved[ or Dear friends and loved ones] we are gathered here in the sight of God, and in the presence of this company, to unite ___________ and ___________ in holy matrimony. Marriage was the first human institution ordained by God in Eden and confirmed in Cana of Galilee by the presence of Jesus, and is declared by the Apostle Paul to be honorable among all men. It is therefore, not to be entered into lightly; but reverently and in the fear of God. It is fitting, therefore, that we should on this occasion; begin by asking God's blessing on this marriage service. Let us pray…
Presentation of Bride
Pastor -- Who gives this woman to be married to this man? Bride's Father -- Her mother and I do.
To the Congregation
Marriage is a joyous occasion. It is one of the most important events of our lives. In its sacredness and unity it is like the mystical relation between Christ and His Church and is therefore the most significant and binding covenant known in human relations.
From the Story of Creation in the book of Genesis chapter 2: “The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’... So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, ' for she was taken out of man.’ For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.”
In Ephesians chapter 5, the apostle Paul says this about marriage: “Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church-- for we are members of his body. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
In other words, a Christian marriage is a reminder of the payment for sin that God made in order to provide forgiveness of sins and eternal life for all who believe in Jesus name. God’s holiness demanded that sin be punished by death; but that would never satisfy His love so He did the only thing He could to satisfy both His holiness and His love. John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life.” In practice what I have said amounts to this: Let every one of you who is a husband, love his wife as he loves himself, and let the wife honor and love her husband."
To the Bride and Groom
It is your duty, ___________, to be to ___________ a considerate, tender, faithful, loving husband: to support, guide and cherish her in prosperity and trouble; to thoughtfully and carefully enlarge the place she holds in your life; to constantly show to her the tokens of your affection, to shelter her from danger, and to cherish her with an unalterable love, it being the command of God's Word, that husbands love their wives, even as Christ loved the Church and gave His own life for her.
[To Bride] It is your duty, _________, to be to _________ a considerate, tender, faithful, loving wife; to counsel, comfort and cherish him in prosperity and trouble; to give to him the unfailing evidences of your affection; to make the place he holds in your heart, broader and deeper; to reverence and love him. God’s Word commands that wives love their own husbands even as the church is subject unto Christ, and forsakes all others to cling to him with a love which fails not as long as you both shall live.
Let me charge you both to remember, that your future happiness is to be found in mutual patience, kindness, contentment, humility, unselfishness, perseverance, generosity, honesty, trust and affection. I strongly urge you both to preserve sacredly the privacies of your home, your marriage, and your heart.
Wedding Vows
If you are ready to assume the obligations and duties before God, as I have defined them, you will unite your hands and pledge your love and your lives to each other.
Pastor -- Do you, _(Groom)___, standing in the presence of God and these witnesses, solemnly pledge your faith to __(Bride)__ ? Do you promise to live with her according to God's ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony; do you promise to love her, comfort her, honor, and keep her, in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, keep yourself only unto her, and through God's grace to promise to be to her a faithful and devoted husband as long as you both shall live?
Groom -- I do.
Pastor – Do you, _(Bride)____, standing in the presence of God and these witnesses, solemnly pledge your faith to __(Groom)_? Do you promise to live with him according to God’s ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony, do you promise to love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, keep yourself only to him, and through God’s grace to promise to be to him a faithful and devoted wife as long as you both shall live?
Bride – I do.
Ring Vows
Pastor to Groom -- ________ , have you a token of your love for ___________ ?
(The best man hands the ring to the Minister.)
Pastor to Bride -- ________ , do you receive this ring in pledge of the same on your part?
Bride -- I do. (Groom puts ring on bride's finger.)
Pastor to Bride -- ________ , have you a token of your love for ___________ ?
(The maid of honor hands the ring to the minister.)
Pastor to Groom -- ________, do you receive this ring in pledge of the same on your part?
Groom -- I do. (Bride puts ring on groom's finger.)
The wedding ring is the outward and the visible sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites two hearts in endless love. The circle, the emblem of eternity; and the gold, the symbol of purity – illustrate how lasting and imperishable is the faith now pledged. Let the ring, a fit token of that which is pure and unending, continue to be a reminder to both of you of the seal of the vows in which you have both pledged your most solemn and sacred honor.
Matrimonial Prayer
Pronouncement
By the authority committed unto me as a Minister of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and by power vested in my by the State of, _________, I declare that ___________ and ___________ are now husband and wife, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, Amen. What God has joined together, let no one separate. You may now kiss your bride.
Presentation of the newlyweds
It is now my pleasure to be the first to introduce to you Mr. and Mrs. _______ .
Recessional
Understanding And Dealing With Grief And The Loss Of Life by Rev. John “TC” Megahan, Sr. tc.megahan@.
We all know that death is a part of life. In fact, death gives meaning to our existence because it reminds all of us that life is precious. After someone you love dies, you experience bereavement, which literally means "to be deprived by death." I speak from personal experience, that the loss of a loved one, and the journey of grief, can be a long and lonely experience. You may have the opportunity to minister to a player, coach, or family member who has experienced the death of a loved one. Ministering in times of bereavement can be very challenging, but also very rewarding.
When a death takes place, an individual may experience a wide range of emotions, even when the death is expected. When my wife and I lost our five-year-old son Shawn Michael in the summer of 2001, we experienced the personal pain of losing someone very dear to us, and our family. Many people report feeling an initial stage of numbness after first learning of a death, you are there, but you really aren’t completely aware of everything.
This numbness, I believe is one of God’s ways to help us slowly made the first steps of the difficult journey of grief. Keep in mind; everyone grieves differently and in his or her own time frame. There are many stages of lose that we experienced, but there is no real order to the grieving process. I can remember how frustrated I was to have someone tell me, “it’s been 3 weeks, are you pretty much ready to move on with your life?” I can tell you, at 3 weeks, I had only begun to understand and acknowledge my grief. I wasn’t finishing, I was just beginning.
As a minister you will be able to help make a difference in the lives of people, by sharing God’s love at a critical time. Let me remind you that people who are grieving, do not want pat answers or clichés. They want love and support, and they might ask you some tough questions. One of the questions is: Why? Why did my loved one have to die now? We were getting ready for a trip, or we just bought a new home. Why did it have to be them? Answers are not easy, however the answers can be found in God’s Word and you can be the one to share that hope and love.
Psalm 21:4 says " He asked you for life, and you gave it to him---length of days, forever and ever." That scripture is not talking about life on earth forever and ever, but rather in our real home, Heaven!
Ecclesiastes 3, says: "To everything there is a season. A time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, And a time to die."
" Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart, says the Lord." Psalm 139 tells us God knew the second we were going to be born, and the second we will die. He has a purpose for all of our lives, but when our day has come, we just go to our new home-Heaven.
It all sounds so grim to us, yet the Lord delights in seeing his children come home for good. Just like it would be if your child had been gone a very long time, then moved back for good. There are many answers to these and many more questions; yet, if the answers are not found, then the word of God says, "The Secret Things Belong To The Lord." We may not know the answer to an accident that claims a child’s life, or the murder of a Christian, but in time we certainly will know; when we see Our Lord and Savior Jesus, face to face.
Common Symptoms Feelings of denial, yearning, disbelief, anger, confusion, humiliation, shock, despair, sadness and guilt are normal and are common reactions to loss. You may not be prepared for the intensity and duration of your emotions or how swiftly your moods may change. You may even begin to doubt the stability of your mental health. It is important to be reassured that these feelings are healthy and appropriate. These expressions of powerful emotions help you come to terms with your loss. Remember, it takes time to fully absorb the impact of a major loss. You never stop missing a loved one, but the pain eases after time and this allows you to go on with your life. I don’t believe life will ever return to “normal”, but you will find a new “normal” in the context of your lose.
Mourning A Loved One It is not easy to cope after a loved one dies. You will mourn and grieve. Mourning is the natural process you go through to accept a major loss. Mourning may include religious traditions honoring the dead or gathering with friends and family to share your loss. Mourning is personal and may last months or years. Grieving is the outward expression of your loss. Grief is likely to be expressed both physically and psychologically. Keep in mind that while grief is very natural after a loss, Depression can be very difficult for the individual to overcome. For instance, crying is a physical expression, while depression is a psychological expression. It is very important to allow yourself to express your feelings. Often, death is a subject that is avoided, ignored or denied. At first it may seem helpful to separate yourself from the pain or ignore your feelings, but you cannot avoid grieving forever. Someday those buried feelings will need to be resolved or they may cause physical or emotional illness. Many people report physical symptoms that accompany grief. Stomach pain, loss of appetite, intestinal upsets, sleep disturbances and loss of energy are all common symptoms of acute grief. Of all life’s stresses, mourning can seriously test your natural defense systems. Existing illnesses may worsen or new conditions may develop. Profound emotional reactions may occur. These reactions include anxiety attacks, chronic fatigue, depression and thoughts of suicide. An obsession with the deceased is also a common reaction to death.
Dealing With A Major Loss The death of a loved one or close friend is always difficult. Your reactions are influenced by the circumstances of a death, particularly when it is sudden or accidental. Your reactions also are influenced by your relationship with the person who died.
• A child’s death arouses an overwhelming sense of injustice for lost potential, unfulfilled dreams and senseless suffering. Parents may feel responsible for the child’s death, no matter how irrational that may seem. Parents may also feel that they have lost a vital part of their own identity.
• A spouse’s death is very traumatic. In addition to the severe emotional shock, the death may cause a potential financial crisis if the spouse was the family’s main income source. The death may necessitate major social adjustments requiring the surviving spouse to parent alone, adjust to single life and maybe even return to work. Elderly people may be especially vulnerable when they lose a spouse because it means losing a lifetime of shared experiences. At this time, feelings of loneliness may be compounded by the death of close friends.
• A loss due to suicide or tragedy can be one of the most difficult losses to bear. It may leave the survivors with a tremendous burden of guilt, anger and shame. They may even feel responsible for the death. Often, survivors benefit from professional advice to cope with this devastating experience. Seeking counseling as a family unit during the first weeks after the a death is particularly beneficial and advisable.
Living With Grief Coping with death is vital to your mental health. It is natural to experience grief when a loved one dies so allow yourself to grieve. There are many ways to effectively cope with your pain.
• Seek out caring people. Find relatives and friends who can understand your feelings of loss. Join support groups with others who are experiencing similar losses.
• Express your feelings. Tell others how you are feeling; it will help you to work through the grieving process.
• Take care of your health. Maintain regular contact with your family physician and be sure to eat well and get plenty of rest. Be aware of the danger of developing a dependence on medication or alcohol to deal with your grief.
• Accept that life is for the living. It takes effort to begin to live again in the present and not dwell on the past.
• Postpone major life changes. Try to hold off on making any major changes, such as moving, remarrying, changing jobs or having another child. You should give yourself time to adjust to your loss.
• Be patient. It can take months or years to absorb a major loss and accept your changed life.
• Seek outside help when necessary. If your grief seems like it is too much to bear, seek professional assistance to help come to terms with your loss and work through your grief. It’s a sign of strength, not weakness, to seek help.
Helping Others Grieve If someone you care about has lost a loved one, you can help them through the grieving process.
• Share the sorrow. Allow them even encourage them to talk about their feelings of loss and share memories of the deceased.
• Don’t offer false comfort. It doesn’t help the grieving person when you say "it was for the best" or "you’ll get over it in time." Instead, offer a simple expression of sorrow and take time to listen.
• Offer practical help. Baby-sitting, cooking and running errands are all ways to help someone who is in the midst of grieving.
• Be patient. Remember that it can take a long time to recover from a major loss. Make yourself available to talk.
• Encourage professional help when necessary. Don’t hesitate to recommend professional help when you feel someone is experiencing too much pain to cope alone.
Helping Children Grieve Children who experience a major loss may grieve differently than adults. A parent’s death can be particularly difficult for small children, affecting their sense of security or survival. Often, they are confused about the changes they see taking place around them, particularly if well-meaning adults try to protect them from the truth or from their surviving parent’s display of grief. Limited understanding and an inability to express feelings puts very young children at a special disadvantage. Young children may revert to earlier behaviors (such as bed-wetting), ask questions about the deceased that seem insensitive, invent games about dying or pretend that the death never happened. Coping with a child’s grief puts added strain on a bereaved parent. However, angry outbursts or criticism only deepen a child’s anxiety and delay recovery. Instead, talk honestly with children, in terms they can understand. Take extra time to talk with them about death and the person who has died. Help them work through their feelings and remember that they are looking to adults for suitable behavior.
Looking To The Future With support, patience and effort, you will survive grief. Some day the pain will lessen, leaving you with cherished memories of your loved one. We need to keep looking to the Lord, trusting Him.
False Doctrine
As Christians what we believe is important. There are essentials to the Christian faith with which Christians throughout history have wrestled, fought and articulated. Obviously, these doctrines center on the person and work of Jesus Christ, but they extend to many other areas. For this reason, churches and other ministries (like Baseball Chapel) articulate what is essential to the purposes of their ministry through documents known as doctrinal statements. The purpose of this paper is to identify the biblical admonitions to hold to sound doctrine and to identify what Baseball Chapel holds to as non-negotiable elements of Christian doctrine for conducting ministry under its supervision.
There are many issues within Christian theology over which Christians can disagree. Topics such as eschatology (the doctrine of the end times) and ecclesiology (the study of the church) have been debated and disagreed about for centuries. However, those on the various sides of these issues realize these are minor issues and should not divide or cause those who feel strongly about them to break fellowship. The New Testament makes clear that there is an essential teaching or doctrine that delineates Christian from non-Christian belief. Paul claims to have passed this teaching down to the churches he planted in the first-century (2 Thessalonians 3:6). Moreover, it is by holding to this doctrine Christians learn how to obey God (Romans 6:17). Therefore, doctrine is important to Christian belief AND Christian practice: all Christian identity, what we know and what we do, rests in holding to Christian tradition.
A second major issue regarding false doctrine is also apparent from the writings of the New Testament: namely, that our inability to recognize true from false teaching is a clear indicator of our spiritual growth. In Ephesians 4, Paul articulates the importance of unity among the community of believers. This unity is maintained and strengthened by the spiritual gifts given to believers after the ascension of Jesus Christ. This unity is based in the knowledge of the Son of God enabling us to become mature and, in Paul’s words, “attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Jesus Christ” (Ephesians 4:13). That is, our Christian growth is vitally dependent on holding to sound doctrine. Paul highlights that those who do not hold to sound doctrine are like “infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming” (Ephesians 4:14).
In order to identify true from false doctrine, it is important to consider the source of the teaching. From the time of the New Testament, followers of Jesus Christ have battled false teachers who have sought personal recognition and financial gain rather than maintaining the “sound instruction of Jesus Christ”. Timothy, Paul’s young protégé was told, “If anyone teaches false doctrines and does not agree to the sound instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ and to godly teaching, he is conceited and understands nothing. He has an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions and constant friction between men of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain” (1 Timothy 6:3–5). Paul delineates several characteristics in these verses that help to identify a false teacher: conceited, controversial, and disagreeable. Moreover, the followers of a false teacher will be envious and given to debating over these controversial issues. As we seek to identify false doctrine, it is imperative that we examine the behavior of those we suspect of teaching outside the Christian tradition.
True teaching is centered on the Gospel of Jesus Christ. In fact, in the opening verses of Romans Paul identifies some of the essential characteristics of the Gospel. He writes, “Paul, a servant of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle and set apart for the gospel of God-- the gospel he promised beforehand through his prophets in the Holy Scriptures regarding his Son, who as to his human nature was a descendant of David, and who through the Spirit of holiness was declared with power to be the Son of God by his resurrection from the dead: Jesus Christ our Lord” (Romans 1:1–4). This verse highlights the three persons of the Christian Godhead: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. True Christian doctrine believes the three Persons of the Godhead are one God having the exact same nature and attributes. Any denial of this represents false doctrine.
It is important to recognize nearly all false doctrine will err on the person, work and nature of Jesus Christ. In Romans 1, Paul demonstrates the main points upon which false teachers will stumble. First, that Jesus was fully God and fully human as we mentioned in our discussion of the Trinity. Paul acknowledges Jesus’ human relationship to David and divine relationship as Son of God. In discerning false doctrine, closely examine teaching regarding Christ’s nature. A second main point to examine is the resurrection. Christians have always believed in a physical, bodily resurrection of Jesus Christ. The Romans passage indicates that it was the resurrection that identified Jesus power. In 1 Corinthians 15, Paul notes that a failure to believe in Christ’s resurrection from the dead leaves a person with no hope for the removal of sin (the purpose for Jesus’ death!). False teachers throughout the history of the church have misrepresented the resurrection, teaching things like the necessity of Jesus atoning for sins in hell rather than on the Cross. It is always important to observe what is taught regarding the resurrection.
Those who teach false doctrine will also obscure the extent of the work of Christ. In Colossians 2:15, Paul notes Jesus made a “pubic spectacle” of Satan and demons. Scripture teaches that God allows Satan operate within this present world. However, Scripture is also clear about God’s control over Satan’s activities (see Job 1—2). The New Testament is clear that Christ’s victory over these principalities and powers is final and therefore Satan is unable to possess believers. False teachers will frequently attribute negative experience to demonic activity obscuring the work of Jesus Christ, human accountability and true biblical views of spiritual warfare.
Finally, a proper view of the Bible is essential to Christian doctrine. The Baseball Chapel statement of faith reflects the church’s teaching regarding Scripture: “We Believe the Bible, the Old and New Testaments to be equally and in all parts the inspired, infallible Word of God, ultimately authoritative for the Christian faith and life revealing God's will for the salvation of all people pointing to the coming of His Son Jesus Christ.” Because Scripture is the measuring rod for determining Christian belief and doctrine, it is essential to examine teaching and ensuring that it meets this criterion.
Peter’s admonition is helpful in understanding and combating false teaching: “[False teachers] will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them—bringing swift destruction on themselves. Many will follow their shameful ways and will bring the way of truth into disrepute. In their greed these teachers will exploit you with stories they have made up. Their condemnation has long been hanging over them, and their destruction has not been sleeping” (2 Peter 2:1–3). For this reason, it is imperative for Christians to become so familiar with Christian doctrine that they are able to quickly differentiate the true from the counterfeit.
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